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mare_ki
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The saying “life is what you make it”is very true I

have started a new chapter in my life since I no longer have a nagging husband stalking me where ever I go or interrogating me for every little thing I do or say.Financialy things are a little hard but I do believe things will get better at least I have peace as I have never known and that is what matters most.

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Kimmi 22 offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (14 minutes after post)

You go girl!! Stand strong and know that it will get better if you stand up tall! The harder you fight the better it will get! Keep on Rocking! :D

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~Shie~ offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
Gloversville, NY, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (15 minutes after post)

good for you…. seriously… being a survivor or 10 years of abuse myself… when i left.. it was the best thing that i could have ever done… the freedom to make your own decisions, do things that you want to do… it is the sweetest thing ever…

best of luck to you.. and all i can say is.. it will get better.. i promise… it has been almost 5 years for me having my freedom.. and in the beginning it is a struggle.. but seriously.. it will get better…

the only thing that i will warn you about is this… keep your eyes open when you feel its ok to date.. because i fell back into the trap with someone new.. and it took me 2 years to get back out… so if you dont like what they are doing.. and little things remind you of your past… get out… do not wait to see if it goes away… run like hell….

many hugs.. and im proud of you… shie.

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