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so i have been in love…

but unfortunately a split took place due to the fact that my ex didnt want to commit (26 years old). i couldnt manage to be his friend but he managed to get in contact with me every once in a while to check in. we ran into eachother and he mentioned to me that he dated a chick for 4 months but nothing came out of it. we ran into eachother (kind of) the other night and he kept eyeing me but i never once made eye contact or anything. i dont get it he is the one that asked for the split but then hes kind of looking through the glass to see whats going on, to me it doesnt make sense, maybe to you it will.

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SoulRising offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Do you really want to commit to him? He was with a girl 4 months, does he ever go very long without a girl? Is he looking at you because he is alone and enjoyed you (and wouldn’t mind it again)? Or is he really interested in committing to you?

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iamqueenofthegypsie offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Granada Hills, CA, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (12 minutes after post)

i guess i am a confused part in my life. i honestly can say i dont know what i want anymore romantically that is. i just want to be happy. i guess the fact is that i spent a great deal of time in this relationship. you know how they say “girls are hard to read?” well i got news for you guys, you guys are hard for us to read……lol. im just kidding. but when we had the talk last time or anytime he never mentions to me about “us” its just like hey how are you. he just mentioned one time that i was a great gf.

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~*Bleeding_Heart*~ offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (13 minutes after post)

guys r just a mystery

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SoulRising offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (23 minutes after post)

iamqueenofthegypsie wrote:
i guess i am a confused part in my life. i honestly can say i dont know what i want anymore romantically that is. i just want to be happy. i guess the fact is that i spent a great deal of time in this relationship. you know how they say “girls are hard to read?” well i got news for you guys, you guys are hard for us to read……lol. im just kidding. but when we had the talk last time or anytime he never mentions to me about “us” its just like hey how are you. he just mentioned one time that i was a great gf.

I think he has moved on. He does not want to commit to you, based on what you just said, although he would take you back for a few more good times. I bet he use to say “I just want to have fun, your no fun anymore.” You are better off without this guy. If he couldn’t live without you, he would have come back and proposed.

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