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when people say just kidding it is the TRUTHFUL statement.. but with a lesss harsh blow…. i mean think about it when u say “just kidding” to someone u mean it!!! i do… it is almost like saying ” wow that shirt looks bad on u”… seeing the person is hurt u say very quickly “just kidding” but u meant it, but u didn’t want the other person to feel that bad…….. all i know is that when i say “just kidding” i mean it… 90% of the time…. its not suppose to hurt people but it is the truth and the truth hurts….

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SingerInPurple offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
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I KNOW! it’s so annoying!!

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sickcharmande offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
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Ok so what do you need help with?

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Snar offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 41 #
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Sometimes I use it for a real joke tho….

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This post sucks…

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JUST KIDDING!

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SingerInPurple offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
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ha i knew you were gonna say that

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riv-riv offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (9 minutes after post)

sickcharmande wrote:
ok so what do you need help with?

This is my rant post…

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riv-riv offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
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Commander Ikari wrote:
This post sucks…

aww thanksss…..

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riv-riv wrote:

Commander Ikari wrote:
This post sucks…
aww thanksss…..

Your Welcome! :D

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SingerInPurple offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (11 minutes after post)

^omg he’s gonna say just kidding

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 129 #
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SingerInPurple wrote:
^omg he’s gonna say just kidding

Don’t underestimate me :p

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riv-riv offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
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SingerInPurple wrote:
^omg he’s gonna say just kidding

;) i want him toooooooo sooo badd….i mean he already proved my point

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Commander Ikari wrote:

SingerInPurple wrote:
^omg he’s gonna say just kidding

Don’t underestimate me :p

how exactly am I underestimating you?

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 129 #
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SingerInPurple wrote:

Commander Ikari wrote:
SingerInPurple wrote:
^omg he’s gonna say just kidding
Don’t underestimate me :p
how exactly am I underestimating you?

Using the same joke twice? It’s beneath me!

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 129 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (14 minutes after post)

Commander Ikari wrote:

SingerInPurple wrote:
Commander Ikari wrote:
SingerInPurple wrote:
^omg he’s gonna say just kidding
Don’t underestimate me :p
how exactly am I underestimating you?
Using the same joke twice? It’s beneath me!

JUST KIDDING!

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SingerInPurple offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
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Commander Ikari wrote:

SingerInPurple wrote:
Commander Ikari wrote:
SingerInPurple wrote:
^omg he’s gonna say just kidding
Don’t underestimate me :p
how exactly am I underestimating you?
Using the same joke twice? It’s beneath me!

hey, they’re always funny the second time around…just dont do it a third time :)

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optimismiles offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
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i usually mean it when i say just kidding.
i think it’s just because i don’t say mean things, because i’m very sensitive myself. but yes, this is true. many people do this

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SingerInPurple offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
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Commander Ikari wrote:

Commander Ikari wrote:
SingerInPurple wrote:
Commander Ikari wrote:
SingerInPurple wrote:
^omg he’s gonna say just kidding
Don’t underestimate me :p
how exactly am I underestimating you?
Using the same joke twice? It’s beneath me!
JUST KIDDING!

haha funny

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riv-riv offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (17 minutes after post)

optimismiles wrote:
i usually mean it when i say just kidding.i think it’s just because i don’t say mean things, because i’m very sensitive myself. but yes, this is true. many people do this

o0o0 i never say mean things when i say jk….. but i know people who do and it drives me crazy bc i know they meant it…. bc i am soo sensitive!!!!! it hurts me… like when peopel say “hey riv-riv ur a fat a$$.. just kidding”…. what am i suppose to think?

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optimismiles offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
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well if you’re really skinny then they’re kidding. my friends call me a fat ***.. but i wear a size 0 or 2 for jeans. definitely don’t take it personally!

haha people are weird.

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 129 #
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Or maybe those people just enjoy being douches….

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SingerInPurple offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
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^yeah they totally do…probably just to make themselves feel better than everyone

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 20 minutes after post)

he is just kidding.

