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Wonderousness

You all know of Facebook, I’m sure.

Well, my girlfriend (So I thought) just got it and it’s been cool for a few days. Sending a few walls-to-walls to one another and what-have-you, but I logged on for my daily check today and there it said, “(She) is now single.” as in she edited that and only that. I looked at her profile and there it was. She was listed as single in her information. I’ve spent a good 6 months with her and she means a whole lot to me, but I’m pretty unstable mentally and I kind of breakdown when girls want to break up and she’s the first girl I’ve really ever gotten close to in such a long time. I don’t want something like this to be the reason I stumble downhill again, I tell myself that she must’ve just made a mistake, but what really are the chances? What does Help.com suppose I do before I explode?

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jimbob6109 0 #
Stevenage, F7, GB | 5 months, 1 week ago (1 minute after post)

you should just wait and see what she has to say about itt im sure it was just a mistakee if shes new too it its v.likely

Help me with: Feeling lonelyy :((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((( & i need to typee moree so :( .

jux_fux_du 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (2 minutes after post)

TALK TO HER?! seriously, just ask her. If she is your girlfriend, then im sure she wont mind you asking! Its probably just a mistake. And the more you think about it and dont DO something, the more it will bug you.

The Missing Piece 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (2 minutes after post)

Just ask her, she hasn’t had it too long, she may not have changed it yet, when i joined i didnt get that done straight away.

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Anonymous #
5 months, 1 week ago (4 minutes after post)

stop being a facebook addict, and talk to her about it.

Wonderousness 14 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (4 minutes after post)

Auuuuugh. I suppose I should just wait till I can talk to her, but I’m just scared I’m going to end up exploding. I suppose my problem is how I should take asking her. Should I casually bring it up or confront her with that stern man-foot I’m not so use to using.

Help me with: Hahahah I feel dumb.

The Missing Piece 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (7 minutes after post)

Casually

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Moo. 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (8 minutes after post)

you could get one of your mates to ask her ?

Help me with: IT’S SNOWING =] =] =] =] =]

Wonderousness 14 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (10 minutes after post)

I don’t want to do that, Moo. Sorry. :l

Help me with: Hahahah I feel dumb.

Moo. 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (12 minutes after post)

Hmm.. well you should probably do something before you explode! that could be rather painful ?

Help me with: IT’S SNOWING =] =] =] =] =]

Wonderousness 14 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (13 minutes after post)

lol. Yeah. Ithink I’ll just sit down and game until she comes on. Thank you all.

Help me with: Hahahah I feel dumb.

Moo. 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (15 minutes after post)

haha, well GOOD LUCK =]

Help me with: IT’S SNOWING =] =] =] =] =]

Fairy Pants 21 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (32 minutes after post)

Why don’t you just call her and say, ‘hey, why does your fb profile say that you’re single?’

Help me with: For some reason, I am getting NO new notices.

Wonderousness 14 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (2 hours, 23 minutes after post)

Well I basically did what Fairy Pants said and she had very little to say. First it was,

“Are you upset?”
No I answered.

“Is it that big of a deal?”
No. Not really at all. It just made me sad.

“I’m sorry. I’m new to Facebook and I just thought it was one of those things you had to answer and I wanted to ask you, but you weren’t on or awake.”
It’s not exactly the answer I was expecting, but my heart is in the right place for the first time today. Yay.

Help me with: Hahahah I feel dumb.

Fairy Pants 21 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (1 day, 20 hours after post)

I’m glad that you got the answers that you were looking for.

Help me with: For some reason, I am getting NO new notices.

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