Hey guys, I have a bit of a problem.
I met this girl a few days ago, and I’m almost positive that shes interested. Shes a year younger than me, and gorgeous (but beauty is in the eye of the beholder). Shes a smoker and a drinker. I smoke occasionally and tend to have some fun on the “guys night out”. The first day I met her, a friend and I were chatting it up at the park, and her and her friend talked to us for an hour or so.
She seemed incredibly interested and was even giving up some very personal information (including her “first time” from years ago). She said her and her friend would hit me up the next day to hang out, and that we did.
I thought we could have a fun occasion so i bought a little alcohol. I brought a pack of cigarettes , only to give off that cool guy vibe and smoke a few with her. Again, we talked very openly, trying to keep myself a bit of a mystery to her and playing hard to get. She did a little of the same, and it felt like she may have been coming on to me. She may be Hanging out with me today, and something big may happen. But i think she may be playing hard to get and not talking to me. My question is : “Is she really all that interested or could she just be using me for a little fun and not a serious relationship”.
I feel I played the cool guy with a good sense of humor very well, even my friend gave me the big thumbs up. I was a very good listener and even talked to her about a few of her problems when she asked for an opinion Guys, I just don’t know… Any tips?
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Hey guys, i have a bit of a problem. I met this girl a few days ago, and im almost positive that shes interested. Shes a year younger than me, and gorgeous (but beauty is in the eye of the beholder). Shes a smoker and a drinker. I smoke occasionally and tend to have some fun on the “guys night out”. The first day i met her, a friend and i were chatting it up at the park, and her and her friend talked to us for an hour or so.
She seemed incredibly interested and was even giving up some very personal information (including her “first time” from years ago). She said her and her friend would hit me up the next day to hang out, and that we did.
I thought we could have a fun occasion so i bought a little alcohol. I brought a pack of cigarettes , only to give off that cool guy vibe and smoke a few with her. Again, we talked very openly, trying to keep myself a bit of a mystery to her and playing hard to get. She did a little of the same, and it felt like she may have been coming on to me. She may be Hanging out with me today, and something big may happen. But i think she may be playing hard to get and not talking to me. My question guys is : “,Is she really all that interested or could she just be using me for a little fun and not a serious relationship”.
I feel i played the cool guy with a good sense of humor very well, even my friend gave me the big thumbs up. I was a very good listener and even talked to her about a few of her problems when she asked for an opinion Guys, i just don’t know… Any tips?
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