lot help: There are lot of people in help.com who like to judge people and also compare. - Help.com

To get solutions to certain problems, judging is a must, as well as comparing…

can you tell me how it is good to judge and compare in certain problems ?

Stop complaining and ask a real question

How can you solve something you don’t know about?
How can you do recommendations if you don’t know how the situation is like, and you don’t know the people?

Criticizing is something we all do, and it’s necessary for lots of things…
We’re used to live in groups, so we’ve a tendency to create groups too (for example racism), we also have some kind of guide and we compare things with that guide (that generally is how we would like things to be like)

AmandaLynn wrote:
Part of being part of society and the human race and interacting with them on a computer program that links all these various people together in one place to talk about one subject matter.

what is this got to do with people in help.com who like to judge people and also compare.

Many of the problems here involve moral decisions - it’s not really possible to give advice on that sort of thing without making moral judgments and that usually involves implicit judgments on the people making the choices. When you say such-and-such is wrong, it implies that someone who does such-and-such is wrong for acting that way. Many of us immediatly jump to the personal judgment when giving advice because, despite what you may have heard, most people, especially young people, respond better to social chastisement than to careful reasoning and logical analysis of a problem. Unfortunate, and not true for everyone, but that’s the way it is.

what about the people who make judgment, like looking down on person because they are poor and come from developing country because of lack of opportunity. Is it really good to judge them because they do not live up to a standard of a person who lives in a developed country.

AmandaLynn wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

AmandaLynn wrote:
Part of being part of society and the human race and interacting with them on a computer program that links all these various people together in one place to talk about one subject matter.

what is this got to do with people in help.com who like to judge people and also compare.

Becasue.. just before that i said taht society is full of peopel with different opinons and backgrounds and thoughts. You get a bunch of them together on a computer program called help.com (or websight more specifically)… your bound to get some who critizise, speak their own mind with no regard to others, some who agree and some who ..well.. whatever. … thats what it has to do with people who like to judge peopel and compare. Your bound to get some on here, theres lots out there in this big world. Its how they grew up or became due to how they let their life sitations effect them.

ok..

If you’ve gotten a rude reply anon, you can always report the person. We try to keep this place helpful, and you’d be helping by reporting someone that judges people for those things you mentioned.

Anonymous wrote:
what about the people who make judgment, like looking down on person because they are poor and come from developing country because of lack of opportunity. Is it really good to judge them because they do not live up to a standard of a person who lives in a developed country.

I’ve found this place to be absolutely fantastic, with a lot of people that give a lot of useful advice. Hell, in some cases this site has saved a persons life. Yes, there will be some people that will judge others, but this judgement will usually be based on one of their posts or replies. For example, the only person that I truly disliked on this site, I had good reasons for not liking him.

Comparing people and situations is also often a good way to give advice. It’s what a lot of peoples replies are based on - comparing the posters problems to your own experiences that may be similar. Doing this allows the person who is replying to tell the poster what worked from them, what did not work for them, etc.

why?
well because they are unhappy with themselves and judge people on here to make themselves be better, or because they have nothing else better to do with their time but to medel in other people’s business