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She’s and addict…and she’s come back to the habit…

you have to sympathize with her, smoking is fun.

2511 wrote:
She’s and addict…and she’s come back to the habit…

Yeah, you just have to try to get her some help, does she try any of those nicotene away things? like the patch or the gum?

only the smell i guess but its harder then you think to quit any habit just show her that u really want her to stop if she quit before maybe she will do it again she could of started back up cause of stress

2Hazel wrote:
you have to sympathize with her, smoking is fun.

:/

it is a little.

qtdeedee0 wrote:
only the smell i guess but its harder then you think to quit any habit just show her that u really want her to stop if she quit before maybe she will do it again she could of started back up cause of stress

Well my grndmother died last week.
[ my mothers mother]

I Dont get it , because she “hates”
smoking.
Well i thought she did =/

Should i go downstairs and ask her while shes alone , because my dads sleeping?
But i dont know what to say?

tell her you was proud of her when she quit n now you have a feeling that she started back up n you dont undertand y she would do that

She started smoking again because her mom just died. Cut her some slack. Tell her privately that you know she smoked and you understand why but you hope she’ll quit again soon when she’s feeling stronger and that you’re there for her to support her when she’s ready.

Sorry but im not just gonna sit back and watch this happen.
I understand shes depressed and such
but still , theres no reason to lie to me and my dad.

Im going to talk to her tomorrow
thanks for help everyone
x

smoking is deadly.i know so many who have died because of this terrible drug.

Stand your grounds huni!! I think you should talk to her but remember you can do this nicely… Dont focus on the negitive things. tell her all the graet things that came out of her not smoking!!!!

Maybe even talk to your dad will help, if you to have a good relationship he might understand and not say anything to her,, then he can say things to your mum such as ” your skin has began to shin sence you stopped smoking, your so beautiful, im proud of you!” Yes i know this is cheesy.. Or b4 you talk to her you could try complementing her lots about no smoking like you dont know… spending as much time as you can with her will make it harded for her to sneak off for one.
She uses this as a fix, maybe if your with her more you can be her fix!!
Good Luck

xxxjessica wrote:
Stand your grounds huni!! I think you should talk to her but remember you can do this nicely… Dont focus on the negitive things. tell her all the graet things that came out of her not smoking!!!!Maybe even talk to your dad will help, if you to have a good relationship he might understand and not say anything to her,, then he can say things to your mum such as ” your skin has began to shin sence you stopped smoking, your so beautiful, im proud of you!” Yes i know this is cheesy.. Or b4 you talk to her you could try complementing her lots about no smoking like you dont know… spending as much time as you can with her will make it harded for her to sneak off for one.She uses this as a fix, maybe if your with her more you can be her fix!!Good Luck

Thanks Thats Really Helpful
I Will talk to my dad about it tomorrow when hes back from work
and then eventually talk to her about it when im sure

Thanks Everyone!:D