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My friend a few months ago started hanging out with my sister Mandy.

I wondered why because I known her for around 9 years and never once did she ever show any signs of friendship towards her. My mom got in between there friendship and my friend got mad at me for it. My sister is not very nice and can be mean. If I say no I dont want to go somewhere she will ask my sister. They have more in common then we do. We are going in grade 8 and my sis is going to grade 9 so we wont even be in they same school. I know my sis and she will only hang out with my friend if there is nothing else to do. What should i do i dont wont them hanging out it annoys me and my sis got my friend trying bad stuff and taking risks that she should not try. If your friend was busy would you run to her sister? can someone give me advice i dont know if i am being mean or if i should stop there friendship.

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Well you cant stop their friendship as much as it hurts, that would only make things worse. This is an awkward situation and I’m not sure what the solution is but you are in no position to tell your friend that she cant hang out with your sister. At the very least your friend only hangs out with your sister when you are BUSY, shes not the priority.

Maybe if its really bugging you confront your friend, bring it up casually and see what happens. Say youve noticed that he/she’s been hangin around your sister a lot and that it feels kinda wierd. If he/she is truly your friend you two can discuss it openly.

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