Love help: Anger 2- This is the link for Anger 1 http://help.com/post/171241-a-little-anger-can-be-a-good-thing - Help.com

I am schizo-affective and me and my mother had a argument. She was yelling at me and screaming at me in the car on the way to the vet. She said some very hurtful things to me. That I am lazy,I don’t do anything(not true),that the voices I hear are BS.,that I want to be a schizo., and she refuses to take me anywhere now because I am too scared to take a class in public –I am paranoid and hear voices.She won’t take me to the dr. or to the grocery store now. She has blackmailed me. (Do this or else) She also said I was immature and acting- while I cried in the car. I even cried at the vet. too. I couldn’t stop crying because she kept putting me down and making false accusations. I am angry and hurt. She was very verbally abusive to me. I won’t see her anymore I don’t think because I have to take the bus everywhere now. She has basically distanced me from the whole family.I am angry and hurt and I have every reason to be!!!!Don’t you think?

christine

Felicity-{KRISS} wrote:
Yes honey you do have a right to be angry and hurt.(((HUGS))I don’t know what scizo-affective means but I think you gave me a good idea of it with the symptoms. I think the problem lies in her hands, she can’t relate if she doesnt have these problems or has them and is denying them. this is typical for the most part and its sad that it will go on.But it’s how we deal with it that gives us peace. we can’t change others ,only make them aware of how they hurt us.but we can change our thinking. I know it hurts even more coming from a parent or loved one but Like i tell many here, parents are people,they are not perfect,all knowing humans. What they say is just their opinions and opinions are not truth.the truth of this is you have a illness and you need support and your not getting it at home so seek it elsewhere. Are you getting professional help? Medicine? Any support?

I usually go on another site and talk to people like myself. This helps me a little and yes, I am heavily medicated. I don’t have a therapist though because that is just another co-payment that I have to pay.Thank you for your thoughts and empathy on the matter. I appreciate it. I wish I had more support though..Oh well.

Christine

i really need this right now. thanks for posting it. lately ive been really angry and i get mad for no reason and over stupid stuff. i really need to learn to transfer my anger into something good.