girl help: ok theres this babe that im trying to get to go out with me but she says im not her type. - Help.com

Its her way of telling you she thinks your a douche.

how did you ask her out? what did you say?

maybe she think ur too good for her!!and to tell u the truth if ur a abercrombie guy it mostly like u get the blonde girl!!maybe that’s what she think!!idk

move on

No, she thinks you are bad for her image. That is all.
Perhaps she likes you, or hates you, or perhaps something else. Whatever it is, she is clearly too busy with her ego, then to think of you.
These girls, have usually just lost all sense of the things that are really important in life. Often, self-respect.

awww….tell her that she hasn’t know u yet!!!the outside might look different but the inside is good and she doesn’t know how u r yet!!

Man fight that!! She dosent even know you!! Dude if I were you, I wouldnt even want to get with a girl like that, but dude show her who you are, just sweet talk her into doing something with you as friends, maybe make it a group thing, I mean if she completley shuts you down, at least she got a chance to know WHO she was shuttting down, but alot of girl dont know what they want, you can change that.

vballnut15 wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
awww….tell her that she hasn’t know u yet!!!the outside might look different but the inside is good and she doesn’t know how u r yet!!

No girl since Adam and Eve has been persuaded into liking a guy. Ever.

Oh how wrong you are my friend :)

that is a classic. girls play that game all the time. when i say that i really want them to kno that i am not interested. maybe she is afraid of getting hurt…

then tell her that u really like her!!n no matter what if she a skinny jean girl n ur a abercrombie guy there no different in that!!!it may matter to her but if she like u too then it doesn’t matter at all!!!

Anonymous wrote:
then tell her that u really like her!!n no matter what if she a skinny jean girl n ur a abercrombie guy there no different in that!!!it may matter to her but if she like u too then it doesn’t matter at all!!!

madtad1 wrote:
that is a classic. girls play that game all the time. when i say that i really want them to kno that i am not interested. maybe she is afraid of getting hurt…

Yep!!

yeah did you tell her that was a lame excuse? and that labels don’t matter to you? ask her for one chance to prove her wrong. what has she got to lose?

Maybe she doesn’t like being referred to as a ‘babe’.

jcd wrote:
Maybe she doesn’t like being referred to as a ‘babe’.

haha sorry but i dont kno ne girls that dont like that. i get that all the time

madtad1 wrote:

jcd wrote:
Maybe she doesn’t like being referred to as a ‘babe’.

haha sorry but i dont kno ne girls that dont like that. i get that all the time

Most of the girls I know don’t like it.

I know some that dont, some that do…

oh everyone at my school and my town love it! haha

no i don’t mind it either. it’s like a compliment in male terms.

good. as long as you don’t try to use it negatively you should be in the safe zone

sportslif wrote:
if she doesnt like you she doesnt like yu.

sometime u just got to try!!!who know whats going to happen??he might get a chance!!

sportslif wrote:
if she doesnt like you she doesnt like yu.

She does like him…

She dosent want to go out with him cause of his look…

that’s the spirit. you’ll get her and maybe you’ll learn how to spell. lol jk

malori wrote:
that’s the spirit. you’ll get her and maybe you’ll learn how to spell. lol jk

yep you are right

you better!! don’t wimp out dude!

sportslif wrote:
shesaid no tho…i dnt get why you would ask her out again

Cause she is being stuck up and judgemental, And only a punk gives in to that.

well because maybe he didnt ask her out the right way…… i dont mean that in a bad in a bad way

Anonymous Nante wrote:

sportslif wrote:
shesaid no tho…i dnt get why you would ask her out again

Cause she is being stuck up and judgemental, And only a punk gives in to that.

oh no you’re not!!

why would u guys think she is judgemental? she said no. big deal. i say no to guys all the time when they ask me out.

sportslif wrote:
ughhh i dont get you……shes gunna think of you as being pathedic i always do when a guy asks me out more than once after i said no..wouldnt you rather just be friends than her thinking of yu badly

no. your a different situation. he should go for it!!

malori wrote:

Anonymous Nante wrote:

sportslif wrote:
shesaid no tho…i dnt get why you would ask her out again

Cause she is being stuck up and judgemental, And only a punk gives in to that.

oh no you’re not!!

