Love help: Hello, i’m a drill sergean at fort knox, ky, i went threw a bad devorce wher i lost everything that i had. - Help.com

OMG You poor guy. I don’t know how your ex can live with herself. Doesn’t anyone in this world have any sense of right and wrong anymore. She goes off with another man and she expects YOU to pay. And some ******* judge AGREES. Perhaps she’s blowing him too, why else would any self respecting person allow the selfish ***** to bleed you dry like that. If she has found someone else, surely he can provide for her. If he has subsequently left her, then she should eat humble pie and provide for herself like thousands of other women out there.

I hope your current wife loves you enough to stand by you. If not I serious hope she doesn’t try to screw you too and expect you to pay for another family. It’s not fair and you have my sympathies (though I wouldn’t know what to do either). Perhaps you could put your story in the papers or something. Having said that the twats will probably sue you for slander and thanks to the warped legal systems, win. I think, unless you have a good reason for leaving someone you should not expect more than the minumum from the man. Maybe if these woman had to raise the children without support they wouldn’t be so quick to F-off with other men at the drop of a hat. I would stick by the man I married and IF I had to leave I wouldn’t expect a penny. It’s my decision, why punish him.

Good Luck, and chin up.

well if youve been to combat, get a rifle and take care of it, and claim ptsd.