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im curious what do people think is the worst emotion to feel?

there are a ton out there anger, sadness, agitation, regret, and etc. or you couldnt feel anything at all im wondering what people think is the most unbearable. just curious here.

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hey...iknowyou offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 18 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 minute after post)

Rage. It turns you into a different person completely. I don’t like it.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (2 minutes after post)

I think the worst emotion is feeling regret.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (4 minutes after post)

Loss.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (4 minutes after post)

disapointment

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1 year, 3 months ago (5 minutes after post)

rage is bad i think cause then you do thinks you regret.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (7 minutes after post)

I agree with Loss.My family has gone through alot of that this year and there is no feeling like the pain of losing someone that you love.Especially when it is a total shock and not at all expected.Ugh.Death of a loved one sucks.

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frontlineen offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (8 minutes after post)

Loneliness

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shag448 offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 16 Add Friend #
Bradenton, FL, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (8 minutes after post)

lonelines

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Anonymous #
1 year, 3 months ago (9 minutes after post)

i think feeling nothing or being numb is pretty bad too.

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shag448 offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 16 Add Friend #
Bradenton, FL, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (9 minutes after post)

It feels like things will never change, that I will be alone the rest of my life.

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1 year, 3 months ago (10 minutes after post)

loneliness is pretty dreadful too

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (11 minutes after post)

having your heartbroken, rage, loneliness.

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~Shie~ offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 Add Friend #
Gloversville, NY, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (12 minutes after post)

omg.. there are so many… so i will tell you the worse ones for me…

loneliness, rejection, sadness, alone.

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shag448 offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 16 Add Friend #
Bradenton, FL, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (13 minutes after post)

The shrinks say that the worse thing that could possibly happen to a person is the death of a child. I worry about that sometimes.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (13 minutes after post)

betrayed and heartbroken

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (14 minutes after post)

I think regret and loneliness. both at the same time are dreadful

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1 year, 3 months ago (14 minutes after post)

shag448 wrote:
The shrinks say that the worse thing that could possibly happen to a person is the death of a child. I worry about that sometimes.

that may be the worst i cant even imagine.

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Gloversville, NY, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (14 minutes after post)

shag448 wrote:
The shrinks say that the worse thing that could possibly happen to a person is the death of a child. I worry about that sometimes.

i havent lost my children due to death.. but due to an abusive ex husband.. it has been 4 years since i have seen them.. and i find myself in a down emotion every day of my life… its on going… never ending.. and you learn to live by the minute.. not for the future..

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1 year, 3 months ago (15 minutes after post)

oh im sorry thats just awful

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shag448 offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 16 Add Friend #
Bradenton, FL, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (15 minutes after post)

I knew a lady once who had lost her daughter to cancer. She was always a little spacey after the shock treatments, and I am not being funny.

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1 year, 3 months ago (16 minutes after post)

regret

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shag448 offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 16 Add Friend #
Bradenton, FL, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (17 minutes after post)

quote]i havent lost my children due to death.. but due to an abusive ex husband..[/quote]

When my ex left me I didn’t see my kids for two months, I don’t think I could handle four years.

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Gloversville, NY, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (17 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
oh im sorry thats just awful

its ok.. its something that has me down to the point of suicide … but i have come to learn that i will be with them again one day… i guess the biggest thing is.. do they hate me.. they are now going to be 13, 15 and 17 at the end of the year… once they hit 17, they get to come home… one by one… eventually, they will all be home.. and i can not wait.. they are the very reason why i breathe today… seriously..

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1 year, 3 months ago (18 minutes after post)

wow i respect you a lot your very strong

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Bradenton, FL, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (19 minutes after post)

I’m glad you’ll be able to see them again. Are you able to at least talk to them on the phone?

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Gloversville, NY, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (21 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
wow i respect you a lot your very strong

im not all that strong… i just deal… i seriously dont consider myself strong at all.. and that is why i never look into the future.. too many broken dreams… always wishing… and hoping that one day… we will be together and they will know exactly what happened…

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1 year, 3 months ago (24 minutes after post)

you are strong or you wouldnt still be fighting you would have given up hope and everything four years is a long time to deal. have you talked to them on the phone or anything??

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Gloversville, NY, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (30 minutes after post)

as for my children.. i took them and ran for safety.. a bunch of crap went down and the state said that i couldnt leave where i was living… even though i went for safety.. they took my kids and gave them back to the abuser.. long story short.. every time i get close to getting them home… the abuser and his family go to court and make up lies.. and with out proof… they win… taking my rights away.. such as… the sister went and said that i allowed my son to have a myspace and started crap there… and with out proof.. she won.. i lost my visits.. 2 days before i was able to get custody.. and i knew nothing about the myspace.. her daughter set it up for my son.. so after 4 years… i have a multimillion dollar lawsuit against the state.. because so many laws have been broken… but even that.. i cant find an attorney who will take the case on with their winnings at the end.. i have written to many state officals, talk shows.. and cant get anyone to help me.. long story short.. the only outcome that i see is… to wait till they are 17.. www.myspace.com/missing_my_children is a site for them..

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1 year, 3 months ago (37 minutes after post)

wow you have been through a lot i hope that you will be able to see your children very soon.

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Bradenton, FL, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 25 minutes after post)

!#$crystal!#$ wrote:
id have top say feeling like your never good enough because it can turn in rage regret depression loneliness and all that

Which comes first the chicken or the egg?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 27 minutes after post)

The chicken.

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Bradenton, FL, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 29 minutes after post)

But lonliness makes a better chicken than feelings of inadequacy.

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Bradenton, FL, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 30 minutes after post)

I’m lonley because I am too chicken to do anything about it.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 33 minutes after post)

Are you the original poster shag448?

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Savannah, GA, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 39 minutes after post)

the worst most unbearable feeling to me is abandonment.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (2 hours, 8 minutes after post)

I was going to say Love cuz it’s the most important of all and it’s so powerful.when we receive it and when it’s taken away . But the most unbearable for me was when I was in a catatonic state from depression. My mind was complete agony and suffer.It looked as if I was a robot but inside it was a living hell, pure torture. It took all I had just to scratch an itch, to move just one muscle,unbearable beyond belief.I would not wish it on my worst enemy or even the worst evil person. So I guess the emotion would be Depression. Suffice to say I’m glad I’m here to tell anyone there is HOPE.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (2 hours, 20 minutes after post)

Fear.

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Weston, MA, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (2 hours, 23 minutes after post)

im the orginal poster i didnt realize it was anonomous force of habit

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (2 hours, 34 minutes after post)

Vilén wrote:
Fear.

Now that I see ‘Fear’ It got me to thinking 2 things 1) there is no 1 right answer. I think it’s an individual thing. 2) If depression is fear based then I have to change my answer to ‘Fear’ Thanks Vil`en.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (2 hours, 36 minutes after post)

Mama Bear {Kriss} wrote:

Vilén wrote:
Fear.
Now that I see ‘Fear’ It got me to thinking 2 things 1) there is no 1 right answer. I think it’s an individual thing. 2) If depression is fear based then I have to change my answer to ‘Fear’ Thanks Vil`en.

It’s makind’s most powerful emotion. Every day, I see people making decisions out of fear.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (9 hours, 15 minutes after post)

Vil`en, Me too my friend, me too. I wrote a couple posts on the subject myself because it really bothers me.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (18 hours, 32 minutes after post)

Mama Bear {Kriss} wrote:
Vil`en, Me too my friend, me too. I wrote a couple posts on the subject myself because it really bothers me.

Yeah. The world’s most powerful fuel is mankind’s deepest emotion.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 day, 21 hours after post)

Hate

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