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Very strange situation..

I’m going to try and resume it.
Well, first, I made a big mistake by moving from one country to another. There is no possibility to return. It was not what I expected and feel like I’ve made a HUGE mistake. I feel as if this is all a dream and I will be back soon, and I will be back home, in my bed. I feel like none of this is real, but a dream. I know it sounds crazy. Because of this, I show no importance to anything, school, life in general, what I say, etc. I have even tried to prove to myself that this is real. I know I sound insane. I have also felt very depressed, and when I am depressed it is the only moment I feel as if everything was not a dream.
How do I stop this?

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Very strange situation..
I’m going to try and resume it.
Well, first, I made a big mistake by moving from one country to another. There is no possibility to return. It was not what I expected and feel like I’ve made a HUGE mistake. I feel as if this is all a dream and I will be back soon, and I will be back home, in my bed. I feel like none of this is real, but a dream. I know it sounds crazy. Because of this, I show no importance to anything, school, life in general, what I say, etc. I have even tried to prove to myself that this is real. I know I sound insane. I have also felt very depressed, and when I am depressed it is the only moment I feel as if everything was not a dream.
How do I stop this? (age=14)

calai22 2 #
Rio De Janeiro, 21, BR | 1 year, 3 months ago (9 minutes after post)

couldn’t you try to be happy where you are?

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Hi_Sai 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (18 minutes after post)

You just have to stick it out and hope that things will look up.

Ah well…Where I live they have these ads. “Training is the opposite of hoping.”

So…If you’re a go-getter than MAKE things better.

Goodluck, and sorry if I didn’t help much.

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Anonymous #
1 year, 3 months ago (23 minutes after post)

calai22 wrote:
couldn’t you try to be happy where you are?

I feel like I was better off in where I was before, because of many reasons. I had friends there, and here, I don’t. My school was much better there than here. Quality of life was better there in general. No one has spoken to me other than my family in months, except for the ocasional ‘Can I borrow your pencil?’ from classmates. The only reason I moved here was because I had most of my family here. I’ve tried to make friends here but people are way too different.

Neutra 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 19 minutes after post)

Try to create new dreams where you are. Maybe your suppose to be where you are to make a difference. Make a big goal, no, a lot of goals and work on them and make a name for yourself in your new home.

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*Dorien* TTYL 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (8 hours, 40 minutes after post)

Sai_Pie wrote:
You just have to stick it out and hope that things will look up.

Ah well…Where I live they have these ads. “Training is the opposite of hoping.”

So…If you’re a go-getter than MAKE things better.

Goodluck, and sorry if I didn’t help much.

I agree.

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somanywalls_solittle 9 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 day, 19 hours after post)

don’t just let them borrow a pencil. engage them in convo, and go from there. you can’t just expect people to jump up and run to you to make a conversation. if you can, go sit outside, and marvel at the beauty of the world your in, and don’t compare it to the world you were in before. in essence, make the best of what you have. and don’t expect others to do for you what you should do for yourself.

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Anonymous #
1 year, 3 months ago (1 day, 22 hours after post)

somanywalls_solittle wrote:
don’t just let them borrow a pencil. engage them in convo, and go from there. you can’t just expect people to jump up and run to you to make a conversation. if you can, go sit outside, and marvel at the beauty of the world your in, and don’t compare it to the world you were in before. in essence, make the best of what you have. and don’t expect others to do for you what you should do for yourself.

Thank you.
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Lacuna 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (3 days, 15 hours after post)

wake up

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