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I realized something today and I would prefer if those

who dont believe I am me, those who think I am multiple users, those who think I am a troll and so on would take me off their friends lists. I dont mind or care what you think, if you think Im fake so be it. You have every right to your opinion, but I have a right to not have fake friends as well. I wrote a post the other day and for those of you who doubt me I still thanked you for being a friend then I got to thinking why in the world would I want friends who think Im fake. I am removing all from my friends from my list and hope those who have their doubts about me to take me off theirs. If you would like to stay my friend then please reply here and I will re add you. either way its your choice. if you decide not to be my friend any longer i will harbor no ill feelings, I do understand the situation, but doesn’t mean I have to like it or take part in it. I want no drama just want to know who my friends really are. Thanks

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brokenwingsdontfly invited 30 users to read this post 1 year, 4 months ago.

Amber Soul offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Middleton, K1, GB | 1 year, 4 months ago (3 minutes after post)

I still want to be your friend!

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brokenwingsdontfly offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (5 minutes after post)

good, I afraid I am going to lose more then keep.
thanks for being my friend

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thep offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 59 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (11 minutes after post)

I still haven’t managed to read it yet, will do when I have sent this message.

I think you already know how I feel about you being a friend. If I thought you were a fake and wanted you off my friends list. I would have removed you from it.
Dont even think of removing me from yours, I like you being there.

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Florimouse offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 26 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (14 minutes after post)

Brokenwings, I don’t think you’re somebody else, and I would like you back on my friends list. :)

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brokenwingsdontfly offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (15 minutes after post)

No rush on the email, whenever you got time. I figured youd be one to stick around thep.

and florie thank you and would be more then happy to have you on ther

annlovestars you too.

Thanks guys for replying

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Florimouse offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 26 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (16 minutes after post)

thank YOU :)

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Amber Soul offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Middleton, K1, GB | 1 year, 4 months ago (17 minutes after post)

annlovestars wrote:
and Amber eyes lol

god forget me then! Lol

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brokenwingsdontfly offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (25 minutes after post)

could never forget you amber eyes

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~Grace~ offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (26 minutes after post)

Sarah, I’m not sure if you realized I’m pretty lost here. I added you to my friends list on my other account just before you got back, and I have no idea what’s been going on in this other post you’re talking about. Lol.

I think you’re a wonderful, strong person, and would like to add you to my friends list on this account if you like. My old account was Skye/Syke by the way. :)

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brokenwingsdontfly offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (28 minutes after post)

should I add both or just the one? and people think im multiple users…. hehe

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~Grace~ offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (31 minutes after post)

Lol. I have about 4 accounts, but this one and my other one (which I just mentioned) are my main ones now. So you might want to keep both of them. Lol.

I let people know when I’m another name, and people can usually tell, anyway. :) If they’re not sure it’s me, then it’s probably not.

And don’t worry, I have absolutely no qualms with you. :) I have no reason.

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brokenwingsdontfly offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (33 minutes after post)

awesome I appreciate all those who think im real, I dont need people to believe me but its nice when people dont call you a troll!

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thep offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 59 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (39 minutes after post)

Have read it now and replied. Thank you for sharing something so beatiful.

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thep offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 59 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (40 minutes after post)

beautiful^^

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~Grace~ offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (42 minutes after post)

brokenwings.4everfly wrote:
awesome I appreciate all those who think im real, I dont need people to believe me but its nice when people dont call you a troll!

Pffft, troll schmol. I’ll tell you who’s a real troll that the mods need to get rid of, that **** infected_werewolf or whatever his name is. Ugh! He gets on my last nerve in the chat.

You are certainly not a troll, sweetie. I’ve seen my fair share of them to say that.

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~Grace~ offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (44 minutes after post)

d*mn. Ugh. I still don’t see how that’s a cuss word. Lol.

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brokenwingsdontfly offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (49 minutes after post)

well thanks, I think ive come along way from where I was at months ago. Its the first time in a long time I can and will say I am proud of me!

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Florimouse offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 26 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (53 minutes after post)

whew! :)

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~Grace~ offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (53 minutes after post)

Yes, Mas. It’s the same one. :) Hence why I said “before you came back” in my original reply. Lol.

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brokenwingsdontfly offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (57 minutes after post)

yes mas it is the same me!(lol) thanks for the faith

and yes i was not well in any way before but now have the world at my fingertips! ready to live and enjoy life.

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Goodfella offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (1 hour, 6 minutes after post)

I think you already know I still want to be your friend …………..RON.

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brokenwingsdontfly offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (1 hour, 8 minutes after post)

awesome!!!I suspected but didnt know for sure. re added you are my friend.

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srnityblu offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Regina, SK, CA | 1 year, 4 months ago (1 hour, 34 minutes after post)

Brokenwings, AWESOME FOR YOU for being bold enough and finding your voice to stand up for yourself in such a beautiful manner! I like how you show decorum and please keep me on your friends list, I think of you daily now and you have warmed your way into my heart forever, friend.