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 22 minutes after post)

i think many times people really are just kidding.
Not meant to be taken badly.

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Joey_PR offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
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Yeah. Its usually someone that doesn’t really give a crap about your feelings, many are not considerate in regards to who recieves the comment.
I personally don’t use it, you probably never know what the persons degree of sensitivity is.

Quote:
”…wow that shirt looks bad on u”… seeing the person is hurt u say very quickly “just kidding” but u meant it,…”

So that’s why you took it off riv?

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riv-riv offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 37 minutes after post)

Joey_PR wrote:
Yeah. Its usually someone that doesn’t really give a crap about your feelings, many are not considerate in regards to who recieves the comment.
I personally don’t use it, you probably never know what the persons degree of sensitivity is.

Quote:
”…wow that shirt looks bad on u”… seeing the person is hurt u say very quickly “just kidding” but u meant it,…”

So that’s why you took it off riv?

i think the reason people say just kidding is bc of the other person sensitivity…. thats y i say it (i never use it it in a mean way) but i never can read a person so it is an automatic 4 me…. fyi all my shirts look great on me!! i took it off bc i was hot :p

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riv-riv offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 38 minutes after post)

spiratec9 wrote:
i think many times people really are just kidding.
Not meant to be taken badly.

yea i take that into consideration… but if u listen to what the person really said it is truthful at least 50% of the time

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 47 minutes after post)

riv-riv wrote:

Joey_PR wrote:
Yeah. Its usually someone that doesn’t really give a crap about your feelings, many are not considerate in regards to who recieves the comment.
I personally don’t use it, you probably never know what the persons degree of sensitivity is.

Quote:
”…wow that shirt looks bad on u”… seeing the person is hurt u say very quickly “just kidding” but u meant it,…”

So that’s why you took it off riv?

i think the reason people say just kidding is bc of the other person sensitivity…. thats y i say it (i never use it it in a mean way) but i never can read a person so it is an automatic 4 me…. fyi all my shirts look great on me!! i took it off bc i was hot :p

thats for sure !!
And I am not kidding.

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riv-riv wrote:
i think the reason people say just kidding is bc of the other person sensitivity…. thats y i say it (i never use it it in a mean way) but i never can read a person so it is an automatic 4 me…. fyi all my shirts look great on me!! i took it off bc i was hot :p

You mean hot as in “heat”, right?

Gimme an example on how you use the Just Kidding….

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 48 minutes after post)

no she meant she is “hot”!!!

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riv-riv offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
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Joey_PR wrote:

riv-riv wrote:
i think the reason people say just kidding is bc of the other person sensitivity…. thats y i say it (i never use it it in a mean way) but i never can read a person so it is an automatic 4 me…. fyi all my shirts look great on me!! i took it off bc i was hot :p
You mean hot as in “heat”, right?Gimme an example on how you use the Just Kidding….

yea bc of the heat haha ….. ummm an example of me using just kidding… hmmmm…. u put me on the stop cant think of any at the momment

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SingerInPurple offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
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that was so punny!

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 49 minutes after post)

it was hot!

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 50 minutes after post)

Im not kidding.

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riv-riv wrote:
yea bc of the heat haha ….. ummm an example of me using just kidding… hmmmm…. u put me on the stop cant think of any at the momment

What?
On what stop? I don’t give ride to strangers. You must be confusing me with someone riv, put your shirt back on.

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Burnaby, BC, CA | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 52 minutes after post)

riv-riv wrote:

spiratec9 wrote:
i think many times people really are just kidding.
Not meant to be taken badly.

yea i take that into consideration… but if u listen to what the person really said it is truthful at least 50% of the time

every joke has a degree of truthfulness in it. That’s what makes it funny.
If it was totally made up it wouldn’t be as funny.

