Love help: Im worried about my life and mommy! - Help.com

why dont you tell her that?

sashugs wrote:
why dont you tell her that?

Yeah. she might not listen though, but try, you also have to do al you can to expose how your father is effecting the famiy.

Leaving an abusive relationship can be like getting over an addiction. It may take some time for a person to decide to leave an abusive relationship. It’s difficult but things can change. Your mom won’t leave your father until she is ready. It may seem as though she has picked your father over you and your siblings but she doesn’t. Some women do not leave because they do not know how they will support their children. Domestic violence is about control and power. The abuser has gain control over time through intimidation their victim by breaking down their sense of self. You can help your mom by supporting her. Let her know that she does not deserve to hurt. Tell her she has a choice to leave, tell her that she is not alone and that others have been in the similar situations and get her support from your local domestic violence agencies. She may be too afraid to leave so getting connected to friends and family can also help her find the courage. The National Domestic Violence Hotline is 1-800-799-7233.

you are going to have to seek help proffessionaslly because if your mom chooses him over her kids she is always going to be that way seriously.. my mom is the same. eventially your mom will loose custody of your brother and thats not good either