boyfriend help: I am in a sticky situation.

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.ashley[INDIAN.BOB]

I am in a sticky situation.

My boyfriend’s brother, took canabis tonight, as he and girlfriend broke up.
My boyfriend is being blamed and they have thrown him out.
His house is an hour drive away and I cannot tell my mam and dad because there has been a lot of trouble.
I don’t want them to think he takes drugs…
Anyways I have sent lots of texts and he hasn’t replied, so I called twice; and no answer.
I don’t know weather he is has done something silly like suicide, but he said he wouldn’t.
But I’m not there, so he could of.

Any Advice, at all.
*Will be very appreciated.

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bethward 2 #
Auburn, WA, US | 5 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Have you considered that he may not feel like speaking right now?

Help me with: So this is about when you know someone is to young to date you.

leigh-g- 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (6 minutes after post)

tbh im the only person hu he can talk to and he rang me first and told me im just really worried

.ashley[INDIAN.BOB] edited this post 5 months ago. Read the previous text »

im in a sticky situation my boyfriends brother took canabis tonight as him n his girlfriend broke up my b.f is gettin the blame and they have thrown him out and his house is an hour drives away and i cnt tell my mam n dad bcos there has been alot of touble and i dont want them to think he takes drugs…anyways i have sent lots of texts and he hasnt replyed so i rang twice and no answer i dno wether he is has done somehting silly like sucide but he sed he wudnt but im not there so he cud of an adive appretionated x

Help me with: I finally went to the counselor about my anxiety issues.

.ashley[INDIAN.BOB] 31 #
US | 5 months ago (6 minutes after post)

I made you’re post more clear.
=]
Hope that helps.

Help me with: I finally went to the counselor about my anxiety issues.

leigh-g- 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (7 minutes after post)

thank u im rubbish at english x

.ashley[INDIAN.BOB] changed the tags on this post: they were "Cannabis, Domestic sheep, Situationist, house, Sibling, drug, Hour, boyfriend, Answer, girlfriend" 5 months ago.

Help me with: I finally went to the counselor about my anxiety issues.

.ashley[INDIAN.BOB] 31 #
US | 5 months ago (8 minutes after post)

leigh-g- wrote:
thank u im rubbish at english x

Eh.
It’s okay.
:D

We’re all not good at one thing in our lives.

Help me with: I finally went to the counselor about my anxiety issues.

leigh-g- 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (9 minutes after post)

hes been in alot of trouble with his parents and most of his family lately and he feels no1 wants him :(

chev.jame 28 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (13 minutes after post)

When a guy’s situation is all messed up, his pride takes a hit and he often doesn’t feel like talking.

SoulRising 62 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (13 minutes after post)

Since he’s not in his own home, maybe his cell phone battery is dead and he can’t recharge it or use his computer, are you being paranoid:)? Let him get settled and keep your cool, relax.

leigh-g- 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (15 minutes after post)

no his phones switched on no one answers he has also tryed to commit sucide the other week on several occasions but i thought this could be for attention so maybe i am being paranoid

.ashley[INDIAN.BOB] 31 #
US | 5 months ago (16 minutes after post)

I think he’ll call when he’s good and ready to talk.
Once he’s calmed down and has had time to think about everything.

:))
Leave a message saying how much you care and how sad you would be if he did try anything stupid.
I’m sure that would get through to him.

Help me with: I finally went to the counselor about my anxiety issues.

bethward 2 #
Auburn, WA, US | 5 months ago (17 minutes after post)

If he is young, lets say under 18 and threatens sucide a lot it is often a way that he has learned to get attention. I agree with ashley that he will call later when he is not so hot.

Help me with: So this is about when you know someone is to young to date you.

leigh-g- 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (18 minutes after post)

ive told him lots of times not to be silly he did live with his gran but just today moved up there as they werent getting on for a fresh start and things have went from bad to worse for him thanks for all your posts x and bethward he is 16 x

leigh-g- 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (32 minutes after post)

i mean 12.45

.ashley[INDIAN.BOB] 31 #
US | 5 months ago (33 minutes after post)

leigh-g- wrote:
i mean 12.45

I’m confused.
12.45 what?

Help me with: I finally went to the counselor about my anxiety issues.

leigh-g- 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (49 minutes after post)

the time

.ashley[INDIAN.BOB] 31 #
US | 5 months ago (1 hour, 4 minutes after post)

Ohhhh.

Help me with: I finally went to the counselor about my anxiety issues.

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