No hes not.

im_in_a_band wrote:
im no punk!!

I know that, you gotta show her,

madtad1 wrote:
why would u guys think she is judgemental? she said no. big deal. i say no to guys all the time when they ask me out.

Cause, well maybe not, but still to not want to date a guy you like cause of how he dresses? thats stupid.

yes it’s her choice if she doesn’t like you as a person but if she won’t look past your shirt than he desreves a second chance. i’m not meaning to sound mean but i’m sure your not meaning to sound dense.

*deserves

malori wrote:
yes it’s her choice if she doesn’t like you as a person but if she won’t look past your shirt than he desreves a second chance. i’m not meaning to sound mean but i’m sure your not meaning to sound dense.

Exactly7, Ill be dammed (sorry for language) Before anybody judges me on what I wear before they know me, he deserves just that, for her to at least know him.

Your welcome man :)

exactly what i mean. she said no because of what he was wearing not for his personality or his actions. that’s chauvinistic.

oh and your welcome dear.

omg. we aren’t trying to change that. we asking her to take a second look beyond just what stores he shops at. we aren’t making her go out with him we are just asking for a second chance.

malori wrote:
omg. we aren’t trying to change that. we asking her to take a second look beyond just what stores he shops at. we aren’t making her go out with him we are just asking for a second chance.

Yeah, Besides she DOES like him, she said thats not why she wouldnt go out with him.

how could you not?

holy cow now your’re catching on…

sportslif wrote:
no im not…..shes doesnt really like him if she did she wouldnt care about his clothes

im_in_a_band wrote:

Anonymous Nante wrote:
Man fight that!! She dosent even know you!! Dude if I were you, I wouldnt even want to get with a girl like that, but dude show her who you are, just sweet talk her into doing something with you as friends, maybe make it a group thing, I mean if she completley shuts you down, at least she got a chance to know WHO she was shuttting down, but alot of girl dont know what they want, you can change that.

thanks bra, yea im gonna fight it and hopefully she goes for me. and yes malori i said thats the worst excuse ive ever heard if u dont like me just say so and ill back off. then she waz like oh its not that i do like u but just i dont think wed ever end up as anything. just annoying

.

he said they haven’t spent enough time for her to judge him other than by his clothes. why are you being so negative we are trying to HELP him not make him feel like he’ll never get a girl.

Anonymous Nante wrote:

sportslif wrote:
no im not…..shes doesnt really like him if she did she wouldnt care about his clothes

im_in_a_band wrote:

Anonymous Nante wrote:
Man fight that!! She dosent even know you!! Dude if I were you, I wouldnt even want to get with a girl like that, but dude show her who you are, just sweet talk her into doing something with you as friends, maybe make it a group thing, I mean if she completley shuts you down, at least she got a chance to know WHO she was shuttting down, but alot of girl dont know what they want, you can change that.

thanks bra, yea im gonna fight it and hopefully she goes for me. and yes malori i said thats the worst excuse ive ever heard if u dont like me just say so and ill back off. then she waz like oh its not that i do like u but just i dont think wed ever end up as anything. just annoying.

i’m glad your gonna try again. just talk to her.

me too. :)

sportslif wrote:
seriously for all the other girls in this post if a guy asked you out mor than once after you said no…would yu not think they were pathedic

If you liked the guy though

no i wouldnt. im not trying to be well full of myself but im on the cheer squad so i get it alot.

not if i didn’t get to know him first. what’s the point in saying no the first time you see him? you can’t just judge them on how they look.

im_in_a_band wrote:
i will.

sportslif wrote:
seriously for all the other girls in this post if a guy asked you out mor than once after you said no…would yu not think they were pathedic

theres really no reason to. thats the way guys are supposed to be in my opinion, persistant. go after what they want till they finaly get it.

exactly who wants a wimpy guy who slinks away at the first sign of a challenge?

theres really no reason to. thats the way guys are supposed to be in my opinion, persistant. go after what they want till they finaly get it.[/quote]

good for u!

im_in_a_band wrote:
i will.

sportslif wrote:
seriously for all the other girls in this post if a guy asked you out mor than once after you said no…would yu not think they were pathedic

theres really no reason to. thats the way guys are supposed to be in my opinion, persistant. go after what they want till they finaly get it.

