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I feel lost in my relationship!

! Recently I thought that my boyfriend and I broke up and told my girlfriend this she was very happy and said she thought it was for the best, and told everyone that we had broke up anyway now my boyfriend heard the rumor and is upsett I told him that I thought we did he said he was DONE. So i told my friend that we were in deed going to try and work it out and now she is mad and thinks that is a bad idea now I am so confused! I do love him I really do but we have had some pretty major issues in the past but I am willing to work on them with him if tha is what he wants but I just feel like I am between a rock and a hard place. Any advice.

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lucky7_luvs_ASHTON:] offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (3 minutes after post)

maybe your friend is jealous of you..
maybe she wants to date him but wont tell you that
i say that you should work it out with him b4 you do somehting stupid…
i know this from experience..
it just happened to me too

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kmichelle offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (7 minutes after post)

Here’s the question that needs to be answered though: You say you and him have had some major issues, and you’re willing to work though them.
Is he?
Because if he’s not ready, then it will be all for nothing. But if you think he wants to, then go for it.
I know that’s not exactly what you asked for, but I thought that might help a little bit, cause that’s what I just went through myself.

And as for the friend, if you really love him and think things can be worked out, then do it, and she’ll get over it if she’s really your friend.

Does that help at all?

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1 year, 3 months ago (9 minutes after post)

No she is not she is vary happily married and has been for many years she just thinks that the problems we have had in the past will repaeat themselves so she wants me to find someone better that is all she would never try to hurt me but I do love him.

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Anonymous #
1 year, 3 months ago (12 minutes after post)

Yeah it helps I know he is willing to work on them I just don’t know if he can it is his drinking that is our biggest problem.

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kmichelle offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (17 minutes after post)

Well, then go for it. Your friend cares about you, I’m sure, and she may be right for all I know, because I only know what you’ve told me. But you need to do whats right for you and what you feel is best.

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ilovepink! offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (19 minutes after post)

how long have u guys been going out for?

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1 year, 3 months ago (20 minutes after post)

I know that I love him and I know that I hurt when I am not with him but I also know her concerns are really to and I love her she has been my friend for a long time and would never hurt me. We have been together for 2 years.

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ilovepink! offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (21 minutes after post)

wow 2 years! thats a long time, do u guys live close or far away?
why did u guys break uo in the first place?

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1 year, 3 months ago (23 minutes after post)

We live close because he has a little drinking problem that would someitmes cause him to be mean to me and my kids but he has been really nice lately.

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