HUGS! Love ya, Shannon

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brokenwingsdontfly offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (1 hour, 38 minutes after post)

Thank you srynityblu glad to have you

kera you chose to read it and chose to reply if you notice I invited my friends here for a reason to clear the air. I am not trying to cause drama and would appreciate if you didnt try to stir things up on my post. Like i said you chose to read it and chose to reply, you dont know the situation so please dont judge. To me the title kinda says alot as to what its about dont like it dont join in.

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brokenwingsdontfly offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (1 hour, 46 minutes after post)

well on my end it shows up

I realized something today and I would prefer if those

who dont believe I am me, those who think I am multiple users, those who think I am a troll and so on would take me off their friends lists.

Are you really that bored your trying to make something outta nothing
please if you dont like it stat away i wont mind

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brokenwingsdontfly offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (1 hour, 46 minutes after post)

stay*

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Marylou offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (3 hours, 46 minutes after post)

How can I put this Sarah? First of all I love your name! And I’m happy if you’re feeling a lot better. That’s good.

I very rarely take people off my friends list. Actually I never did and I don’t think I want to start now. You would have to be a real mean spirited person for me to do that! Or… it would have to be on a mutual agreement. If ever I feel you have personally wronged me in any way, I’ll be sure to let you know how I feel before I ever do something like that. I like to give people the benefit of the doubt and a chance to express themselves.

So there you go! I wasn’t in the mood for any kind of drama, however small, but I still took the time to reply because it seemed important to you.

Now…… Wish me a Happy Birthday!! :) :)

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brokenwingsdontfly offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (3 hours, 49 minutes after post)

Happy Birthday marylou and thanks for taking the time to reply

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Marylou offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (4 hours, 32 minutes after post)

:) :)

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molotok offline Verified User (3 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 37 #
Gävle, 03, SE | 1 year, 4 months ago (9 hours, 32 minutes after post)

Sarah, I never doubted you and I want to remain your friend.
i will also alert another, mutual friends who is not often around as of lately.

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brokenwingsdontfly offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (9 hours, 34 minutes after post)

Thanks molotok, and if your talking about who I think you might be, I didnt remove that person cause I spoke with them on messenger today.

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Sans offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 57 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (10 hours, 20 minutes after post)

Sarah, I now believe you are really you. When you went in the hospital, I got ready to hop on a plane to your city to sit by your bed. I know that sounds stupid, but that’s what I did. But the hospital desk person told me you weren’t there. Then your friend, who I didn’t know, said not to even send a get-well card there, and I became suspicious. The similarities between you and her are many, and I concluded that you two were one person pulling an elaborate hoax for attention. I felt betrayed. I left the site for about a week and a half, mad that I would have given so much of my heart to you (not in a romantic way) and been taken for a fool. Later I realized that you two just have a lot in common.

I’m sorry for doubting you or for saying so to others. If you can for forgive me, I would like to be your friend again. I tried to shout this to you but your shoutbox was locked I guess.

Tonight is the first time I’ve read your recent posts. You have come a long way. I’m happy for you that your daughter has brought such joy into your life.

Please remember this about relapses. Even the most successful alcoholic is always just a single drink from falling. It’s not about building up a number, it’s about trying again each day. You can do it! You have the best reason in the world to keep trying and not give up.

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brokenwingsdontfly offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (10 hours, 31 minutes after post)

Sans like I stated above, I completely understand the situation. I didnt like it but I understood. More then happy to have you as a friend. You really do mean alot to me.

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Max offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 202 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (14 hours, 14 minutes after post)

You’re a friend to me..:)

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Indianapolis, IN, US | 1 year, 4 months ago (1 day, 1 hour after post)

I would like to still be on your friends list.

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nextstar offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (1 day, 12 hours after post)

I’m your friend & i will alway be your friend :)

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (2 days, 2 hours after post)

If I thought you were fake I wouldn’t have you on MY friends list. I think that speaks for itself.

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Gloversville, NY, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (3 days, 6 hours after post)

well.. i have to state that as i was reading through all the replies… i have to say… there are a few that were the original people who started things and making others question things… and yet, completely deny having involvement.. i refuse to mention names… but its really funny how people can turn… stab people in the back one moment and then all of a sudden be really buddy buddy with the person that they stabbed… hhhmmm… makes ya think of who you should really let into you life now a days….

glad to hear that you are better… shie.

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Midvale, UT, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (4 days, 3 hours after post)

Brokenwings,
I have supported you many times. I checked back, I shouted, I tried in everyway to let you know you mattered. I have never heard a word from you. Im not sure you even know who I am. Im not sure you would notice if I were gone. I have no reason to unfriend you as we have never had a difference to work out.
I am still here. I can leave the matter up to you. If you would like to get to know me that would be nice. Im thrilled to hear you are feeling better and maybe your life has turned around.

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