friends help: I seriously just want somebody to talk to. - Help.com

Jabba jabba hey! Whatcha wanna chat about?

I’m here too, go ahead and spill anything.

Hello?

Shouts :)

I think there’s a private chat thing on here somewhere, but I don’t know how to use it yet.

Snar wrote:
Shouts :)

I think they’re public though…

Click the megaphone on the sidebar beside your name, that gets you to shouts. They are public but not as public as posts, and they are as good as it gets here.

You can add someone as a friend, theres chat facility with pm etc etc
Don’t give out your email address though!!

Nice thing is, people can’t really judge you here because no one really knows anyone.

No problem.

Well, people here are pretty cool anyway.

heather* wrote:
Nice thing is, people can’t really judge you here because no one really knows anyone.

This is true - your next-door neighbour could be pouring her heart out to you on here and you’d never know

Take things slow = )
You can’t just jump back into where it left off and you need to build your trust with this guy back up, as how do that when you get close again he won’t just jump ship

That is a sticky situation. Does he know that he hurt you by not being there for you?

don’t you think it would be good for him to know how you feel about this so that it doesn’t get between the two of you? you know get it all out in the open like a fresh start?

Listen to the monkey - he makes sense.

It would help you explain to him why you can’t just pick up where he thinks you left off - he hurt you and if he wants the two of you to be close again then he needs to know that. You’ve had plenty of time to think about it and move on with your life, but the re-emergence of old friends can stir up old feelings, and that’s perfectly understandable. Just try and be honest with him.

We look forward to it. Take care!

i hope this wont depress or weird you out it is a poem i have done.

Smiles frowns tears that drown,
Pain fear they are all here in a smile that be upside down,
Come and see what lurks deep inside,
Others have found it fun laughing as I have cried,

Past was measuring the worst things that had been,
CHAOS a friend when I was in need,
This pain so real why care for yourself when your viewed,
As some alien being,

Life cripples turns and sways,
Gives with one hand then snatches away,
Cry because happy, sob because I’m sad,
Never knew there would be so much pain since I was a lad,

“Live with it ,it’s only a phase “,
“There is nothing wrong with you or your life”,
Oh those were the days!!!!

Do I know my own mind?
With all those memories sadly both cruel and kind,
Smile wink, did you see me blink?
Assumptions made aspertions cast,
HA! Easy life you are having a laugh,

Just give a break for one ******* day,
You be me and then see what you have to say,
Think I’m a layabout? ,Sponge? lout?,
If you can’t understand then **** you of that there is no doubt,
Pain be real, A measure hard to FIND,
But keep pushing! ,pushing , pushing,
Ding! Ding! Ding!
Break! Break! Break!

It’s not a case of judging a book by it’s cover,
Take someone’s control & leave them bare
Give them a set of twisted rules they cannot understand & dare not share,
Throw in a mixture of abuse pain & doubt watch the sanest nicest demon pop out,
I’ve beat myself so many times not thinking I was being cruel or unkind,
This was my worth all I could be a nasty selfish non entity,
All the makings of something truly horrific its true,
But stop!!! For one second put the shoe on the other foot ,
What if this was you.

Kam4death.

even if u dont want 2 chat pls giv me sum input on this.

Sorry I just dropped out last night, my internet crashed.

Hi, Its actually nothing but human to feel the need to be spoken to and cared about. I get similar feelings. You must also take into account whether the friends around you really care for you or they are friends only when they need you. They should not be taking you for granted. It happened to me and my girlfriend really does take me for granted. Sometimes I feel I am being used.

Trust me, best way to solve this feeling of lonliness is to keep exploring new social goups, people whom you may find intrest in. You might end up finding your best friend ever. Well I am still trying to find one for me…. be positive. That’s how I control my feelings.

hi jus 4ort id leave u a post ithink 2 c if u ok and that i did want too know havn postd a picture of urself would u recommend it? take care