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Since writing this post anothernikki may have helped people, but has not within the last 4 days. anothernikki is a verified member, has been around for 2 years, 5 months and has 61 posts and 2,332 replies to their name.
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anothernikki changed the tags on this post: they were "Goodbye, Part, Offer, advice, site, support" 1 year, 4 months ago.
Commander Ikari invited 8 users to read this post 1 year, 4 months ago.
holy cow i was looking at your profile. you’ve been on here so long, don’t give up. if you feel like you haven’t helped anyone just wait your chance is coming!
why do you feel like you haven’t helped anyone?
I’m sorry. I’ve reached my all time low. I can’t even function anymore. It’s all I can do sit here in a chair
yes you can, i’ve always thought that sitting was a function only my high school gym teacher DID NOT think so. lol so what’s up? why do you feel low?
malori* invited 15 users to read this post 1 year, 4 months ago.
There no failures here….there is not wrong way to tell someone, I CARE! No report cards here….we just give it our best shot and go on…it could be your encouraging word that keep someone from committing suicide..but, you would never know….hang in there my friend!
I’ve lost everything in my life. I really just can’t bring myself to get into the specifics. I did something awful and I lost all my friends over it. I can’t seem to do anything right. I don’t even want to work anymore.
what did you do that was so bad? hmm? and if they won’t forgive you they weren’t your true friends. come on talk to me.
You should stay, you are a valuable helper here. And now it sounds as if you need some help. So let the people here, do what they do best, and help you. You need it, and more than that you deserve it.
anothernikki wrote:
I’ve lost everything in my life. I really just can’t bring myself to get into the specifics. I did something awful and I lost all my friends over it. I can’t seem to do anything right. I don’t even want to work anymore.
People make mistakes. Period. There’s no such thing as a smart “mistake” and no such thing as an “awful” mistake. Whatever happened, happened. And now you have to buckle up, and find a way to ride through it.
You CAN do it. It will take time,and it won’t be easy. But you’ll come out stronger and just as happy in the end.
Rainbow bridge was beautiful.
Dogs love unconditionally and will love you and be your friend no matter what you did.
Whatever it was, it can be forgiven. Every one of us has made horrible mistakes.
i come on this site and i don’t help a lot of people on here, but i still come on here anyway
and u wudn’t be the only person who makes mistakes, in fact, quite a big part of my day ive been contemplating over stupid things id done in my past which is pretty much typical of me to do. ur human after all, and so is every1 else.
Thank you. I know I’m human, and no mistake I’ve made hasn’t been made a thousand times before. It’s just so hard to accept my new place in life. I’m lonely and sad all the time. I’d give anything to have things go back to normal again, but it just not going to happen now.
It’s been 7 months of this already and nothing has gotten any better. Some things have gotten worse.
P.S.
I’m sorry for causing a stir. I’m going to try and stick around for awhile. Maybe helping other people will help me forget my anguish for a little while.
Hey, everyone makes mistakes! It is not the mistake that is the problem, but how you react to the mistake. Learn from it, forgive yourself, and move on! Don’t live in the past. Yesterday is gone and life can be good again!
Brilliant, so glad you are back. Welcome :)
Glad you changed your mind. You have a lot of too offer!
Nikki, most people do with your interest at heart. Hope I did not offend you…if i did, certainly did not mean to my friend….
Okay..did my best..have a good day!
Hi anothernikki I too have made horrible mistakes and have lost all my friends for it. I was banned from my little group of friends…I have spend about a year trying to make new ones in my area but have been very unsuccessful. During that time I have tried to work on me and find out what I could about myself. My hobbies my dreams my future and what I want and do not want. It really seems crappy at first and even when you think that you can’t go another step you find someway to take that next step. You’ll be ok Im a weak person and somehow I have found the strength to carry on and to take another step. Each day gets a little easier and believe it or not those friends that were there yesterday who are no longer there today…weren’t really true friends…take it from some one who has just had to learn that. It’s not fun, but its true and I know that if I keep myself involved in things I will along with you..will find new TRUE friends to share our lives with. Hang in their hunny..If I can do it..I am more then sure that you can too. :)
thank you for your help , wish you happy life
we love you Nikki, we do, we love you Nikki, we do, Oh Nikki we love you
i do not really know you, but i read some of the comments and it seems like you helped quite a few people, i am sorry you are leaving.
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anothernikki edited this post 1 year, 1 month ago. Read the previous text »
Goodbye.
Thank you everyone for your continued support. And allowing me to be a part of this site for awhile and offer advice and support where I could. I’m sorry I was not more successful.
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