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i have this little brother that follows me around,

won’t get his nose out of my bisness, and he will never leave me alone.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (12 minutes after post)

Aw, he admires you, wants to be just like you, I bet!

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (20 minutes after post)

no he just does it cause he knows it bugs me

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crazy711mdlay offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (26 minutes after post)

dont worry he just loves you, kids are like that, when they want attention they will find a way to get it… spend more time with him get in his bussiness, try to be his pal…

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (30 minutes after post)

Cherish the moments; who knows tomorrow he could be gone and you’ll be kicking yourself for not wanting him around.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (32 minutes after post)

crazy711mdlay wrote:
dont worry he just loves you, kids are like that, when they want attention they will find a way to get it… spend more time with him get in his bussiness, try to be his pal…

Da⌐11 wrote:
Cherish the moments; who knows tomorrow he could be gone and you’ll be kicking yourself for not wanting him around.

Good advice =). Sorry I couldn’t help, but they’re both right.

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1 year, 3 months ago (34 minutes after post)

Sounds like he is practicing to be a husband.

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crazy711mdlay offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (37 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
Sounds like he is practicing to be a husband.

Laughing Out Loud

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (47 minutes after post)

why does he say he hates me then

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (49 minutes after post)

he is only 6 and if someone brakes into my house my dad will shoot

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (50 minutes after post)

hes only 6 and he thanks girls have cooties

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (51 minutes after post)

MeSqware wrote:
why does he say he hates me then

becouse thats what 6 year old boys do

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (52 minutes after post)

even though he cried and said i said to him before when i said i was going to tell

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (53 minutes after post)

MeSqware wrote:
even though he cried and said i said to him before when i said i was going to tell

come again?

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crazy711mdlay offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (53 minutes after post)

lol, my brother used to chase my friends away with knifes, lighters and any thing else he could thinkof, i used to think it was because he was a horrible little demon, i know know that its because he was jealous i spent more time with them than i did with him… he just wants someone to play with, he is still fairly young, boys are also usually roudier than girls… kids dont always mean what they say, its hard but try to be more patient with him

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (54 minutes after post)

when i told him i was going to tell he cried and said i said it to him

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (56 minutes after post)

we have little boys all around this big subdavision

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (56 minutes after post)

that he plays with

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (58 minutes after post)

he is the only one that gets atentionin the house

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Da⌐11 offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (59 minutes after post)

MeSqware wrote:
he is the only one that gets atentionin the house

So then you did say you hated him first? Because you are jealous of him?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (59 minutes after post)

that doesnt mean he doesnt want a sister to play with too, my brother has always had tons of friends, but even now that he is older, he likes it when i sit down to play video games with him, or when we sit down to chatt about movies or cars, or any other subject… my bro is the spoiled baby, and too this day he can get what he wants, but just as with rich ppl,”material things arent everything” and so he needs something besides being spoiled, he needs a pal/mentor/sibling who will be there for him

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour after post)

i never said i hated him

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 1 minute after post)

he plays nice with my older sis and never hits her or says he hates her

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 2 minutes after post)

MeSqware wrote:
i never said i hated him

I think you did

MeSqware wrote:
he plays nice with my older sis and never hits her or says he hates her

Do you get along with your older sister?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 2 minutes after post)

MeSqware wrote:
he plays nice with my older sis and never hits her or says he hates her

have you asked him why, he behaves like that with you and not her?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 2 minutes after post)

yes i get along with my older sis

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 3 minutes after post)

and iget in trouble 4 saying hate

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 3 minutes after post)

yes i asked and he hit me

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 4 minutes after post)

MeSqware wrote:
and iget in trouble 4 saying hate

then you shouldnt say it

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 5 minutes after post)

i never have and never will say i hate u to a family member

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 5 minutes after post)

MeSqware wrote:
i never have and never will say i hate u to a family member

You just want them to go away and leave you alone

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 6 minutes after post)

i got in trouble for saying it about this girl that was trying to start a fight with me

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 7 minutes after post)

just while i am hanging out with my freinds

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 8 minutes after post)

hmm, well thats a curious situation you have there… i use the word dislike instead of hate,… and when i was younger i never found the way to have my brother react nicely to me, only know that he is older… i suppose the only thing you can do is try to be patient, and find a common ground (something you both like and can agree with)

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 10 minutes after post)

i don’t even say dislike about my family

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 10 minutes after post)

MeSqware wrote:
just while i am hanging out with my freinds

so when your with your freinds you want nothing to do with your famly?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 11 minutes after post)

no what im saying is that he anoys me and my freinds because of stuff he says and does

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 12 minutes after post)

MeSqware wrote:
no what im saying is that he anoys me and my freinds because of stuff he says and does

so you hate him?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 12 minutes after post)

you dont have to say you dislike your family, because im sure you dont, but, you can say you dislike a certain behavior of theirs… i know that when you are with friends its annoying to have your family looming about, but again, all i can really recomend is common ground

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 16 minutes after post)

i am 7 years older than my bro
and some of my frinds and i just want to talk about girl when hes stuff but we can’t when he is around

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 17 minutes after post)

like hot dudes

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 18 minutes after post)

MeSqware wrote:
like hot dudes

sounds like he is doing his job as your parents have told him then

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 21 minutes after post)

dude im thirteen my mom know i am into boys and she respects that and so does my dad so they don’t send my bro around following me

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 22 minutes after post)

You think she respects that, but what she realy does is send your brother to brake up the party

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 22 minutes after post)

LOL,yea,…..how about when he is around you can limit yourself to talk only about celebrities… try to be more patient, i know its difficult to be so, your only thirteen and the world is waiting, its hard to be patient when you are itching to grow up… but theres not much you can do other than love em

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 25 minutes after post)

my dad is never here and he knows that i get tierd of my bro and my moms trying to hook me up with this boy

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 27 minutes after post)

parents are sneaky; only belive 1/2 of what they say, and 1/4 of what they do

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 28 minutes after post)

i might be 13 but im hot and boys are always asking me out

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 29 minutes after post)

my parents say what they want to say because they should

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 30 minutes after post)

MeSqware wrote:
i might be 13 but im hot and boys are always asking me out

lol of course you are

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 30 minutes after post)

MeSqware wrote:
my parents say what they want to say because they should

they should what? be sneaky?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 34 minutes after post)

4 1 are u a boy r girl and 2 sould say what they want

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 35 minutes after post)

well, maybe your lil bro is jealous, why should you be more interested in strange guys, when you have had a cool one all along under the same roof… one who is more fun… but then again idk, and honestly yes parents are sneaky, they have been around the block, dont underestimate them. they are a good source to go to sometimes….erm unless they are more imature than you in that case find another adult

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 37 minutes after post)

MeSqware wrote:
4 1 are u a boy r girl and 2 sould say what they want

I am neather - I am a man

of course your parents say what they want, and what they want is to be sneaky.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 42 minutes after post)

my mom goes to school and why i can go were i want and he goes across the streat
when she gets home he comes home then he ask if he can play with me if my mom says no he makes his self cry so he will let me

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 44 minutes after post)

hello

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 46 minutes after post)

u their

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 51 minutes after post)

yes

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