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NO girl deserves to hear this!

my friend sent this too me and i want everyone to hear it.
NO GIRL DESERVES TO HEAR THIS TOLD TO HER!!!!!!!!!
Body: Body: Girl: Hey

Boy: What?

Girl: I really like you. And I… I think I’m falling in love with you.

Boy: Ok…

Girl: What do you mean “ok”?

Boy: I don’t like you like that…

Girl: Why not?

Boy: I can’t tell you… maybe another time…

From then on, the girl kept asking the boy “Why not?” whenever she saw him, and
he kept answering the same answer of “I’ll tell you later.

Finally the girl got
fed up.

Girl: I’m tired of this! Tell me why you don’t like me!

Boy: Do you really wanna know why?

Girl: Yes!

Boy: It’s because you’re uglier than freak! What’s the point of going out with
someone when they’re not pretty?!

Girl: But… I…

Boy: Just shut up and leave me alone! (Knowing he loved her to but was afraid of what his friends would think)

The boy leaves and the girl is sitting there alone, crying her heart out. Then her cell phone rang.

girl: Hello?

Mom: Sweetheart? I want you to go home, ok? I’ll be home from work in a few hours.

Girl: Alright Mom.

Mom: I love you.

Girl: I love you too, Mom.

Mom: Bye Bye.

Girl: Bye

The girl heads home and once she got there, she went in the bathroom and looked
at herself in the mirror.

Girl: I’m not pretty enough…

She set to work, knowing fully well what she was going to do

2 hours later, her
Mom came home and heard the bath water running.

She went upstairs to find the
hallway flooded so she knocked on the door.

Mom: Honey? Are you alright?

She opened the door and was shocked at the site.

The bath was overflowing onto
the floor, and the water was tinted red.

She walked over to see what was inside
and screamed.

There, her little girl was lying with cuts all over her face and
wrists.

Her Mom backed away and was going to run to call the police when
something caught her eye.

On the mirror were these words written in blood: “Am I
pretty enough now?”

No one deserves to be told that by someone they love. If you find it messed up then forward this to everyone you know.

A person’s appearance doesn’t count

What counts is their heart inside of them
and their personality. No one wants to be told they’re not good enough.

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Chickens offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 42 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (2 minutes after post)

Was this a real event?

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kimpos0 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
US | 1 year, 3 months ago (3 minutes after post)

idk my friend just myspaced it to me

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Chickens offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 42 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (6 minutes after post)

Good god, that was terrifying, ok so we know not to insult a girl

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JesusMurphy offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (7 minutes after post)

Oh my god what a spoiled dramatic crybaby to kill herself over that.

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Chickens offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 42 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (8 minutes after post)

For some reason, all girls are obsessive over their looks :P

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kimpos0 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
US | 1 year, 3 months ago (10 minutes after post)

HEY! i happen to be a girl!

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Chickens offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 42 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (11 minutes after post)

Are you Obsessive over your looks?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (11 minutes after post)

looks aint everytyhing, ive read that before, i dont think it is real! its not a good thing either way! people need to realise that vanity is stupid! no-one needs to be stupidly skinny or really pretty “beauty is in the eye of the beholder” so there will always be some one who will find someone beautiful!

peace

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Chickens offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 42 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (11 minutes after post)

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looks aint everytyhing, ive read that before, i dont think it is real! its not a good thing either way! people need to realise that vanity is stupid! no-one needs to be stupidly skinny or really pretty “beauty is in the eye of the beholder” so there will always be some one who will find someone beautiful!

peace

Perfectly said

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-Frit- offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 59 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (12 minutes after post)

lol

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kimpos0 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
US | 1 year, 3 months ago (13 minutes after post)

I AM A GIRL, and yall r over hear makin fun of girls

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-Frit- offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 59 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (14 minutes after post)

im not

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Chickens offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 42 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (14 minutes after post)

I’m not MAKING FUN, I’m simply saying that girls love themselves too much, lol :P

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kimpos0 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
US | 1 year, 3 months ago (15 minutes after post)

okay, but eaither way, i kinda upsess on how i look, expecially the way i am right now.

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-Frit- offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 59 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (16 minutes after post)

i made a valid point,

Emperor Chickens wrote:
I’m not MAKING FUN, I’m simply saying that girls love themselves too much, lol :P

that aint true, quite a lot of girls get depressed because they think they arent skinny enough or pretty enough, its one of the things thats wrong in the world!

kimpos0 wrote:
okay, but eaither way, i kinda upsess on how i look, expecially the way i am right now.

and how is that?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (16 minutes after post)

i am a girl too, and i dont care about that stf, heck if they only did like me for my looks i would dump the guy!

