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Iv’e just agreed to go out with a guy.

he’s a little on the wild side.
it bothers me that he wants to keep it quiet because there are some guys giving him trouble and he doesn’t want them to connect me to him. he seems really sweet to me but a really agressive with everyone else. my friends say leave him well alone, but my instincts are telling me to try him out. I see it being more than just one date but maybe that’s just me and i can’t help but wonder if he just wants sex, you can guess the type (you know put a few guys in hospital, heading towards prisons into everything and anything illegal) i’m the complete opposite now but i used to be like that. now i would much rather watching one tree hill with a cup of tea than going out and trying everything twice. help. should i give him a try??

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (20 minutes after post)

I see red flags all over the place. “you know put a few guys in hospital, heading towards prisons into everything and anything illegal” That description does not sound like he’s a “little” on the wild side. I would say that if you’re done with that lifestyle, then you may not really want to be with this guy. Also, if he’s “really agressive with everyone else”, eventually he will be with you, too. I’d say be careful.

I see red flags all over the place. "you know put a few guys in hospital, heading towards prisons into everything and anything illegal" That description does not sound like he's a "little" on the wild side. I would say that if you're done with that lifestyle, then you may not really want to be with this guy. Also, if he's "really agressive with everyone else", eventually he will be with you, too. I'd say be careful.

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rolfkartof #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (21 minutes after post)

Being physically aggressive means hes not in control of his feelings and emotions take over his common sense. (as is the case with little kids…). While that might come out as cute, spontaneous or whatever, when he is in a good mood, it means jelling and fighting when hes not.
For a guy that lacks self control, i’d say mood swings are pretty common.

Being physically aggressive means hes not in control of his feelings and emotions take over his common sense. (as is the case with little kids...). While that might come out as cute, spontaneous or whatever, when he is in a good mood, it means jelling and fighting when hes not. For a guy that lacks self control, i'd say mood swings are pretty common.

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kathleen 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (22 minutes after post)

do you think i can change a guy like that?

do you think i can change a guy like that?

Help me with: I’m madly inlove with him and he doesn’t know.

n #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (24 minutes after post)

No one can change anyone else.

No one can change anyone else.

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rolfkartof #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (26 minutes after post)

*therapist

*therapist

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kathleen 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (32 minutes after post)

i guess a part of me just wanted someone to say take a chance on this guy, he clearly needs someone stable in his life. maybe that’s not my job. thanks for making me really think about this, really. it helps when it’s not a friend you see everyday and honest person’s opinion who isn’t trying to sweeten everything (god how i hate that)

i guess a part of me just wanted someone to say take a chance on this guy, he clearly needs someone stable in his life. maybe that's not my job. thanks for making me really think about this, really. it helps when it's not a friend you see everyday and honest person's opinion who isn't trying to sweeten everything (god how i hate that)

Help me with: I’m madly inlove with him and he doesn’t know.

beatricegalant 9 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 29 minutes after post)

The guy is trouble and you are going to be in a big trouble by dating such a person. You can end up in jail or even worse. Forget about him and move on. You put your life together so don’t ruin it now. There are tons of nice, clean guys out there for you.

The guy is trouble and you are going to be in a big trouble by dating such a person. You can end up in jail or even worse. Forget about him and move on. You put your life together so don't ruin it now. There are tons of nice, clean guys out there for you.

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