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hey!

well im here because i really dont know who i am. or how to figure out who i am! i worry and stresss about being like everyone smoking and drinking all the time. i try and add hellla older people on myspace to be cool with them , and maybe end up kickin it with them! i want to be a leader, but i feel like im a follower. i feel like when my best friend just hung out with someone really cool, i try and start talking to them. i dont know what i want, or who i want to be. i feel like im constanley trying to be somee diffrent. i wish i could just stand up for myself, and not be so shy, and know what i want and deserve. i reallly need good advise and help and someone to talk tooo!!please HELP! and if yu want to know more assk.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (2 hours, 17 minutes after post)

I think you honestly just outlined your own problem and solution, you are tryign to be someone else, trying to be cool. Stop with the acting! Do what you enjoy, pursue what you want to purse. Let yourself be free and find in that freedom who you truly are!

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