friends help: I don’t feel comfortable around my best friend.

Ticklemeelmo273

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Rosabella

I don’t feel comfortable around my best friend.

Like, I get all self-conscious about myself and I feel like I can’t be myself. Now, please don’t say that “she must not be a real friend” because I know she is. But do please give me and help on letting loose and being comfortable around her. thanks

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mjojo151 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 9 months ago (2 minutes after post)

what makes you feel uncomfortable?
figure that out and then get back to me lol.

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I don’t feel comfortable around my best friend. Like, I get all self conscience about myself and I feel like I can’t be myself. Now, please don’t say that “she must not be a real friend” because I know she is. But do please give me and help on letting loose and being comfortable around her. thanks

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Dan TL 1 #
La Mirada, CA, US | 4 years, 9 months ago (7 minutes after post)

Maybe your not comfortable about yourself and being judged.

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Ticklemeelmo273 4 #
US | 4 years, 9 months ago (10 minutes after post)

mjojo151 wrote:
what makes you feel uncomfortable?
figure that out and then get back to me lol.

i think its because her opinion is the only one that matters to me.

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...KeraMarie... 3 #
Savannah, GA, US | 4 years, 9 months ago (16 minutes after post)

the more time you spend with her, the easier it will get…thats just what i’ve experienced. I think i know how you feel tho- when you love respect and admire someone so much, you really care what they think about you and the way you act and look, and the things you say.

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mjojo151 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 9 months ago (16 minutes after post)

Ticklemeelmo273 wrote:

mjojo151 wrote:
what makes you feel uncomfortable?
figure that out and then get back to me lol.

i think its because her opinion is the only one that matters to me.

i think you should realize that shes not going to bring you down, and you don’t have to impress her! she’ll still care about you no matter what if shes a really good friend.

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Ticklemeelmo273 4 #
US | 4 years, 9 months ago (21 minutes after post)

mjojo151 wrote:

Ticklemeelmo273 wrote:

mjojo151 wrote:
what makes you feel uncomfortable?
figure that out and then get back to me lol.

i think its because her opinion is the only one that matters to me.

i think you should realize that shes not going to bring you down, and you don’t have to impress her! she’ll still care about you no matter what if shes a really good friend.

you’re right. im kinda afraid that if i totally be myself that she’ll be like pushed away or something.

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lucylala #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 9 months ago (9 hours, 51 minutes after post)

y dont u feel comfortable around ur friend?

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Ticklemeelmo273 4 #
US | 4 years, 9 months ago (12 hours, 40 minutes after post)

lucylala wrote:
y dont u feel comfortable around ur friend?

Becuase I care about what she thinks. i dont care about what anyone else thinks.

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sweettarts100 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 7 months ago (2 months after post)

I feel the same way too…I mean I used to have this BFF named Kim, however, eva since we got in a little fight on the internet, I have been kinda feelign awkward aroudn her…I mean thats not the whole reason…others are that in 5~7 or 8th grade I was simply boring…had no personality adn was not funny at all…Howver, since 8th grade actually I started to lossen up around her be a little funny…but liek everyday,,,I used ot worry about Am I funny? and Like I started to thik of funny thigs to say….I mean I had to think in orderto say sumthin funy…and Also, my imagination is so small….I mean I am not creative at all…also liek ever since this yeaqr…I closed up a lot and like totoally ran out of funny things to say… and the main reason why I feel so totaly awward aroudn ehr is beacsue I am sooooooooo not funny and can no think of funny things to say anymore…is it possible to stop thinking of funny stuff?

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mattevanlind #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (3 years, 3 months after post)

I’m having this trouble with a couple of my friends too. i used to be part of a 3 best friend group of friends and we were always close with each other. then one day one of them got a girlfriend which i really liked too. so we got into a fight. then two of us sort of separated but i kept being friends with the other one. slowly we drifted apart because i didn’t about them anymore. now i realize what happened but i can never be happy with them any more, i always suffer from anxiety and always want to just go home. And they were my best friends, and they still consider me they’re best friend. i also lost connection with everyone else including my family and other distant friends, so everything kinda just sucks right now. I’m in grade 10, but i also realized when i just let loose and not care how i act or what i say to any of them, they never give me attitude or nothing they actually just accept it. And its good to know that being yourself isn’t being something nobody would bother caring about, so maybe since shes your best friend try just letting loose like you used to and shell probably like you for the way you are. And if not, well at least you know she cannot be your best friend cause a best friend is only someone who loves you more than anyone else.

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hannah.banana. #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (3 years, 7 months after post)

My besy friend says he is not comfortable around me. It broke my heart. I don’t understand why he isnt. It feels like I am pointless to him.

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