Exactly, if its something other then her just not liking you, what kind of wimp gives up?

Im in a band isnt a wimp am I right?

he’s not going to make her say yes to him he’s just ASKING FOR A SECOND CHANCE!!!!!!!!!!!!! not marriage and children and mortgages!!!!! just one more LITTLE chance!

agreed

ask her out next time you see her. she’ll remember why she said no nd also she’ll be IMPRESSED with your dedication.

Yes!! finally we all agree!!

and no im_in_a_band is not a wimp.

malori wrote:
and no im_in_a_band is not a wimp.

Yep i knew that :)

good luck doll!

Thats the Im_in_a_band we know! Good luck!

You’re not her type because of how you -dress-?

And you want to be with her why…?

“babe”? lol.

Your clothes do express a lot about your personality though right?

If she’s not willing to get to know you enough to see past what you wear, she is totally not worth it.

I always thought I had a “type” too. but I dated one guy outside that “type” and it was probably the most successful relationship I have ever had. Now, I don’t got for “types”. If they strike my fancy and we get along; heck yeah!

Wow Bad. Sounds like a fulfilling relationship you have there.

Tari lovin Kieran wrote:
look shes blatently an emo so either change ur style or give upand wat is it with quarterbacks?wats so great about them

Little brains nice bodies? Gives a girl something to look at, and something easy to control, now thats love! hehehe Just kidding and She shouldnt care what he wears….

‘converse girl and your a preppy abercrombie guy’
what does converse, preppy and abercrombie mean?
thanks for whoever will answer :)

Bad wrote:
I guess it’s because we rule the whole game. thousands are there, praying for me to win the game for them. No girl I care about is emo. You must be. Emo people are losers. Being emo isn’t, just needing to adverstise it is. Her body and face are perfect. Her grades are perfect. She is everything. What people wear just shows how able they are at getting along. If clothes don’t matter, then wear what is appropriate.

Well I dont think clothes should matter, but Im with you on the emo stuff.

spiritedsoul wrote:
‘converse girl and your a preppy abercrombie guy’
what does converse, preppy and abercrombie mean?
thanks for whoever will answer :)

converse = brand of shoe… http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I…
preppy = clean cut… http://girlrenegade.org/pics/2003_nov…
abercrobmie = brand of clothing… http://www.abercrombie.com/anf/index….

cool cheers steff.
so pretty much types of clothing

spiritedsoul wrote:
cool cheers steff.so pretty much types of clothing

Exactly…

Bad wrote:
converse. bad *** BBall shoe. wear unlacedPreppy. I’m going to an Ivy Leauge School cause daddy can write the checkAbercibmie. company spends alot on advertising. my GF told me she would hit the A’c boy in a second.

Thats not true, clothes dont mean nothing and you dont know what school an aberciibie guy went to and you sure dont know anything about his daddy’s checks.

Bad wrote:
you must have ADHD you didnt read what I said

Bad wrote:
converse. bad *** BBall shoe. wear unlacedPreppy. I’m going to an Ivy Leauge School cause daddy can write the checkAbercibmie. company spends alot on advertising. my GF told me she would hit the A’c boy in a second.

Okay..are you going to an ivy leauge school?

Bad wrote:
I am a senior, still in high school. Im the quarterback. why are you responding here if you don’t have the time to read the responses. Wasting my Time, Hate It

What the **** are you saying dude you said Wear unlaced preppy, I’m going to an ivy leauge school cause daddy can write the check abercibmie. Company spends alot on advertising. My GF told me she would hit the A’C boy in a second, I just dont get it, you were talking about abercibmie no?

Bad wrote:
someone shouted me. weird. told me you have other names in this chat. I may only be a quaterback but I am pretty smart. Lets get back to the person that asked the question.

Dude…your shout box says zero…honest much?

Bad wrote:
Dude, insecure, much? get your own post

I have lots, jerk…And im far from insecure, sheesh do you have to be an a$$ much?

