Year help: So if you are supposed to meet someone and they are a no show (for a date) and then you see them online and they don’t reply. - Help.com

Thanks for the replies guys. He told me to pick the place and time because he wanted me to be comfortable. So I did and his first email was just a reply something like “yes thats good meet you at the cafe at 10:30″ — Hmm that was Saturday. So I didnt reply — I didnt want to draw out a bunch of “okays”. I didnt see his last reply until I was on my way out the door and I was already pushing for time and it didnt seem it would matter if I did reply anyway.

I just was like you are 61 freaking years old. I wasn’t sure if I was being dramatic or if he really was being immature.

When I instant message him I said Hello, he said Hello how are you, ME Im good how are you, HIM Im good too, so you are from Tx?, ME No Im from La, Him — nothing , ME I was going to move to TX , HIM -Disconnects-

I was supposed to move to Tx but I decided to stay. We previously sent emails to each other back in Jan but I decided I was going to move and then decided to stay and Id sent him a email saying so. So he asked if we could meet and for me to pick the place blah blah. I just feel like he seemed very eager to meet me then is a no show. The cafe is big as a large corner — Only one person came in and he was college aged.

Im most annoyed because I put on a dress and heels. What a waste! haha.

So if Im forgetting him, I can send him a hate email right lol? They were 4 inch heel =]

Okay guys I sent this. I edited out names

Hello,

I don’t know what the deal is but you are 61 years old if you aren’t interested then say so. I’m not miss dramatic, I hate drama — I need my energy for fun things not drama. You wanted to meet, that’s all Ive gotten from you from your first email is “lets meet lets meet”. Then you are a no show or at least you didn’t show your face to me. What you did show was a lack of respect. I figured “something might have happen to him”. So when I logged in and you were online I instant messaged you and in the middle of the conversation when I’m guessing you realized it was me you logged off. If that’s the case then your age doesn’t say much for you.

The thing is I put on a silly dress and heels. Four inch heels mind you. And I decided I owed it to myself to let you know how I didn’t appreciate being ditched.

That was my first time going to that Cafe. The food was good and the workers are pleasant. Also turns out the cafe I do work at used to be run by the lady who runs this one. Funny. So it was nice meeting her and chatting a bit. So I recommend them, that is if you haven’t already eaten there before.

You have a good day.

Thanks dez, emorc and sad poet. I could have sleep in this morning. And who doesn’t like to sleep in. But wooo! I had a interview/training (im unsure which stage im at right now) to be a preschool teacher. And Im certain I have the job. The kids totally lighted up my day so not like this bum got to me too much. I guess it just shocked me that someone so old could play a younglin’s game. Well now I know better. At any age a man can still be a boy lol.

He probably saw me through a window and thought I was just too hott for him. [I was the wronged party here so I’m entitled to tell my self absurd things]