JUST KIDDING…
when people say just kidding it is the TRUTHFUL statement.. but with a lesss harsh blow…. i mean think about it when u say “just kidding” to someone u mean it!!! i do… it is almost like saying ” wow that shirt looks bad on u”… seeing the person is hurt u say very quickly “just kidding” but u meant it, but u didn’t want the other person to feel that bad…….. all i know is that when i say “just kidding” i mean it… 90% of the time…. its not suppose to hurt people but it is the truth and the truth hurts….
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This is my rant post…
Commander Ikari wrote:
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riv-riv wrote:
Commander Ikari wrote:aww thanksss…..
This post sucks…
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SingerInPurple wrote:
^omg he’s gonna say just kidding
Don’t underestimate me :p
SingerInPurple wrote:
^omg he’s gonna say just kidding
;) i want him toooooooo sooo badd….i mean he already proved my point
Commander Ikari wrote:
SingerInPurple wrote:
^omg he’s gonna say just kiddingDon’t underestimate me :p
how exactly am I underestimating you?
SingerInPurple wrote:
Commander Ikari wrote:how exactly am I underestimating you?
SingerInPurple wrote:Don’t underestimate me :p
^omg he’s gonna say just kidding
Using the same joke twice? It’s beneath me!
Commander Ikari wrote:
SingerInPurple wrote:Using the same joke twice? It’s beneath me!
Commander Ikari wrote:how exactly am I underestimating you?
SingerInPurple wrote:Don’t underestimate me :p
^omg he’s gonna say just kidding
JUST KIDDING!
Commander Ikari wrote:
SingerInPurple wrote:Using the same joke twice? It’s beneath me!
Commander Ikari wrote:how exactly am I underestimating you?
SingerInPurple wrote:Don’t underestimate me :p
^omg he’s gonna say just kidding
hey, they’re always funny the second time around…just dont do it a third time :)
i usually mean it when i say just kidding.
i think it’s just because i don’t say mean things, because i’m very sensitive myself. but yes, this is true. many people do this
Commander Ikari wrote:
Commander Ikari wrote:JUST KIDDING!
SingerInPurple wrote:Using the same joke twice? It’s beneath me!
Commander Ikari wrote:how exactly am I underestimating you?
SingerInPurple wrote:Don’t underestimate me :p
^omg he’s gonna say just kidding
haha funny
optimismiles wrote:
i usually mean it when i say just kidding.i think it’s just because i don’t say mean things, because i’m very sensitive myself. but yes, this is true. many people do this
o0o0 i never say mean things when i say jk….. but i know people who do and it drives me crazy bc i know they meant it…. bc i am soo sensitive!!!!! it hurts me… like when peopel say “hey riv-riv ur a fat a$$.. just kidding”…. what am i suppose to think?
well if you’re really skinny then they’re kidding. my friends call me a fat ***.. but i wear a size 0 or 2 for jeans. definitely don’t take it personally!
haha people are weird.
^yeah they totally do…probably just to make themselves feel better than everyone
i think many times people really are just kidding.
Not meant to be taken badly.
Yeah. Its usually someone that doesn’t really give a crap about your feelings, many are not considerate in regards to who recieves the comment.
I personally don’t use it, you probably never know what the persons degree of sensitivity is.
Quote:
”…wow that shirt looks bad on u”… seeing the person is hurt u say very quickly “just kidding” but u meant it,…”
So that’s why you took it off riv?
Joey_PR wrote:
Yeah. Its usually someone that doesn’t really give a crap about your feelings, many are not considerate in regards to who recieves the comment.
I personally don’t use it, you probably never know what the persons degree of sensitivity is.Quote:
”…wow that shirt looks bad on u”… seeing the person is hurt u say very quickly “just kidding” but u meant it,…”So that’s why you took it off riv?
i think the reason people say just kidding is bc of the other person sensitivity…. thats y i say it (i never use it it in a mean way) but i never can read a person so it is an automatic 4 me…. fyi all my shirts look great on me!! i took it off bc i was hot :p
spiratec9 wrote:
i think many times people really are just kidding.
Not meant to be taken badly.
yea i take that into consideration… but if u listen to what the person really said it is truthful at least 50% of the time
riv-riv wrote:
Joey_PR wrote:
Yeah. Its usually someone that doesn’t really give a crap about your feelings, many are not considerate in regards to who recieves the comment.
I personally don’t use it, you probably never know what the persons degree of sensitivity is.Quote:
”…wow that shirt looks bad on u”… seeing the person is hurt u say very quickly “just kidding” but u meant it,…”So that’s why you took it off riv?
i think the reason people say just kidding is bc of the other person sensitivity…. thats y i say it (i never use it it in a mean way) but i never can read a person so it is an automatic 4 me…. fyi all my shirts look great on me!! i took it off bc i was hot :p
thats for sure !!