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riv-riv offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
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Joey_PR wrote:

riv-riv wrote:
yea bc of the heat haha ….. ummm an example of me using just kidding… hmmmm…. u put me on the stop cant think of any at the momment

What?
On what stop? I don’t give ride to strangers. You must be confusing me with someone riv, put your shirt back on.

spot!! haha my bad i meant spot not stop and i say no to shirts its my new slogan…. not my fault my ancestors came from a hot climate and i am naturally warm blooded

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Burnaby, BC, CA | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 57 minutes after post)

spiratec9 wrote:

riv-riv wrote:
spiratec9 wrote:
i think many times people really are just kidding.Not meant to be taken badly.
yea i take that into consideration… but if u listen to what the person really said it is truthful at least 50% of the time
every joke has a degree of truthfulness in it. That’s what makes it funny.If it was totally made up it wouldn’t be as funny.

for example: if I said you looked like a Martian that wouldn’t be funny
because no one knows what a Martian looks like.

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riv-riv offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
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spiratec9 wrote:

riv-riv wrote:
spiratec9 wrote:
i think many times people really are just kidding.
Not meant to be taken badly.

yea i take that into consideration… but if u listen to what the person really said it is truthful at least 50% of the time

every joke has a degree of truthfulness in it. That’s what makes it funny.
If it was totally made up it wouldn’t be as funny.

i think it is better that someone does say just kidding bc even if the joke or comment might hurt the person knows u didnt mean it to come out from a bad place…. so maybe just kidding is a great thing… i am not making sense NO ONE LISTIN TO ME i am confused and tired

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spiratec9 wrote:

spiratec9 wrote:
riv-riv wrote:
spiratec9 wrote:
i think many times people really are just kidding.Not meant to be taken badly.
yea i take that into consideration… but if u listen to what the person really said it is truthful at least 50% of the time
every joke has a degree of truthfulness in it. That’s what makes it funny.If it was totally made up it wouldn’t be as funny.
for example: if I said you looked like a Martian that wouldn’t be funnybecause no one knows what a Martian looks like.

yea but people have an image of a martian from the media

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Burnaby, BC, CA | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 59 minutes after post)

riv-riv wrote:

spiratec9 wrote:
spiratec9 wrote:
riv-riv wrote:
spiratec9 wrote:
i think many times people really are just kidding.Not meant to be taken badly.
yea i take that into consideration… but if u listen to what the person really said it is truthful at least 50% of the time
every joke has a degree of truthfulness in it. That’s what makes it funny.If it was totally made up it wouldn’t be as funny.
for example: if I said you looked like a Martian that wouldn’t be funnybecause no one knows what a Martian looks like.
yea but people have an image of a martian from the media

well I picked a bad example. Because I love Martians. I don’t know what they look like. But I’m sure the media’s impression of them is probably wrong.

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riv-riv offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
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spiratec9 wrote:

riv-riv wrote:
spiratec9 wrote:
spiratec9 wrote:
riv-riv wrote:
spiratec9 wrote:
i think many times people really are just kidding.Not meant to be taken badly.
yea i take that into consideration… but if u listen to what the person really said it is truthful at least 50% of the time
every joke has a degree of truthfulness in it. That’s what makes it funny.If it was totally made up it wouldn’t be as funny.
for example: if I said you looked like a Martian that wouldn’t be funnybecause no one knows what a Martian looks like.
yea but people have an image of a martian from the media

well I picked a bad example. Because I love Martians. I don’t know what they look like. But I’m sure the media’s impression of them is probably wrong.

hahah yeaaa but i understand where u r coming from with the … I said you looked like a Martian that wouldn’t be funnybecause no one knows what a Martian……. thing

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riv-riv wrote:
spot!! haha my bad i meant spot not stop and i say no to shirts its my new slogan…. not my fault my ancestors came from a hot climate and i am naturally warm blooded

Good you cleared that stop thing up.
As for the other thing you said, I can relate. I live in the caribbean. Its mega hot in the afternoons.

Gimme your example, the last one you personally used on someone recently …..

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Joey_PR wrote:

riv-riv wrote:
spot!! haha my bad i meant spot not stop and i say no to shirts its my new slogan…. not my fault my ancestors came from a hot climate and i am naturally warm blooded

Good you cleared that stop thing up.
As for the other thing you said, I can relate. I live in the caribbean. Its mega hot in the afternoons.

