Love help: There’s two girls in my life….? - Help.com

You’re the only one who can choose what you want to do. Imaging the future in 10 years time. Who do you see your self with.
By having two women in your life you made things hard for yourself, it’s not really fair on either of them.
It’s your desicion that you have to decide.

I say you go for the one who shows you that she loves you more. The other one may be playing games… or just isn’t as interested possibly. But talk to them both… go with whomever seems more genuine.

Girl B has also begun to show more extreme signs of love towards me but I just don’t like her enough. With her I wouldn’t have to wait, hence the easy way out.

You answered your own question. You “don’t like her enough”. Don’t settle. This is possible the woman of the rest of your life you’re talking about here, right? Or is this just a teenage girlfriend type of thing?

Chameleon wrote:

Girl B has also begun to show more extreme signs of love towards me but I just don’t like her enough. With her I wouldn’t have to wait, hence the easy way out.

You answered your own question. You “don’t like her enough”. Don’t settle. This is possible the woman of the rest of your life you’re talking about here, right? Or is this just a teenage girlfriend type of thing?

I meant to say as much, not enough. And yes its forever, not the teenage girlfriend thing. :)

corycrypti wrote:

Chameleon wrote:

Girl B has also begun to show more extreme signs of love towards me but I just don’t like her enough. With her I wouldn’t have to wait, hence the easy way out.

You answered your own question. You “don’t like her enough”. Don’t settle. This is possible the woman of the rest of your life you’re talking about here, right? Or is this just a teenage girlfriend type of thing?

I meant to say as much, not enough. And yes its forever, not the teenage girlfriend thing. :)

Hmm Freudian slip?

pretty much.

corycrypti wrote:
pretty much.

O_o Do you know what a Freudian slip is?

Because admitting “pretty much” to it means that you really DID mean that you don’t love that girl enough…

No, no no no, I thought it meant something about fraud, and Identity, because I kinda let my identity slip out there. No I really meant I don’t like Girl B as much as Girl A, but Girl B will be there if I go fer her instantly. I like them both, a ton!

You said you like the other “much more”. I can’t help but think that you’d regret settling for the other and always wonder if you gave up a chance with the one you love much more.
You should love your wife much more than any other woman you know.

True. Thanks again.

You’re welcome.

Ok…your one lucky guy..to have too girls in love with ya…keep freindship with one…try not to say anything if you can manage it about only being freinds tho…unless she brings it up and you have to…and go out with the other one! and then if it dosent work out…you always have someone else…this may be a little wrong …but its not really..=/

Topic starter,

I dont know how much you feel for the girls. If you are unsure about wich one to chose the best choice would be…. none of them….
It’s always good to date more than one girl in your life, I’ve done that too. That doesn’t mean that you should play with the feelings of someone. Never do that or someday someone will play with your feelings. It’s good to keep friendships with girls. you’ll learn how they think and how they feel, you will learn a lot about them.
Ok that’s not the main point right now, the point is who would you choose. Remember these two lines, you’ll need them forever:

1:”Don’t choose the girl that you love, choose the one that loves you”
If she loves you, she will never leave and will be good to you, just don’t break her heart tough. If you love her and she doesn’t, she might leave you. If you both love each other, things can’t be better.
2: “Don’t love someone you can live with, love someone that you can’t live without….”

I think the best option for you right now would be to take it easy. Take it slowly. If anyone of them is in your destiny, she will be in your arms one day. I say this because you are still not sure wich one to choose. take it easy, cool off your mind, take a vacation, and then make a decision what to do… It will be better. If you can’t make a decision then don’t, thins will sort out automatically…
But don’t make decisions that you might regret later my friend…

I hope my advise works for you, I was just advising you, not making a decision.
You will have to make the decision yourself…
I’m glad if I’ll be of any help….If you need to talk or something feel free to contact me….

Stay well my friend….

well I have been in girl B’s position and it sucks waithing around for the guy to tell you that he isnt intereasted.. he ended up breaking both our hearts when we found out he had a gf.. me and girl a are now friends. so when you let one of them done make sure you do it carefully as possible

Okay thanks.

if it were me i would take both :) lol

045001,,,that is just soooooooooo not right