And I am not kidding.
riv-riv wrote:
i think the reason people say just kidding is bc of the other person sensitivity…. thats y i say it (i never use it it in a mean way) but i never can read a person so it is an automatic 4 me…. fyi all my shirts look great on me!! i took it off bc i was hot :p
You mean hot as in “heat”, right?
Gimme an example on how you use the Just Kidding….
Joey_PR wrote:
riv-riv wrote:You mean hot as in “heat”, right?Gimme an example on how you use the Just Kidding….
i think the reason people say just kidding is bc of the other person sensitivity…. thats y i say it (i never use it it in a mean way) but i never can read a person so it is an automatic 4 me…. fyi all my shirts look great on me!! i took it off bc i was hot :p
yea bc of the heat haha ….. ummm an example of me using just kidding… hmmmm…. u put me on the stop cant think of any at the momment
riv-riv wrote:
yea bc of the heat haha ….. ummm an example of me using just kidding… hmmmm…. u put me on the stop cant think of any at the momment
What?
On what stop? I don’t give ride to strangers. You must be confusing me with someone riv, put your shirt back on.
riv-riv wrote:
spiratec9 wrote:
i think many times people really are just kidding.
Not meant to be taken badly.yea i take that into consideration… but if u listen to what the person really said it is truthful at least 50% of the time
every joke has a degree of truthfulness in it. That’s what makes it funny.
If it was totally made up it wouldn’t be as funny.
Joey_PR wrote:
riv-riv wrote:
yea bc of the heat haha ….. ummm an example of me using just kidding… hmmmm…. u put me on the stop cant think of any at the mommentWhat?
On what stop? I don’t give ride to strangers. You must be confusing me with someone riv, put your shirt back on.
spot!! haha my bad i meant spot not stop and i say no to shirts its my new slogan…. not my fault my ancestors came from a hot climate and i am naturally warm blooded
spiratec9 wrote:
riv-riv wrote:every joke has a degree of truthfulness in it. That’s what makes it funny.If it was totally made up it wouldn’t be as funny.
spiratec9 wrote:yea i take that into consideration… but if u listen to what the person really said it is truthful at least 50% of the time
i think many times people really are just kidding.Not meant to be taken badly.
for example: if I said you looked like a Martian that wouldn’t be funny
because no one knows what a Martian looks like.
spiratec9 wrote:
riv-riv wrote:
spiratec9 wrote:
i think many times people really are just kidding.
Not meant to be taken badly.yea i take that into consideration… but if u listen to what the person really said it is truthful at least 50% of the time
every joke has a degree of truthfulness in it. That’s what makes it funny.
If it was totally made up it wouldn’t be as funny.
i think it is better that someone does say just kidding bc even if the joke or comment might hurt the person knows u didnt mean it to come out from a bad place…. so maybe just kidding is a great thing… i am not making sense NO ONE LISTIN TO ME i am confused and tired
spiratec9 wrote:
spiratec9 wrote:for example: if I said you looked like a Martian that wouldn’t be funnybecause no one knows what a Martian looks like.
riv-riv wrote:every joke has a degree of truthfulness in it. That’s what makes it funny.If it was totally made up it wouldn’t be as funny.
spiratec9 wrote:yea i take that into consideration… but if u listen to what the person really said it is truthful at least 50% of the time
i think many times people really are just kidding.Not meant to be taken badly.
yea but people have an image of a martian from the media
riv-riv wrote:
spiratec9 wrote:yea but people have an image of a martian from the media
spiratec9 wrote:for example: if I said you looked like a Martian that wouldn’t be funnybecause no one knows what a Martian looks like.
riv-riv wrote:every joke has a degree of truthfulness in it. That’s what makes it funny.If it was totally made up it wouldn’t be as funny.
spiratec9 wrote:yea i take that into consideration… but if u listen to what the person really said it is truthful at least 50% of the time
i think many times people really are just kidding.Not meant to be taken badly.
well I picked a bad example. Because I love Martians. I don’t know what they look like. But I’m sure the media’s impression of them is probably wrong.
spiratec9 wrote:
riv-riv wrote:
spiratec9 wrote:yea but people have an image of a martian from the media
spiratec9 wrote:for example: if I said you looked like a Martian that wouldn’t be funnybecause no one knows what a Martian looks like.
riv-riv wrote:every joke has a degree of truthfulness in it. That’s what makes it funny.If it was totally made up it wouldn’t be as funny.
spiratec9 wrote:yea i take that into consideration… but if u listen to what the person really said it is truthful at least 50% of the time
i think many times people really are just kidding.Not meant to be taken badly.well I picked a bad example. Because I love Martians. I don’t know what they look like. But I’m sure the media’s impression of them is probably wrong.
hahah yeaaa but i understand where u r coming from with the … I said you looked like a Martian that wouldn’t be funnybecause no one knows what a Martian……. thing
riv-riv wrote:
spot!! haha my bad i meant spot not stop and i say no to shirts its my new slogan…. not my fault my ancestors came from a hot climate and i am naturally warm blooded
Good you cleared that stop thing up.
