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I have a bad problem with drugs and cant stop, but

i cut down alot but i feel myself gettin sucked into the life all over again, im upset and miserable and cant look at me family anymore and im relly feelin like dying inside

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seasons offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (8 minutes after post)

doesnt any one care ?

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grim_tweete offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (12 minutes after post)

i helped my best mate kick drugs, drink and smoking in under two years.

it was very difficult for her but we were in love (complicated!!) and i couldnt go out with someone who did any of those things..

what you need is something or someone you are doing this for and people who will understand to help you through it.

try a support group? its next to impossible to do it alone.

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Rico offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
US | 1 year, 3 months ago (14 minutes after post)

Heres the deal. You cannot do this alone. If you are serious about quitting then you need to get into a support group an proper medical attention.

Most OD’s are not when they are in the throws of addiction but when they relapse. Without help you will relapse. Call up alanon or NA now and get some help.

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seasons offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (18 minutes after post)

thats the prob i lost my girlfriend, my familys starting to relly hate me and im gettin old and havent made the changes i want to, everyday i pray and im a good person and i even have a really good job but i drink i party then i do coke then im up all night then i miss work then i need to smoke weed to feel better than i need to drink to try to meet girls and socialize i have alot of friends like me but i feel like they might be part of the prob

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Rico offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
US | 1 year, 3 months ago (23 minutes after post)

Let me say this again….Call up alanon or NA! If you are ready to be clean then you need to be girl free and friend free for a while. You are right that friends are part of the problem. You cannot hang with them any more…forever. A drug free life is a life without druggie friends.

Your family most likely doesn’t hate you but your addiction. You clean up and they will come back. As for your job…well it won’t last long with a coke problem. Call up NA now. Start going to meetings and start talking to your doctor about options to clean up.

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seasons offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (24 minutes after post)

i did that and it worked for a while but i guess i figured i had control i dont even like coke but i do like to smoke can i continue to smoke weed and still maintain ?

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j0k3rz babygurl offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (25 minutes after post)

well 1st why did you get into drugs

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seasons offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (27 minutes after post)

my friends started me this group of kids i started chill with because i hated staying home, my family was always screaming and fighting, but now i have new frinds too from work and they like to drink so after drinking with themm i go on my own and get high on really bad drugs and regret it like i did last night

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Rico offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
US | 1 year, 3 months ago (29 minutes after post)

No, you cannot continue to smoke M. You are self medicating. The pot is going to stop working at some point and the coke WILL come back. You need to deal with your problems with a professional. You need to go back into treatment. You failed because you continue to hang with a crowd of druggies.

You want to be clean then no alcohol, no pot, no coke. You need to deal with the family/mental issues by talking to a professional who can determine if a safe medication is necessary.

jam101 offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (29 minutes after post)

no substances allowed… including marijuana

i just want to tell you, that being human, you DO have the inner strength to overcome your probelms, and live a happy life. its true.

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j0k3rz babygurl offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (31 minutes after post)

i know how u feel but you have to stop for your own good it doesnt take you anywhere …..

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pedagogy offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (41 minutes after post)

keep your head down. Believe that there is something better for yourself. Your past will never be through with you but I know you have strength of mind and soul to repair your own life and your relationships. Find strength. It will not just be given or accepted. You must earn every bit of progress, but you ARE capable. Trust yourself and your blood. Keep your head down, find and follow the path you know the the is way. Your past is not through with you but you and your mistakes can make and shape you future. Know the strength that will guide you to the right path.

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jam101 offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (44 minutes after post)

join a religion

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (59 minutes after post)

bro i’ll tell you the secret to life, and this goes for anything. Whenever you feel like your getting pulled into something, or feeling sad about a loss start over. Find something that represents starting over and just do it. OR you could do what I do, sit in the shower for about 2 hours and sort your life out one problem at a time.

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Neutra offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 78 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 14 minutes after post)

Just toss it and forget about it. If you have the will power you can overcome it.

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1 year, 3 months ago (2 hours, 40 minutes after post)

Just say “no!” to drugs.

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