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I think I hurt the one I most care about. Not on purpose or directly.I thought someone might be a (so called) ‘Troll’ so I told the one person I trusted. they took it harder than me, it hurt them and almost deleted their account here. Ive never been sure and the person i told already told others. I’m sure they told because they wanted to know if it was true and for support. Now the (so called) Troll has a bad reputation because of it. I want to tell them I’m sorry and write the wrong if possible because i feel guilty bcuz I kinda am and I think I owe it to them. but I dont want to lose our great friendship . do you think I owe it to them ? They said its ok now but IDK. I dont want to confess just to feel better, thats selfish of me.I dont think anything good will come out of doing this.only more hurt , problems and talk.If I dont confess the (accused) might not be friends with the one who told others. what to do ?

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brokenandbloodie 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (11 minutes after post)

Sorry, can’t say I know what to do in a situation like this… I take it you are talking about brokenwings?

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~Grace~ 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (11 minutes after post)

Be honest. That’s all really you can be. Whichever way it goes, you need to deal with the consequences.

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baby_girl_twin_2005 2 #
Marshalltown, IA, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (11 minutes after post)

Its better to tell the person that you feel guilty about sumthing u did then to lay it off because it will hurt u even more. i think you should tell them because if they are a true friend they will understand. Not telling them will make it a lot worse but its your choice because others cant tell you what and what not to do

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