As for the other thing you said, I can relate. I live in the caribbean. Its mega hot in the afternoons.
Gimme your example, the last one you personally used on someone recently …..
Joey_PR wrote:
riv-riv wrote:
spot!! haha my bad i meant spot not stop and i say no to shirts its my new slogan…. not my fault my ancestors came from a hot climate and i am naturally warm bloodedGood you cleared that stop thing up.
As for the other thing you said, I can relate. I live in the caribbean. Its mega hot in the afternoons.Gimme your example, the last one you personally used on someone recently …..
k…. i told my friend i would give her my job when i leave to school but i thought about it and i remembered she isnt a good worker and it would make me look bad!!! soo i told her “just kidding they filled it already” she didn’t care… that is such a bad example….. but i did say that…
I do see your point though…… that many people may be using
the “just kidding” as a social screen to hide behind. And it allows them
to get away with saying something critical with the idea that they can cover their *****.
spiratec9 wrote:
I do see your point though…… that many people may be usingthe “just kidding” as a social screen to hide behind. And it allows themto get away with saying something critical with the idea that they can cover their *****.
last word is a*s*s*e*s.
spiratec9 wrote:
I do see your point though…… that many people may be using
the “just kidding” as a social screen to hide behind. And it allows them
to get away with saying something critical with the idea that they can cover their *****.
(sigh) exactly!!!
riv-riv wrote:
spiratec9 wrote:(sigh) exactly!!!
I do see your point though…… that many people may be usingthe “just kidding” as a social screen to hide behind. And it allows themto get away with saying something critical with the idea that they can cover their *****.
thank you for being so patient with us. I think I got it.
riv-riv wrote:
k…. i told my friend i would give her my job when i leave to school but i thought about it and i remembered she isnt a good worker and it would make me look bad!!! soo i told her “just kidding they filled it already” she didn’t care… that is such a bad example….. but i did say that…
I think your friend probably had “hidden hopes” with the job.
Are you the blabber blabber blabber then “just kidding” type, riv?
Joey_PR wrote:
riv-riv wrote:
k…. i told my friend i would give her my job when i leave to school but i thought about it and i remembered she isnt a good worker and it would make me look bad!!! soo i told her “just kidding they filled it already” she didn’t care… that is such a bad example….. but i did say that…I think your friend probably had “hidden hopes” with the job.
Are you the blabber blabber blabber then “just kidding” type, riv?
no she has a job she just wanted two.. but i did her a favor she cant work 2 full time jobs and believe me she doesnt need it….i told u it was a terrible example but u wanted one… yea and if i get going i “blabber”
riv-riv wrote:
no she has a job she just wanted two.. but i did her a favor she cant work 2 full time jobs and believe me she doesnt need it….i told u it was a terrible example but u wanted one… yea and if i get going i “blabber”
But, do you add a “just kidding” when you feel it gets out of hand?
not completely…. i use it when i feel bad or want to take it back…. i cant just b blunt about things like spiratec9 said about the social screen thing… that is kind of what i do…i cover my a$$…. hope doest make me look bad
Joey_PR wrote:
riv-riv wrote:
no she has a job she just wanted two.. but i did her a favor she cant work 2 full time jobs and believe me she doesnt need it….i told u it was a terrible example but u wanted one… yea and if i get going i “blabber”But, do you add a “just kidding” when you feel it gets out of hand?
not completely…. i use it when i feel bad or want to take it back…. i cant just b blunt about things like spiratec9 said about the social screen thing… that is kind of what i do…i cover my a$$…. hope doest make me look bad
I see you put your shirt back on, very good. You weren’t showing off right?
In regards to the “Just kidding, hide behind sometimes thing”, What I see is that it can backfire the day you take it back with a lie, not everybody is stupid, you should be careful though.
Hasn’t it happened to you?
Joey_PR wrote:
I see you put your shirt back on, very good. You weren’t showing off right?In regards to the “Just kidding, hide behind sometimes thing”, What I see is that it can backfire the day you take it back with a lie, not everybody is stupid, you should be careful though.
Hasn’t it happened to you?
help.com took my pic off, not my choice!! hahah and i never lied, it never back fired only bc everyone uses it (well at least people around me) i think when i do say jk it is better then just ignoring the “problem” or making the person feel bad…
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