Gimme your example, the last one you personally used on someone recently …..

k…. i told my friend i would give her my job when i leave to school but i thought about it and i remembered she isnt a good worker and it would make me look bad!!! soo i told her “just kidding they filled it already” she didn’t care… that is such a bad example….. but i did say that…

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I do see your point though…… that many people may be using
the “just kidding” as a social screen to hide behind. And it allows them
to get away with saying something critical with the idea that they can cover their *****.

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spiratec9 wrote:
I do see your point though…… that many people may be usingthe “just kidding” as a social screen to hide behind. And it allows themto get away with saying something critical with the idea that they can cover their *****.

last word is a*s*s*e*s.

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spiratec9 wrote:
I do see your point though…… that many people may be using
the “just kidding” as a social screen to hide behind. And it allows them
to get away with saying something critical with the idea that they can cover their *****.

(sigh) exactly!!!

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riv-riv wrote:

spiratec9 wrote:
I do see your point though…… that many people may be usingthe “just kidding” as a social screen to hide behind. And it allows themto get away with saying something critical with the idea that they can cover their *****.
(sigh) exactly!!!

thank you for being so patient with us. I think I got it.

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riv-riv wrote:
k…. i told my friend i would give her my job when i leave to school but i thought about it and i remembered she isnt a good worker and it would make me look bad!!! soo i told her “just kidding they filled it already” she didn’t care… that is such a bad example….. but i did say that…

I think your friend probably had “hidden hopes” with the job.
Are you the blabber blabber blabber then “just kidding” type, riv?

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Joey_PR wrote:

riv-riv wrote:
k…. i told my friend i would give her my job when i leave to school but i thought about it and i remembered she isnt a good worker and it would make me look bad!!! soo i told her “just kidding they filled it already” she didn’t care… that is such a bad example….. but i did say that…

I think your friend probably had “hidden hopes” with the job.
Are you the blabber blabber blabber then “just kidding” type, riv?

no she has a job she just wanted two.. but i did her a favor she cant work 2 full time jobs and believe me she doesnt need it….i told u it was a terrible example but u wanted one… yea and if i get going i “blabber”

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riv-riv wrote:
no she has a job she just wanted two.. but i did her a favor she cant work 2 full time jobs and believe me she doesnt need it….i told u it was a terrible example but u wanted one… yea and if i get going i “blabber”

But, do you add a “just kidding” when you feel it gets out of hand?

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not completely…. i use it when i feel bad or want to take it back…. i cant just b blunt about things like spiratec9 said about the social screen thing… that is kind of what i do…i cover my a$$…. hope doest make me look bad

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Joey_PR wrote:

riv-riv wrote:
no she has a job she just wanted two.. but i did her a favor she cant work 2 full time jobs and believe me she doesnt need it….i told u it was a terrible example but u wanted one… yea and if i get going i “blabber”

But, do you add a “just kidding” when you feel it gets out of hand?

not completely…. i use it when i feel bad or want to take it back…. i cant just b blunt about things like spiratec9 said about the social screen thing… that is kind of what i do…i cover my a$$…. hope doest make me look bad

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believe me you don’t look bad.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (2 hours, 37 minutes after post)

I see you put your shirt back on, very good. You weren’t showing off right?

In regards to the “Just kidding, hide behind sometimes thing”, What I see is that it can backfire the day you take it back with a lie, not everybody is stupid, you should be careful though.
Hasn’t it happened to you?

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Joey_PR wrote:
I see you put your shirt back on, very good. You weren’t showing off right?

In regards to the “Just kidding, hide behind sometimes thing”, What I see is that it can backfire the day you take it back with a lie, not everybody is stupid, you should be careful though.
Hasn’t it happened to you?

help.com took my pic off, not my choice!! hahah and i never lied, it never back fired only bc everyone uses it (well at least people around me) i think when i do say jk it is better then just ignoring the “problem” or making the person feel bad…

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