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cool_teen_01
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Lake Charles, LA, US

I’ve been dating this guy for a year now and he has cheated on me 4 times.

i just found out that he was going to go meet this guy Saturday night to cheat on me again. i got mad and said some things that i shouldn’t of said. but want i need to know is should i give him another chance cause he says he loves me. but i don’t want to keep going though this again and again can someone please help me i feel like i am going crazy

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trueromantic offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 minute after post)

lil_Mouse6 wrote:
Umm Break up with him …

Agreed

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cool_teen_01 offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Lake Charles, LA, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (2 minutes after post)

but he keeps crying and telling me he loves me and he will get help for it

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Just Adam offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (2 minutes after post)

Dump his ***.

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trueromantic offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (4 minutes after post)

Well listen if you like getting hurt by a person who so calls love you then stay. But let me tell you this a person who loves another person wont hurt them

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cool_teen_01 offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Lake Charles, LA, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (5 minutes after post)

your right i just need to move on and find happiness with out him

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trueromantic offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (6 minutes after post)

Exactly, it wont be hard but you deserve to be happy not worrying if this guy is cheating on you or not.

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hey...iknowyou offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 18 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (9 minutes after post)

cool_teen_01 wrote:
your right i just need to move on and find happiness with out him

That’s what it sounds like you need to do anyway.

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Squish offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (17 minutes after post)

A true lover wouldn’t abandon the person he loves… DUMP HIS ***

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daftpunk offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (26 minutes after post)

If he had only cheated on you once then I would have suggested that you give him a second chance, but since he has cheated on you 4 times, I’d say that it is best for both of you if you dump him, unless you are looking for even more heartbreak in the future.

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WashuChan offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (55 minutes after post)

leave him! hes just doing that crying thing to keep you. Cheating again? 5th time!? Oooo Kick him in his shin too, for good measure. :D

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hey...iknowyou offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 18 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 2 minutes after post)

Being kicked in the shins hurt, although being kicked somewhere else hurts more……that’s right, the belly.

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WashuChan offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 4 minutes after post)

Hahahahaha! Kick him twice! He should hurt you like this if he was sorry and wanted to be with you that much. Im so sorry hon. but kick him in the (email removed) spot for hurting you somewhere he cant touch.

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WashuChan offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 5 minutes after post)

That… wasnt an email…

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hey...iknowyou offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 18 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 6 minutes after post)

I was thinking it wasn’t……. lol :)

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yogi.wiputr offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 10 minutes after post)

four times?! that’s not cheating any more, that’s abusing your trust. people like this aren’t even worth keeping in touch with.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (6 days, 1 hour after post)

get rid of him

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