Bad wrote:
ok, now. You are being abusive. You are very insecure. Stop talking to me and let the dude that posted this get a few words in.

He did, and you started it you said I have ADHD, and hes not here but Ill stop talking wit hyou, I think ill go have pie, seeya later :) and im to handsome to be insecure, your insecure….but its okay never mind sorry for going back and foeth with you we cool :)

Seriously you are douche for letting that happen. You should just say i wasn’t asking you on a date. Or just punch her on the head

Tari lovin Kieran wrote:

Bad wrote:
you must have ADHD you didnt read what I said

shut up i have ADHD

See he did start it…

Sheesh…somebody is being mean…

Tari lovin Kieran wrote:
*** u im only 14 and im not on medication im in top sets in all my subjecvts and an expected
A-A* in my gcse not many kids with adhd can do that

You have A’s, that’s kinda funny considering your pathetic grammar.

I hope she stands you up.

im_in_a_band wrote:
i dont think she iz. it waz pretty hard to talk her into it but after 30 mins of talking she finaly said ok we can hang out tommorow night if you take me to see batman cuz ive been dying to see that. soooo i ges were gona see bat man (:

Is there a reason you must use a z in is instead of an s?

No prob, you just refer to girls as babes.

That’s my prob.

im_in_a_band wrote:
ok im back, AND JUST SO EVERY ONE KNOWS, i called her up last night (got her numbr from her friend) and talked her into it. were goin out tommorow night. BOOOOYAAA

ahahahahahahahha!!!!!!!!!!1111111 WOOHOO I told you so…

live4anon wrote:

im_in_a_band wrote:
i dont think she iz. it waz pretty hard to talk her into it but after 30 mins of talking she finaly said ok we can hang out tommorow night if you take me to see batman cuz ive been dying to see that. soooo i ges were gona see bat man (:

Is there a reason you must use a z in is instead of an s?No prob, you just refer to girls as babes.That’s my prob.

he dosent mean it like that live, hes cool trust me :)

im_in_a_band wrote:
cuz Z iz badazz. and im so glad all babes arent like u

Thats a guy…

And congrats man!

~Nante the Jester~ wrote:

im_in_a_band wrote:
cuz Z iz badazz. and im so glad all babes arent like u

Thats a guy…And congrats man!

awkwardd

And fine, i guess i’ll take your word for it…

im_in_a_band wrote:
thankZ again haha

Any time brah, Dude I wish those girls who was against this yesterday could see you now.

Bad wrote:
my sister is in the 8th grade and was nothing. overnight she got so hot that I had to nearly punch her to make her settle down. Girls are smart

?!?!?!

are you aware your calling you zizter hot?

whoo hoo i told you you could do it. in your face sportslif or whatever the heck that girls name was! oh i feel sorta proud. *tears up*

malori wrote:
whoo hoo i told you you could do it. in your face sportslif or whatever the heck that girls name was! oh i feel sorta proud. *tears up*

how the frick have you never heard “lay down sally”? that’s like top ten clapton right there!

i know i missed it too. but i support nante 100%.

i would like to say i would have helped but i was in the middle of one yesterday and littlenick and live4 had things under control. i didn’t want to interfere. so i just kept changing the tags to ridiculously offensive things. i felt pretty useless.

malori wrote:

malori wrote:
whoo hoo i told you you could do it. in your face sportslif or whatever the heck that girls name was! oh i feel sorta proud. *tears up*

how the frick have you never heard “lay down sally”? that’s like top ten clapton right there!

I know! im feel like I heloped…

yeah i guess they kept calling him that. i’m pretty non confrontational unless provoked.

Punch her in the face?
Jokes, but seriously, try wearing skinny jeans and converse and then see what she says!

yes it is don’t change who you are and don’t try and make her change. just be yourselves.

Dame Malori wrote:
yes it is don’t change who you are and don’t try and make her change. just be yourselves.

I agree, but maybe it could prove a point, but either way she already said yes so WOOHOO!

vballnut15 wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
awww….tell her that she hasn’t know u yet!!!the outside might look different but the inside is good and she doesn’t know how u r yet!!

