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stressing out a little.

My husband just got accepted to the military and he leaves in just a few days. we were only given a little over a week notice so we are stressing to get everything in order. the longest we have been apart is for ten days in the last 5 years and he will be across teh country for a little over three months, then when he comes back he still wont be living at home for six months after that. It is all for the best I know, he will be training in a trade he enjoys and the money will be better, but it is all just so sudden.

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Help me with: does anyone else ever feel anxious or afraid to go to bed?
c-eek offline Verified User (8 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 22 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 4 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

I believe there are support groups for military spouses. Ask your husband to check on that for you.

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cherryjlu offline Verified User (4 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 4 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

I would be stressed out too. That sounds like it will be very hard to deal with.

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itisme offline Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 4 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

its just weird because we only have a little over a week to figure everything out, then he will be gone. I know there are support groups but I dont know where everything is or what they offer.

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Help me with: does anyone else ever feel anxious or afraid to go to bed?
c-eek offline Verified User (8 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 22 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 4 weeks ago (29 minutes after post)

He is not the only one who is going to get an education in the military, you will too. Make it your mission to find out all you can while he is gone. You and he are making a huge investment in the future of your country. You will receive many benefits as a military family, but I want you to know how much I appreciate your choice to protect our way of life.

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