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i feel like i dont get noticed…. for example; my friends will start telling me a story and they would 4get… i was there!!!! or like my 1st year of college, i would meet new people and see them a day later and they had no idea who i was… mayb bc i am quiet but should i b forgotten? wouldn’t u b upset?

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Neutra offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 19 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Absolutely not, you shouldn’t be forgotten, your a person too, you should get the same respect as everyone else.

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Dan TL offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
La Mirada, CA, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (7 minutes after post)

I got that same problem, you find a solution be sure to let me know please

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Hellacious Haro offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (9 minutes after post)

I think you already know the answer to the question “I am quiet but should I be forgotten”.

I’m quiet too, although lately I started to opened up much more.
I think it’s about the connection you make with other people. If you’re more talkative people might remember you more.
Or if you smile a lot, some people will remember that.

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SingerInPurple offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (22 minutes after post)

Try to open up more, and if you really want people to remember you, give them a good reason to remember you…now don’t go taking that the wrong way, I mean, don’t take it to extremes…for example, when your friends are telling you a story, don’t forget to respond and show you’re interested verbaly by saying things like “oohh” “woah” “haha” etc at the right places…and try to smile more…be more confident with yourself…why are you even asking us if you should be forgotten (rhetorical question, but still!!)

http://www.videojug.com/film/how-can-…

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riv-riv offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (24 minutes after post)

SingerInPurple wrote:
Try to open up more, and if you really want people to remember you, give them a good reason to remember you…now don’t go taking that the wrong way, I mean, don’t take it to extremes…for example, when your friends are telling you a story, don’t forget to respond and show you’re interested verbaly by saying things like “oohh” “woah” “haha” etc at the right places…and try to smile more…be more confident with yourself…why are you even asking us if you should be forgotten (rhetorical question, but still!!)

http://www.videojug.com/film/how-can-…

thanks for the video

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SingerInPurple offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (27 minutes after post)

riv-riv wrote:

SingerInPurple wrote:
Try to open up more, and if you really want people to remember you, give them a good reason to remember you…now don’t go taking that the wrong way, I mean, don’t take it to extremes…for example, when your friends are telling you a story, don’t forget to respond and show you’re interested verbaly by saying things like “oohh” “woah” “haha” etc at the right places…and try to smile more…be more confident with yourself…why are you even asking us if you should be forgotten (rhetorical question, but still!!)

http://www.videojug.com/film/how-can-…

thanks for the video

no problem, I hoped it helped :)

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maxfan offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (40 minutes after post)

make yourself known.. join a club or a sport and really let loose. take credit when you did good, and speak up! run for student council type things… get your face out there!

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