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I’m studying Classical Singing for two years now, against all odds and with a BIG vision.

I’m 28 years old, which means I began very late in life, and I didn’t have musical training my whole childhood and adolescence. In fact, in the household I grew up Music was not tolerated, and turns out I’m having tremendous difficulties.

I know I’m not actually tone-deaf, but I’m having a hard, hard time learning the tunes and pieces. My vocal coach says I have a very beautiful voice, and I agree, having heard it recorded, but she also says of all her students I’m the only one she’s ever had that has such a tremendous difficulty singing a simple piece. And mind you, her experience is VAST. I am always so out of tune and it costs me forever to learn ANY new piece. What creates the dilemma is that I have such a great time during the lesson or studying on the piano… That’s why I know I’m not hearing-impaired. I can enjoy music, and I can tell that two tunes are different, or even when a note is off-pitch.

How can a guy in my situation train his ear and become an actual musician?? Because honestly, EAR is the most basic of traits in a decent musician.

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SoulRising offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (8 minutes after post)

Practice. Practice. Practice:).

Sing those scales, practice those pieces, take care of your instrument (voice:), eat right, sleep right. Don’t talk as much when you have a performance scheduled. Practice your breathing, possibly take up running for improved breathing. Make sure you learn if you do not already know, how to read music. Lemons are good to suck if performing, I use them to moisten my throat:) It lasts longer than water and make me salivate.

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1 year, 3 months ago (2 days, 1 hour after post)

I have never had singing lesson but really want some, but i cant afford them at the moment, any good tips, tircks any where to start, i sing for a band but not well!

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (2 days, 13 hours after post)

Technique is remarkably easy when you have good coaching, and it takes nothing more than time and commitment. If you can afford a coach right now, start working on your breathing. That will get you set to benefit the most when you get an actual coach. Montserrat CavallĂ© actually advocates two whole years dedicated to breathing before even starting vocalizes. Get a small something that is heavy (around 5 or 10 kg), place it on your lower belly and breath in, raising the weight. Hold the air inside your lungs for as long as you can (goal is something between 40 seconds and 1 minute), and then exhale VERY SLOWLY, sustaining both the very light outflow of air and the weight on your belly. That’s excellent practice for stronger support muscles. Back exercises are also excellent. Swimming, Rowing and Yoga are the most popular physical activities among singers, as well as walking, obviously. If you can afford a book, I recommend Cathrine Sadolin’ “Complete Vocal Technique”, and anything by Richard Miller.

For ear, well, you know I’m certainly not the best person to give you advice in, but there are heaps of softwares around. I’m currently working with EarMaster, which is yielding some results (but not the ones I dreamt of and desperately need). I heard just today about one called “Carry a Tune”. I’ll try it tonight when I get home.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (2 days, 18 hours after post)

Wow Awen198

You know vocalization:)!

I have not sung for years but I use to sing some opera and blues, jazz, rock and roll.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (2 days, 19 hours after post)

Yeah, I do. But it took me a couple of months before I could actually do it without the need of my coach singing in tandem with me. Actually, the first coach I got was also a tenor, because I couldn’t sort out octaves higher (with a Bass) or lower (with a lady coach)! :D

I’m a mess. But persistance is in my genes!!

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (3 days, 2 hours after post)

I am a coloratura soprano. What do you sing?

Have you ever listened to Katherine Battle:)? Like bells.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (3 days, 11 hours after post)

Yeah! I actually own a record of her singing one of Mendelssohn’s faeries in “Midsummer’s Night Dream” together with Frederica von Stade. Both singers, the Boston Symphony Orchestra and narrator Judi Dench made a fantastic job, but I HATE Seiji Ozawa’s rendition. It’s really frustrating that he transformed the spell the elves were casting for Titania’s sleep (and ulterior enchantment by Puck and Oberon) into a colourless lullaby. It was supposed to be a typical Fae trick, predicting the mayhem the donkeyhead affair would cause!

My classification is Tenor Lirico-Leggero, the lightest of tenors (but not countertenor). Come to think of it, maybe that’s why I miss the pitch so often… Too light voice. I’ll mention this to my coach, let’s see what she thinks!

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Rio De Janeiro, 21, BR | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 week after post)

Good news is: this is not sports… you don’t need to be young in order to be good.
You have plenty of time =)

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