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i hate my hair!

!!!!!!!!!!!!

okay so my hair is totally frizzzyy and thick and curly. I HATE IT!!!!!
its about 3 inches past my shouldersand its a dark brown.
this is about what it looks like

http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3146/2...

if you cant see that try this one

http://media.photobucket.com/image/frizzy%20hair/Candiesickness/Picture294. jpg?o=44

Well thos people arent me but thats pretty much my hair. Its so unmanagable.
Any ideas for a haircut or style i could to to tame this mess?Im okay with getting it colored, thinned, and cut. Or buys and products. JUST HELP!!!!!!
thankss!

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ashleyy offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (7 minutes after post)

do you like it curly? or do you want it straight?

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Anonymous #
1 year, 3 months ago (13 minutes after post)

i dont really care. i just want it managable.

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[:Dear Sunshine; offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (19 minutes after post)

I think you should get it cut to your chin, like a bob.

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cinnamon26 offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 35 minutes after post)

I would love your hair, but there are serums that can slick down the frizzies, dont use the hair dryer it literally burns and damages hair

http://wiredberries.com/beauty/2007/0…

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 1 year, 3 months ago (2 hours, 40 minutes after post)

conditioner?
hair straightner?

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Anonymous #
1 year, 3 months ago (10 hours, 48 minutes after post)

I was actully thinking about getting a modern style bob. its cutee. heres a pic of it…
http://bp2.blogger.com/_iP_dRhf4iB4/R…

so i would get it really really thinned and cut to the hair style and so then i would have less hair to manage and i could straighten it. but im afriad of what it will look like. I have no clue what it would look like. Im very slef concious about what i look like and with that hair it would just re grow over night that would take a year or so to grow back. but yeah im pretty sure i really want it.

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ashleyy offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (21 hours, 18 minutes after post)

no dont cut it. long hair = beautifulness.

heres what you do. wash and condition your hair. put a product that helps with the damaging effects of heat tools, like straightner, blow dry, curler ect. i use VO5 heat defense its in a small-ish red spray bottle. spray that in your towel dried moist/damp hair. then blow it till its dry. not wet anymore. thenn section your hair off. section the top off, leaving a workable amount of hair at the bottom. spray some more of that stuff (but not too much thatll it make it wet again) and comb it through and straighten that section. and then do the same till your done. spray a small amount of hair spray at the top to advoid frizz if its humid out. dont be discouraged if it doesnt work out the first time or even second or third.

maybe you can get a friend that straightens their hair to help you out

anddd if you want it curllyyy.

i use TRESemme curl care Flawless curls extra hold mousse. its in a black bottle with green writing. read the directions on the bottle on how to use it.

also youll want to buy a hair dryer with a diffuser that comes with it http://www.global-b2b-network.com/dir…

the black round thing is the diffuser. it helps with curly hair cuz you can blow dry the curls with out the force of the air of the blow dryer making the curls come undone and get frizzy.

i hope all that helps.

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Anonymous #
1 year, 3 months ago (4 days, 13 hours after post)

Yeah i was thinking leaving it long..but im cutting a inch or two off and getting it thinned and getting lots of layers for when school starts. But other than that..im letting it grow.

P.s. your right ashelyy..long hair = beautifulness.

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aisyahizzaty_9 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 month, 2 weeks after post)

Hey, its not that bad. Honestly.
Just wash ur hair with some conditioner and maybe it weill get better.
Have u tried going to a hair stylist?

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neku offline Verified User (3 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 month, 3 weeks after post)

You can find thousands of hairstyles using http://mystyles.info for links to videos and websites offering different hairstyles, tips and free makeovers. You can upload a photo and try different hairstyles, to finalize the most suitable hairstyle for you.

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