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I have trouble coming up with the right words to express what I’m thinking.

I can write a lot better than speak. I think maybe it is because I cannot think on my feet very well. It usually takes me a little while to come up with something good to say. Are there tips or tricks to help me with this? Or am I just slow? All advice appriciated. (:

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zoo_baw offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (30 minutes after post)

no, i don’t think it necessarily means you’re slow. you see, it’s like some people are better at one thing while other people are better at another thing, maybe have something to do with that 7 kinds of human intelligence.
as for speaking, i found being calm and regards whoever i’m talking with as my ‘equal’ and basically just take a very short moment to think before talking, to be of real help. cheers!.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (2 weeks, 4 days after post)

Well, it happens to lots of ppl….
It’s easier, because as you write down what you’re going to say, somehow you bring more order to your thoughts…
The only real way that I found to express myself better when I’m speaking, is just being myself, and being relaxed…
It’s a lot easier to speak when you’re relaxed, and not just speaking but also it’s easier to use body language too, and that’s something quite important too…

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (2 weeks, 4 days after post)

Read alot of information you like because when you have alot of information in your mind you can relate whatever they are talking about and express yourself. And be courageous and take it as a task you must fulfill before god press the delete button for you. http://www.resourcesandmoney.blogspot…

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