No girl since Adam and Eve has been persuaded into liking a guy. Ever.

IN YOUR FACE!!!

i agree with nante leave well enough alone and… IN YOUR FACE!!!

How does changing your clothes change who you are shes probably just shallow, but isnt everyone, most people will say otherwise but they are probably lying but seriously wearing somthing to impress a girl never hurt, but erm tooo late ill post it anyway

She thinks you’re too rich and preppy.

Haha a little late people….

“im_in_a_band”, you got your babe, you get your help, zo i think you zhould cloze thiz now.

he’z got a point, man. cloze thiz bizzitch

Fo shiznizzle!

lol i couldn’t rezizt.

lawlz i feelz dah zame way

oh my gozh i can’t ztop. help me. pleaze. zhit, i did it again. no more plural wordz for me.

zomg Malz, whaz we gunna doo?

guezz we gotzta avoidz wordz wit z’z in dem

Darn it, i can’t even zay dah lettah!

lolz i love how at the end you took on gangzta thug brooklyn azzent. it waz very endearing.

Fo rizzle?

Lolz yah, i beh a gangzta tillz i diehhh!

and yez Nante, fo rizzle mah nizzle d4wg

crikey there are no z’z in accent. what a dolt i am.

Thug life.

lawlziez i didnt catch dat

thug lyfe fo evz!

every time i say that i think os pineapple exprezz. i can’t wait to see it!!

nante howz could you nizzot catch that he zaid it in plain englizh. ztupid.

Lawlz i wanna zee dat shyte!!!!!
Rawflz, Nante’s not doznt hav mad zmartz lyke uz, gurlii

thankz playaz i really rezpect that in a man… bowing down to his bizzitch, that iz.

Lawlz i dun think u be undaztandin meh…

I dun bow 2 mah bizznitch, dey bow 2 meh!

If dey be diZobeyin me, i zlap dem upzide dah headZ!

oh. oh. oh. i zee i’ve made a miztake. i’m zorry zir. it won’t happen again.

NOT! you better bow down or i’ll make you cry like the little puzzy bizzitch you iz, capichez?? don’t make me pull out me nine and buzt capz in your azz.

LAWLZ!

DAmz, i ztill dun think yoo0h be undahztandinz.

Women ahr lyke propateehhz. I beh commandin mah hos like dey my pet kittenz, yah get meh now?

and you bettah nawt make MEH pull out mah gat and buzt some capz in yah azzz

do i have to remind you of the fight lazt week when i pulled out my mac 10 and you cried for oh about 2 HOURZ!! begging for merzy? i didn’t want to bring thiz up in front of your little baby homiez but now that you provoked me into a ztate of anger i can not back down from i’m going to make you regret talking to your woman that way. you will treat me differently from now on, underztand? and you better juzt agree if you know what’z bezt for your little punk azz.

nooooz dont remindz me i wanzted to foget dat incidentz!!!!

Darnzzz, finezz….

I beh treatinz yooh bettah babii gurlzzzz

okay that’z what i expected. now let’s go get some ice cream.

ok if she doesnt even want to give you a chance because of your choice of CLOTHES, then do you really think that she would be worth going out with anyway?

Dame Malori wrote:
okay that’z what i expected. now let’s go get some ice cream.

omg! you uzed an S!!!!!

but yeah, sure =)

n1lko wrote:
ok if she doesnt even want to give you a chance because of your choice of CLOTHES, then do you really think that she would be worth going out with anyway?

hahah you missed everything, the poster basically got the girl.

live4anon wrote:

Dame Malori wrote:
okay that’z what i expected. now let’s go get some ice cream.

omg! you uzed an S!!!!!

but yeah, sure =)

let’s do it. i want mango or strawberry, i’m feeling sort of fruity!!

Hahaha kk, your buying!

dude i don’t mess around when it comes to ice cream. you have to be dedicated. and frankly i wonder about your determination. you gotta give me some proof.

jcd wrote:
Maybe she doesn’t like being referred to as a ‘babe’.

I was just about to write this very thing!!!!

Dame Malori wrote:
cloze thiz bizzitch

seriously man it’s getting redundant!!!!