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kimpos0 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
US | 1 year, 3 months ago (17 minutes after post)

single and kinda scared to date

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (17 minutes after post)

but why?

kimpos0 wrote:
single and kinda scared to date

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Chickens offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 42 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (17 minutes after post)

Thats what all girls say, if i insulted you right now you would probbaly feel bad about yourslef.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (18 minutes after post)

i know that feeling! i been messed about by pretty much all my ex’s and im scared to commit again in case i get huet again!

Emperor Chickens wrote:
Thats what all girls say, if i insulted you right now you would probbaly feel bad about yourslef.

shush fool

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (18 minutes after post)

no i would not, i have a boy friend who likes me for who i am

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kimpos0 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
US | 1 year, 3 months ago (18 minutes after post)

no trust me after my last relationship words will never hurt me again

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (19 minutes after post)

Thats what ALL girls say

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (19 minutes after post)

no they do not.

Emperor Chickens wrote:
Thats what ALL girls say

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (20 minutes after post)

dont generalise like that emperor there is no way you can say that with certainty

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kimpos0 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
US | 1 year, 3 months ago (20 minutes after post)

okay the last relationship i had my boyfriend beat me up to where i had bruises so i dont think WORDS will hurt me

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (20 minutes after post)

Ifif wrote:
dont generalise like that emperor there is no way you can say that with certainty

parden?

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Chickens offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 42 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (21 minutes after post)

Your right, i have no way too tell if girls will go ape if you call them ugly

Ifif wrote:
dont generalise like that emperor there is no way you can say that with certainty

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (21 minutes after post)

kimpos0 wrote:
okay the last relationship i had my boyfriend beat me up to where i had bruises so i dont think WORDS will hurt me

oh well sorry, at least now words cant hurt, they never hurt me

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kimpos0 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
US | 1 year, 3 months ago (22 minutes after post)

its okay i was able to get out of it soon enough to were im still alive!

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (22 minutes after post)

I’m just kidding around all, I’m actually quite lovable

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (22 minutes after post)

naomie_sant wrote:

Ifif wrote:
dont generalise like that emperor there is no way you can say that with certainty
parden?

he said that all girls say that but he cant know that unless he met all the girls in the world

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (23 minutes after post)

kimpos0 wrote:
its okay i was able to get out of it soon enough to were im still alive!

he was going to KILL you?!?!

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (23 minutes after post)

ok then, i am gonna help someone else now so bye yall

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (23 minutes after post)

bye

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (39 minutes after post)

That was a real person, the story is a little distorted but that is something that did happen to a young girl who got bullied through myspace.

Some people will insult or put someone down and not realise that their words can be sharper than any knife.

A chat room or forum may be just a game to some peoplem they don’t see any one as real or haveing feelings but everything has an effect however small.

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kimpos0 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
US | 1 year, 3 months ago (43 minutes after post)

ya true

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (44 minutes after post)

it is, well bye again

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (58 minutes after post)

Everyone is beautiful. In thier ownway. This girl needed more confidence. Be positive to other’s. And they won’t feel judged.

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1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 16 minutes after post)

she shouldnt have been hassling him
he didnt want to tell her
and its so unrealistic that he really loved her even though she was ugly
stupid story

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 21 minutes after post)

It has been proven that women worry more about there looks then men. Men don’t always see why nor do they get it. To a woman she always wants to look good for the guy she likes. That’s nature so it’s only natural to worry about whether she looks good enough. Unfortunately it is very destructive and woman will NEVER know how beautiful she really looks. Not even if she’s told everyday by the man she loves.
Thing is some women stop thinking about how they look and get on with life which is great because that self consiouse feeling goes but some women can’t stop thinking about how they look.
I will say this most f the time women worry about how they look when they are in there teens and still growing up. They still have a lot to learn about life. They still have to learn that looks don’t matter and never will. But when your young….

If the story told was a true event then I am truly sorry for the people involved. I can understand how she would take her own life but then she should have considered how her mum would have felt. She should have taken a step back and thought about it all but then that’s easy for me to say. I’m not a teen any more and I have learnt alot of life’s lessons.

I’d like to add that everyone that has said that the girl mentioned in the story is stupid and that they don’t get it… Unless they have been there or understand a girls fragile mind, They shouldn’t really pass judgement like that. To be honest to call someone stupid shows they are no better then the boy mentioned in the story.

Think about what you say to people. What you think wont hurt them might actually cut deep!

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 24 minutes after post)

I’d just like to add this…

For anyone feeling insecure listen to this.

http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=QE5WaPq…

Every word of it is true! It’s not just a song. It’s life!

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 57 minutes after post)

I hate chain mail, But for some reason I found this very very sad… :(

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kimpos0 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
US | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 59 minutes after post)

its cuz its a sad story

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (2 hours, 11 minutes after post)

Yes it is. I don’t think it’s true, Or I pray that it isn’t. Everyone is beautiful in some way.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (3 hours, 19 minutes after post)

Emperor Chickens wrote:
For some reason, all girls are obsessive over their looks :P

well, yeah. the media is telling people that if they’re not pretty or thin then nobody will love them etc etc. girls can be veery insecure. i’m a girl….

