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i need help.

my roommates are making my life hell. all i do is cry and im so lonely. they talk about me behind my back and lie to me. we used to be best friends and they have changed so much and i hate the people they have become. this seems so childish reading over it but it honestly just all makes me want to give up on everything and not try anymore.

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Chameleon offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 minute after post)

Move out. That’s your answer right there. Find new roommates to live with.

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smootchies4 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (4 minutes after post)

can’t. i signed a lease and i haven’t even been living here that long

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Chameleon offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (9 minutes after post)

Well if it was me and I was that miserable, I’d break the lease.
But you can at least just use your place for sleeping and avoid them as much as you can.

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JHMerril offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (12 minutes after post)

you can get one of them to take over the lease, talk to the landlord and work out something with them. the point is, you need to move. oh and about living with people, this kind of thing happens all the time and you want to keep your lives SEPARATE. different friends, set rules, strict boundaries. i’m telling you, unless everyone happens to be mature enough, that’s what you need to do. think of roommates as roommates and friends as friends.

ciao

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Left offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (3 hours, 14 minutes after post)

Find them someone else to take over your side of the lease.

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thedonutbandit offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (3 hours, 58 minutes after post)

Chameleon wrote:
Well if it was me and I was that miserable, I’d break the lease.
But you can at least just use your place for sleeping and avoid them as much as you can.

agreed. if you can break your lease, do it. you may have to pay a penalty for terminating early, but if you’re sanity/happiness absolutely depends on it, you’re going to need to sacrifice something.

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kam4life offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (6 hours, 19 minutes after post)

i agree with chameleon i hav my own place, after a very nasty split i wrote a poem i wanted too share it with sum1 do u want too read it?

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Atrix offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Plattsburgh, NY, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (20 hours, 33 minutes after post)

get a boyfriend to make you feel better
i have a boyfriend
and he makes me feel good
when my roomates are mean

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kam4life offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (2 weeks, 1 day after post)

Dont giv in2 the idiots if these people cannot be friends with you for whatever reason then that be there problem not yours u just keep on keeping on ok?

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