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IveGottaGrow offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (5 minutes after post)

Thanks. Good to know I’m not going psycho. :P

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dadaism offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (55 minutes after post)

We are the sum of our experiences - all those people he’s been with and cared for have helped shape the person you love today. It’s easier said than done, but your jealousy should really be appreciation. Think about your own situation: would you really be able to relate to him the way you do today without all of the other people you’ve cared about in your life?

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IveGottaGrow offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 14 minutes after post)

Dadaism -
I can’t really say I’m appreciative of those girls being with him, but more that they messed up and gave me the chance to love him. But, I do see your point. Much thanks :)

Opeth -
Thank you. He reminds me of that all the time, and lets me know he’ll never compare me to any of his past girlfriends.

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eoghanharri offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (3 hours, 18 minutes after post)

its ok to think it for a while, but if it continues, its bad, its obsession and infatuation. get over it,

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 week, 5 days after post)

i have experienced the same thing & i very well know how it feels coz u dont wanna share him or his love with anyone else and yet wanna tell the world that yeah he’s my man! and i think its absolutely normal and sane coz in my view it only shows how much u love and need him in your life.

but yes, sumone put it right that those persons[his g/fs] in his past and his relationship with them in whatever manner has sumhow moulded him into the person he’s today but more than that today u shud be glad that more than their or anyone else’s influence,its ur presence in his life that matters to him the most. just thank god that u have him with u and i beleive long distance relationship require a bit more of effort than the usual,but they are indeed more intense in my opinion so just hold onto him and give him all the love in the world that u can! gud luck!

Anubha.

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My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship and happy as ever. We talk everyday on the phone and when he’s able to go home and have time off from work, we fall asleep on the phone together. Well, last night as we were talking he brought up something that made me think of him and his ex-girlfriends in an intimate way. He asked what I was thinking and I told him. He apologized, saying he didn’t mean for me to think of that and asked how it made me feel. It was on the tip of my tongue but I just couldn’t figure out the exact feeling. I told him it was maybe a bit like jealousy, and I was sorry that I couldn’t explain it exactly. Well, he’d fallen asleep not long after and I stayed up trying to sort out what emotions I felt when that subject was brought up. After a long night I think I’ve finally figured it out, so here goes…

I’m envious of every girl thats ever been on his mind, any girl he’s ever smiled at or loved. I’m envious of every girl thats ever touched, kissed, cuddled, held hands or been with him intimately. Even though I know I get to do all that and so much more.. I just can’t help but feel this way. This man is my one, my soulmate. And even though I know it’s only natural for him to have been with other girls, I hate the fact that I’ve had to share my love with anyone else.. even when I didn’t know him. I wish I could tie him up and lock him in a closet so no one can steal him away. Yet on the other hand, I want to show him off to the rest of the world and be like, “yeah, this is my baby!”

So, what am I? Selfish? I mean… is this a normal feeling?

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