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Hi,

I don’t know how to use these posts things, so be patient with me. I don’t know where to go to get help. I have been diagnosed as severely depressed for years. Then I was diagnosed with post tramatic stress syndrome, now I am diagnosed with ADD. I am 50 years old, and I am so confused in the head I don’t know what to do. My work is suffering, I am getting in troubble because I am not fast enough and it is because I can’t concentrate. I stayed home today and will get an occurance for doing it, but I have such a headache and I can barely figure out how to use my phone or type here. I am desperate. I need some help and I don’t know where to turn. I am one paycheck from being in the streets. I see 2 docyors, a OD and a Phychiatrist. I have Lupis and this other thing, m,entally or emotionally, what ever, but I don’t know which is causing what and I can’t seem to get it through to the dr’s how I feel. I have no one to go to the dr with me that understands either. I don’t know where to go from here. I just googled the word help and it brought me here. Is this where I should be, or does anyone know where I can go for help, surley someone will understand what is happening.
thanks,
Jamiw

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Rotech927 offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Oh me…my friend, do you have any family members or friends that can help you at this time?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 41 minutes after post)

I have 3 kids, and some friends, but only one friend I could really count on. But, he says he is in love with me and I don’t feel the same. He has a totally different life style than me. Don’t get me wrong, my kids are there for me, but they have their own lives and issues and I don’t want to add more to their plates. If it gets to a point where I actually break, they would be there for me, but I need someone who understands, and I guess someone who can help me make the decisions I have to make. I get confused and forgetful. I feel like there is so much, that I don’t know where to start. I have written things down anf tried to follow through, but then something falls through. I get confused and it doesn’t work. Don’t know what to do. Dr’s won’t help me unless I am suicidal, which I am not. I am a christian and do not believe in that. I guess I am not, “letting go- let God”. I do try. I get this way just out of the blue. Especially when I get so lonely. I think I need someone who loves me and I can trust. No one really ubderstands how this feels. My job consists of concentrating and making decisions…lol…the exact things I am having trouble with.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (2 hours, 6 minutes after post)

Wow, understood…lots of us are in the boat with you! Looking for love and someone to trust. And, as you know, that is a tuff proposition for a lady with 3 children. Once, took that responsibility on when I was much younger, as I married a lady with three children. A lot of good came out of that relationship, in that, all three children are successful today. They finished college and have good jobs and doing well.

Wish the best…just keep praying my friend…God is always there for you…just don’t be impatient as he has a different schedule and his timing is sometimes difficult to understand, but we must keep the faith.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (2 hours, 10 minutes after post)

Yes, I do know that. God is all that is getting me through. I need to concentrate more on him, than myself, I think. :) Thanks!
Jamie

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (2 hours, 11 minutes after post)

Good luck Jamie…have found that the time we spend on our knees, gives us more strength than any person can give us. Take care my friend!

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (2 hours, 14 minutes after post)

You are right. Thank you!

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