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (3 hours, 20 minutes after post)

crimsonwing112 wrote:

Emperor Chickens wrote:
For some reason, all girls are obsessive over their looks :P

well, yeah. the media is telling people that if they’re not pretty or thin then nobody will love them etc etc. girls can be veery insecure. i’m a girl….

Thanks for quoting me, ~No sarcasm~

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (3 hours, 22 minutes after post)

Emperor Chickens wrote:

crimsonwing112 wrote:
Emperor Chickens wrote:
For some reason, all girls are obsessive over their looks :P

well, yeah. the media is telling people that if they’re not pretty or thin then nobody will love them etc etc. girls can be veery insecure. i’m a girl….

Thanks for quoting me, ~No sarcasm~

you’re welcome =]

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (3 hours, 41 minutes after post)

Well he should have told her how he felt about her and now the girl took her life. Do guys have any idea how much that hurts when guys say things like that to girl?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (5 hours, 26 minutes after post)

Everybody has the capacity to be cruel. You just need the capacity to rise above.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (19 hours, 25 minutes after post)

simone wrote:
Everybody has the capacity to be cruel. You just need the capacity to rise above.

agreed

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Sandgate, G5, GB | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 day, 7 hours after post)

Emperor Chickens wrote:
I’m not MAKING FUN, I’m simply saying that girls love themselves too much, lol :P

haha LMFAO!
i bet u love urself

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Sandgate, G5, GB | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 day, 7 hours after post)

Emperor Chickens wrote:

crimsonwing112 wrote:
Emperor Chickens wrote:
For some reason, all girls are obsessive over their looks :P

well, yeah. the media is telling people that if they’re not pretty or thin then nobody will love them etc etc. girls can be veery insecure. i’m a girl….

Thanks for quoting me, ~No sarcasm~

yeh its true. the pressure here to fit into an unrealistic perfect category of beauty such as being thin etc is so great its pathetic. hopefully in the future things will change for the better and people will look back on how things are at present and realise how absurd it all is!

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (3 days, 10 hours after post)

it sends a good message in a way kinda

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (4 days, 19 hours after post)

this brings back a lot of memories for me.

your right, no girl or boy should ever gear this. but people tell it them non the less.

when i was 18 i fell in love with a boy, and when he didnt love me back and he finally told me why it was because I was albino and the way i looked and my family. he never loved me for me, he loved me because i had money. and now i see what i really had a jerk but idk…its hard to explain. im glad him and i arnt together but but i wish he never said what he said. it hurt me more then anything in the world. but it also showed me what some people are like and even though it took me somtime and help to get to be whom i am today it made me stronger too.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (3 weeks, 2 days after post)

hi how are you?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (3 weeks, 2 days after post)

Good god whenever i read this story i get the chills

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (3 weeks, 2 days after post)

spiritedsoul wrote:

Emperor Chickens wrote:
crimsonwing112 wrote:
Emperor Chickens wrote:
For some reason, all girls are obsessive over their looks :P

well, yeah. the media is telling people that if they’re not pretty or thin then nobody will love them etc etc. girls can be veery insecure. i’m a girl….

Thanks for quoting me, ~No sarcasm~

yeh its true. the pressure here to fit into an unrealistic perfect category of beauty such as being thin etc is so great its pathetic. hopefully in the future things will change for the better and people will look back on how things are at present and realise how absurd it all is!

yes, it’s pathetic, but its reality.
if i continue, i’m just gonna blame the media so i’ll stop here.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (3 weeks, 2 days after post)

the media is to blame! with loads of girls thinking and actually believing that they cant be beautiful because of all the adverts shown on the tv for make up! and personally i know people who wont go out or pretty much wont let anyone look at them if they dont have any make up on, thats how insecure she is! rant rant rant im gonna stop before i wont lol!

peace

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (2 months after post)

It’s brutal when someone has to think they have to please someone else. I’m sure we’ve all done something not to this extent maybe, but to change ourselves for someone else or a group of people to be good enough. I can plead guilty of this on a million cases. But in the end, I do blame media and society. Yeah celebs are good looking and such, rich and famous. But how many die from drug overdoses? How many are miserable and shaving their heads and losing their kids? No one is perfect, the sooner everyone in the world can understand that, the better we’ll all be. But hey, this is just the thoughts and opinions of another 19 year old right? No one listens to me yet, but eventually our word will be heard. (That was lame and unintentional lol)

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (2 months, 1 week after post)

hi can you be my friend?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (2 months, 1 week after post)

★Chick★ens★ wrote:
Your right, i have no way too tell if girls will go ape if you call them ugly

Ifif wrote:
dont generalise like that emperor there is no way you can say that with certainty

Oh boy… i remember this!! Go ape lol =P

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