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Messed Up Relationships.

Well let me start with a background of my relationships then.
First girlfriend, i was with for a few years loved her to bits but found out she cheated on me and was only usin me to feel like someone in the world loved her. Broke up on valentines day, about 6 years ago now.

Second, i was with for about 3 weeks, found out she cheated on me and that she was using me to get together with my best friend.

Third, exactly the same happened as what happened with the second girlfriend…

Forth turned out to be a pyco path that was also just usin me to get close to one of my mates…

Fifth same as second and third.

Sixth and most recent girlfriend. I went out with her for a few days and then she broke up with me cause she was using me to fill wanted cause she fort that no one loved her then she realised when i was with her that she didnt want to be with me so she crushed me… but the problem is that was only a few days ago, and becasue of how we left it i still love her and i dont no what to do anymore.

So here are my two questions.
1.Why do i always atract the ladies that are gonna use me
2.How can i either get over the last girl or get get her to like me cause im really upset….

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Kalorok offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (2 minutes after post)

you might have a trust issue, weher you trust way to much and cause things to slide. another thing is desperation. i dont know for sure as i dont know u at all lol

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Kalorok offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (5 minutes after post)

also in the sixth, you cant love someone after a few days of dating, you may think its love but i highly doubt the posibility of loving someone within a few days of the relationship, you hardly know each other?

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downman1 offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 22 minutes after post)

you need to change your mind set. first you don’t need a relationship to be happy. you need to learn to live with out a relationship.
second you need to wear the pants in a relationship some women love it when you decide here to go and stuff.
thirdly don’t b a wimp don’t be afraid to speak up because you don’t want to loose them.
fourthly don’t put the pvssy on a pedestal you just work too hard to put you thing in somthing no bigger than a quarter that is all its worth don’t let it scare you.
you don’t have to buy these peple gifts andtreat them if they were going to be your future wives and sh!t

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downman1 offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 24 minutes after post)

Kalorok wrote:
also in the sixth, you cant love someone after a few days of dating, you may think its love but i highly doubt the posibility of loving someone within a few days of the relationship, you hardly know each other?

good point you cant do this **** this just screams i need sombody to love me. confessing your feelings to a person you hardly know is stupid

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freckles06108 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (8 months after post)

sounds to me like you think everyone is trying to use you, whether this is true or whether this is just how you see it may be a different matter. if i was you, i’d talk to a friend who knows more about the situation but isnt going to sugar coat it for you and ask them if you think all these girls used you. secondly you should not think about dating for a while if your not hung up with this girl you’l just be on the rebound anyway. I dont believe you can love someone after that short amount of time but i know what it feels like to be in lust with someone, keep in contact with her and try being her friend first.. if you still like her after a few weeks tell her so..

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