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Okay the girl I like is right by me.

What’s the best way to ask her out to lunch sometime? She’s working right now and is by herself. Help asap

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AshleyAnemia. (: offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
US | 1 year, 3 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Where are you?

Work?

Internet cafe?

Somewhere?

Surroundings help.
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need_advice offline Verified User (1 year, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
US | 1 year, 3 months ago (4 minutes after post)

At a festival. Check my previous posts for info. Do I go direct??

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AshleyAnemia. (: offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
US | 1 year, 3 months ago (7 minutes after post)

I would do the lunch question.
be a bit vaugue.

Not like “Let’s go out to lunch tomorrow at 2.”

Do something like… ” was wondering if maybe we go could out to lunch.. tomrrow around 2-ish?”

then if she says yes, plan it a little more.
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need_advice offline Verified User (1 year, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
US | 1 year, 3 months ago (9 minutes after post)

How should I approach her and bring it up? Should I compliment her?

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HelpIsAwesome offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (12 minutes after post)

I’m a girl and I feel more comfy when guys aren’t too forward…they just casually bring up a convo first. Like mention something in the news to maybe comment on something I’m doing. Keep it light at first.

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need_advice offline Verified User (1 year, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
US | 1 year, 3 months ago (14 minutes after post)

Can I still compliment her when I greet her?

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HelpIsAwesome offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (15 minutes after post)

Yeah but don’t be creepy! =)
Like don’t be too forward or obvious…be sweet.

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need_advice offline Verified User (1 year, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
US | 1 year, 3 months ago (17 minutes after post)

How long should I talk with her before I bring it up?

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HelpIsAwesome offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (19 minutes after post)

feel the convo out and she how much she talks back. i kno every1 says “be urself” but u really shud b because u will be more confident. confidence (not cockyness) is VERY attractive. If the convo doesn’t get weird (like long pauses)…then ease into it. Don’t b afraid of rejection…that will only make u nervous. =)

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AshleyAnemia. (: offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
US | 1 year, 3 months ago (20 minutes after post)

HelpIsAwesome wrote:
Yeah but don’t be creepy! =)Like don’t be too forward or obvious…be sweet.

lmao
Oh yes.
We all hate creepy.
Don’t be all like “Oh byy, I love the way your eyes sparkle in the sun everyday!” then you’re begging for a restraining order and a face of mace. (lol that rhymed)/

HelpIsAwesome wrote:
feel the convo out and she how much she talks back. i kno every1 says “be urself” but u really shud b because u will be more confident. confidence (not cockyness) is VERY attractive. If the convo doesn’t get weird (like long pauses)…then ease into it. Don’t b afraid of rejection…that will only make u nervous. =)

Yeah. do that, would be best.

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