Love help: isn’t saying i love you to your bf or gf a big deal? - Help.com

yes– you got to be careful– too easy to say—
can get people hurt

i agree too! i’ve never been in love, but i look at it as a big thing. sure there are those cases where people fall in love faster than other people. but you can tell when it just doesn’t seem real…

maybe they dont really know what love is yet. so as far as what they know what love is, they love that person. maybe they dont know that much of love, but thats what they know.

so maybe you to they are throwing around that love word too much.
but to them they might actually mean it.

i here you loovee !.
i have a guy who says it to me EVERY day and its like he dosnt even talk to me that much ?
like weird much ?
hha.

i think 6 weeks is long enough to say i love you if the feeling is there, for example you could e long time friends and i love you would be a lot faster then some one you just met, i’ve only dated my gf for 8 months and we are in love and been saying i love you since less then 6 weeks, we had been friends, we are engaged now for 3 months, i think the time to say i love you depends on each couple, but i do agree that its a serious thing and i believe it should only be said if you feel that way

its very hard to tell the difference between high level attraction and what love really is. anyone can say i love you but there is a certain unexplainable feeling that IS love. i cant tell you when it happens or what it is. but you know when it happens. plain and simple. most teenagers and ppl of the younger group cannot define what it means to love someone truly unconditional

I understand completely!
However, there’s a fine line between love and lust and, in certain moments, the line becomes blurred.
I tend to say “I love you” a bit soon, but I let them know that it’s just me showing them I care for them. Later on I move to “I am IN love with you” which has a much bigger impact.

“love is a big deal!!i define someone i truly love (like best friend or family or whatever) as someone i’d take a bullet for.
no thats too much of a cliche.
someone i’d jump out of an airplane without a parachute for.”

Wow, i love how you stated that. I completly agree. i’m writing this down and keeping it in my quote collection. :)

lol kera:
“love is like a blind dive off a cliff
you put everything you have into the one you love
if they dont catch you, you suffer the worst injury
not a broken bone
a broken heart”
Author: Marco Sama

“True love is when every “I love you” sounds like the first, when every smile brightens your heart, when you smile everyday waking up to them as if it were the first time, even after many years go by.” another one by Marco Sama

anyway.. if you love someone deeply yhou should not only say it, you should back it up. saying “i love you” is empty if u never commit or take the time to be with one another and make each other feel special. simple as that..

if you feel love then its a big deal and its wonderful but i love you are just words you gotta show you mean it when you say i love you to someone and when you say it and feel nothing thats not love but when you say i love you to someone and it just makes you feel so good to say those words to that person and you would do anything for them and always be there for them and show how you feel about them then thats when you love someone whether there ur bf/gf friend mom whatever

Yeah! Kalorok is on a roll man!
Love is definately something that has to be shown through actions and behavior…
*sigh* …as Ewan McGregor put it- “Love is a many splendored thing,
Love lifts us up where we belong,
All you need is love!”