Love help: Aight, so I’m 18 years old and there’s that girl

MadDog1

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Aight, so I’m 18 years old and there’s that girl from

the neighborhood who i really like but i’m just too dam’ shy with girls and i cannot make contact with her. Every time she and her girlfriends come nearby me and my friends i’m like getting paralyzed and I cannot say a word. ;c
I like her really dam’ much, I know her pretty well cuz we know each other for like 5 years or somethin’ and in my eyes she’s like perfect or etc.

One time I got to talk with her when we met in the Market but i just didnt know what to say, it was like
“Hey! whats up?”
-”I’m fine, how are u?”
-”I’m good, what u buying?”
-”just something for my little brother”
-”Ahm, how old is he?”
-”11 soon”
-”Aight,See you around”
-”See you…”
And then I just couldn’t say anything more. I always think about that and I regret i didnt talk with her more there, but I know i just wasnt really able to do so :|

I’ve got a feeling she kinda likes me too cuz she sometimes stares at me or whatever but I just dont know what to do or how to get close to her somehow.
So, Help me out please cuz i’m kinda desperate :S

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Jennaaaxox 13 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (6 minutes after post)

Push your self to talk to her. Knock on her door when she is alone and just talk. If you see her out and about on her own offer to walk with her.
If you have a party or a get together you can invite her over.
Send her a card on her birthday and christmas as just a little something from you.
If you are too shy to talk to her in person write a letter and post it through her letter box and see if she replies.
She might be in the same situation and have problems talking to you because she is shy about it.
You should make the first move. She might just be waiting for you to.

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MadDog1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (18 minutes after post)

My main problem is that I’m too shy with girls and I can barely talk with them, especially ones that i feel some emotions towards, so it’s really hard for me to talk with her.
About sending a letter, I’m too afraid of doing that cuz I’m afraid she’ll be like “wtf?!” and then not get close to me at all or something =[
There has to be some other way to start being in touch with her.

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Sir Evan 11 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (22 minutes after post)

How old are you?
I used to be shy till I got a job and now I’m not in the least bit.
The more experience you have at dealing with people, the better you get at it.
Like most things, practice makes perfect.
Can you drive?
Just go over there randomly one day (Make sure that she’s home before you go, peek in a window or something.), ask her if she wants to catch a movie or dinner.
You just got to suck it up and do it without thinking about it bro.

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Amber Soul 3 #
Middleton, K1, GB | 1 year, 4 months ago (22 minutes after post)

How about MSN or another messenger, see if you could get her address?

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MadDog1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (28 minutes after post)

I’ve got her MSN but she’s online for like 2 hour a week :|
and everytime I get to see her online we chat for 3 mins and then she says she has to go and goes offline.
I thought she does that only with me, but I asked some friends about it and they said she does that all the time with everyone :x

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Amber Soul 3 #
Middleton, K1, GB | 1 year, 4 months ago (33 minutes after post)

Um, do you have any mutual friends with her?

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MadDog1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (33 minutes after post)

yeah i’ve got a few. why? :x

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Amber Soul 3 #
Middleton, K1, GB | 1 year, 4 months ago (35 minutes after post)

Why don’t you set up a “thing” like all of you going to a movie, or bowling, or for a movie or something, and you could try talking to her in one of those environments?

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MadDog1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (38 minutes after post)

its a good idea, i may try that.
But I’m still not sure if i’d be confident enough to talk with her there cuz as i said i’m sometimes getting totally paralyzed around her ;x

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Amber Soul 3 #
Middleton, K1, GB | 1 year, 4 months ago (41 minutes after post)

It happens to me 2 when I talk to some lads I like, but believe me it is much easier if you are with other people, you can wait for her to talk to someone, you could join in the conversation or you can start a conversation about whereever you are, it should be a bit easier. :) x

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MadDog1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (45 minutes after post)

Yeah :) good idea.
I’ll try arranging somethin like that somewhen next week.
I might drinking abit alcohol before it so I may feel abit more confident, I hope it will work out. :x
Thanks for your help man :).

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Amber Soul 3 #
Middleton, K1, GB | 1 year, 4 months ago (46 minutes after post)

No problem, b

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Sir Evan 11 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (46 minutes after post)

Drugs and alocohol are bad mmmkk

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Amber Soul 3 #
Middleton, K1, GB | 1 year, 4 months ago (48 minutes after post)

Alcohol is ok, as long as he doesn’t drink to much of it, but agreed on the drugs.

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Florimouse edited this post 1 year, 4 months ago. Read the previous text »

Aight, so I’m 18 years old and there’s that girl from the neighborhood which i really like but i’m just too dam’ shy with girls and i cannot make contact with her. Every time she and her girlfriends come nearby me and my friends i’m like getting paralyzed and I cannot say a word. ;c
I like her really dam’ much, I know her pretty well cuz we know each other for like 5 years or somethin’ and in my eyes she’s like perfect or etc.

One time I got to talk with her when we met in the Market but i just didnt know what to say, it was like
“Hey! whats up?”
-”I’m fine, how are u?”
-”I’m good, what u buying?”
-”just something for my little brother”
-”Ahm, how old is he?”
-”11 soon”
-”Aight,See you around”
-”See you…”
And then I just couldn’t say anything more. I always think about that and I regret i didnt talk with her more there, but I know i just wasnt really able to do so :|

I’ve got a feeling she kinda likes me too cuz she sometimes stares at me or whatever but I just dont know what to do or how to get close to her somehow.
So, Help me out please cuz i’m kinda desperate :S

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MadDog1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (54 minutes after post)

Don’t worry i’ll just drink a small glass of wine or something.
Thanks again :d

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Amber Soul 3 #
Middleton, K1, GB | 1 year, 4 months ago (56 minutes after post)

No prob MadDog :D x

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crimsonwing112 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (1 hour, 28 minutes after post)

now or never.
if you don’t do anything soon you two might drift apart and you’ll regret it.
just ask her to a movie or starbucks. start with something small.
and if you feell that you’re about to chicken out imagine what it would be like if she was going to move to the other side of the world tomorrow.
girls are just as shy as guys.

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