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So I approached her today, and she seemed kind of distant.

Should I go back? I didn’t feel comfortable asking her, especially with someone else there. What should I do now? I can’t give up just yet! Ask if you need more details. Thanks! Please check my other posts for background info.

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please check out my previous posts about background info. So I approached her today, and she seemed kind of distant. Should I go back? I didn’t feel comfortable asking her, especially with someone else there. What should I do now? I can’t give up just yet! Ask if you need more details. Thanks!

Dorian offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (23 minutes after post)

So, what did you actually say to her?

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need_advice offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
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I tried to start a conversation with her, but she was back in her stand and the other person was really the only one who was holding up the conversation.

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Dorian offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (31 minutes after post)

Well if all you’re going to do is ask her out for lunch, that doesn’t take much of a conversation. Just go up to her stand (preferably in the morning sometime) and ask her if she fancies grabbing some lunch with you later. Simple.

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sammytsa offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (6 hours, 51 minutes after post)

Well, im not much of a love professional, but love takes courage. just like the previous person said. go up to her “casually” and just go like “hey, wanna go eat lunch together?”
1.Approach>with courage and self confidence.

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