My boyfriend used to be so nice to me!
He used to be so sweet, sensitive and caring. when we used to go out I was his only focus and he was so happy and proud to be with me.
We’ve been together almost four n half years now, but now he changed.He got too comfortable. He treats me like I’m worst than the dirt beneath his boots but sometimes his behaviour towards me is soo loving, nice and kind.I haven’t changed one bit. I haven’t let myself “go”, I haven’t changed my seemingly happy and kind attitude,He has gotten quite aggressive and pushy and I fear it will only get worst.
I have talked to him, not yelled, and have told him how I feel and he only rolls his eyes and says the same old thing, “I’ll get better I promise, things will change”……It’s been a long time and nothing has changed.We don’t fight like we used to but that is only because I am sick saying how I feel and getting shutdown and hurt even more. The only reason we haven’t argued like we have before is because I have learned to shut my mouth out of being intimidated tremendously and I don’t feel getting hurt again is worth it. But he thinks I am happy because I have kept my mouth shut and I don’t know what to do! I am so depressed and cry but he doesn’t care and i think he’ll never truly change.
The bold days when I do tell him how I feel, he says he will be nice from then on, but it only lasts half a day.
I truly love him soo much and I am trying to keep everything together, but I feel I have given him too many chances, and have forgiven him too many times, and now I think like he only wants me with him so he won’t be alone.
Is there any hope? Do these guys really ever change or get better? Will he ever make me feel special again?
please help me……………
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