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caradenise_0
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ok so this is my third post bout this but i really love the advice

ok so believe it or not i almost have my decision made…ok we were textin tonight and i brought up the subject of us datin in the past and he admitted to doin to much of somethin rather than spend time with me (and yes i know what hes talkin bout and its not another girl) he said he blames himself for us breakin up even though it was me that broke up with him and he wants to work thing out but take it slow and not just jump back into anything and i mean thats understandable cause im the same way and he talked to me bout his most recent relationship and the way it seems to me that she played him…. and it kinda hurt him bad but he is ok now

i wake up to text messages from him tellin me good mornin and he hopes i have a good day and we talk literally all day…then at night he textes me good night sweet dreams and he’ll talk to me the next day….

but what i really wanna know is do yall think im a back up or if he actually realizes that he done me wrong in a relationship and wants to start over fresh…yall give me some input any advice welcomed

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Dan TL offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
La Mirada, CA, US | 1 year, 4 months ago (5 minutes after post)

I think It sounds like he changed a leaf. I say you 2 try and hit it off again, people don’t tend to go to far out of the way for someone unless they mean something to them in your case texting you before bed and work thats really nice. If you give him another chance let it be like the test see how everything works out before you throw your emotions in there.

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mariposa2008 offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (2 hours, 8 minutes after post)

caradenise, you should know that I’m from a generation whereby we didn’t just get to “text” or “email”

I’m not so old that I didn’t get a mixed tape now and then. I could probably be your aunt instead of your mother.

Your grandmother’s/my mother’s generation lived in a world with limited choices. You can be ANYTHING you can conceive of when you grow up.

Give him another chance if you want. Don’t give him one if you don’t.

Regardless, wake up tomorrow in a world in which you have the say and NEVER make a choice that disrespects that!

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (5 hours, 21 minutes after post)

It sounds as though he is treating you like a good friend..or best friend…

but it sounds like he cares A LOT. It could be something more if he’s conciously making that much effort for you. Sounds like he’s a nice guy.

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tmpy~is~back offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (12 hours, 38 minutes after post)

Cara babe! I have told you my honest opinions and now for this one. You ready? Ok!
He does sound like he cares an awful lot for you. I know you obviously care for him, anyone can tell that by reading :) I say if it’s going to happen and meant to happen it will and not by force. Let nature take its course with you two and just be friends first. Just remember that sometimes love can complicate or even destroy a friendship. However, if the bond is strong and healthy, it can never really be broken. Love you! :D

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caradenise_0 offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (14 hours, 46 minutes after post)

thanks yall i appreciate all the help…we are takin it slow and i think it might work for the best but i appreciate everything from everyone who helped

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Help me with: ok yall my friend needs some help but i aint sure how to help or what to say so if u can help it is much appreciated…..
tmpy~is~back offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (19 hours, 55 minutes after post)

you’re soooooo welcome cara!!!! :D Good luck babe!!!! Love & Hugs!

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