Love help: Well, my boyfriend and I finally broke it off and I am so miserable.

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Well, my boyfriend and I finally broke it off and I am so miserable.

I don’t know how to handle things. It has been almost 2 months now and I miss him so much. I really believed and still do that we are perfect for one another. About three weeks after we broke it off he started dating this girl that we work with. Can you believe that, we weren’t together a couple of months we were together 3 1/2 years! Needless to say thats when I got angry. Him and I talked lastnight before I left work, he asked me for a min of my time and I let him know that I was still in love with him and that I couldn’t was having a hard enough time handling the end of the relationship, because I loved him so much and had to see him every day. But I couldn’t handle him seeing someone in the dealership. He said that he was feeling the same as me but we are just to destructive together. He said he would stop seeing this girl. Anybody have any thoughts?

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (14 minutes after post)

yeh jus lisen to your heart what you think is right

where theres love theres hope
never give up hope!!!

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (19 minutes after post)

I have broken up for Similar reasons, both he with another girl, and I with another guy, three times total. We continue to love one another, we are still together. If you still love him, and he loves you, fix it!
Goodluck.

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skies 1 #
Potomac, MD, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (20 minutes after post)

I hear ya, it should be that cut and dry. I wish to god it were. He seems to think that we need to be apart. I don’t get it. He even cry lastnight when he tried to talk to me. I don’t get guys. I just know that I am tierd of being hurt and he is the only one I want. I don’t know how to fix this…….. How can I let him know how much I need him without scaring him?

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skies 1 #
Potomac, MD, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (27 minutes after post)

I am willing to hear ideas… Please tell me your thoughts

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skies 1 #
Potomac, MD, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (34 minutes after post)

ha ha, this is serious, at least to me

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (36 minutes after post)

skies wrote:
ha ha, this is serious, at least to me

You can’t let it be /too/ serious to you, or you’ll end up depressed and in a bigger mess than you already are.
Let yourself be silly back. It might not help the situation, but you might feel better yourself.

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skies 1 #
Potomac, MD, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (38 minutes after post)

thats what I have been doing for the last 2 months and its not working. I am up one min down the next. I can’t do my job, I just want to stay in my bed all day

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skies 1 #
Potomac, MD, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (50 minutes after post)

Thats pretty much what I have been doing, ignoring him. I tried to go on a date. That didn’t workout, I just wanted to be with him. Its not like I am young, so I know what I am talking about.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 1 minute after post)

av’e ‘im love!

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (3 hours, 21 minutes after post)

I think you shoult talk to him. Communication can help a lot.
And I think that you know him too good, cuz u were 3 1/2 years together.
Ask him what it is that is so destructive when you are together? If there really is a problem, then there is a solution also. Get together and solve your problems, cause that is what they are for. And if you can solve problems in your relationship, then your relationship grows stronger.
So bottom line is, talk to him and solve your problem. I’m sure that it’s gonna work out..

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