Family help: Okay, if Karma is supposed to go around, then when is it coming?

kerri_lefebvr

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Okay, if Karma is supposed to go around, then when is it coming?

I have had a steady streak of bad luck, stress, and major marital issues. This is not to mention the constant struggle with finances. And to top it all off I live with my family. I have 3 kids and my relative has 4, and I just found out shes losing the house. I have no where to go, my mom abandoned me when I was 16 so no luck there, my father is disabled and lives with another relative, I do work but don’t make much more than minimum some one PLEASE HELP.

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Wonderousness edited this post 1 year, 3 months ago. Read the previous text »

okay, if carma is suppost to go round when js jt coming, i have had a steady streak of bad luck,stress , and major marital issues,this is not to mention the costant struggle with finances , and to top it all off i live with family, i have 3 kids and my relative has 4, and i just found out shes losing the house. i have no where to go,my mom abandoned me when i was 16 so no luck there, my father is disabled and lives with another relative, i do work but don’t make much more than minimum some one PLEASE HELP

Help me with: Within the first two months of being a driver I’ve gotten into a minor accident and have had a ticket.

Wonderousness 14 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (7 minutes after post)

Karma is not something you sit around and wait for. Karma acts on those who feel are helping themselves. Maybe Karma is acting on bad things you’ve done in the past and feels you aren’t ready or worthy for a flow of good things. They say Karma is like a wave. The further it goes back, the less water you have next to your (Bad.) but that only means eventually there will be a lot of water rushing toward you. (Good.)

You say you live with your family, but from what I read and edited it seems like you only live with kids. Have you not tried to find a man? Someone who can help support you? 3 kids is a pretty big turn off, but I know there are people out there who are more than welcome to this fact that there are women with children. If you’ve had 3 children I can’t imagine you’re terrible looking. I’m sorry I can’t provide funds, but you should go out there in the world and be on the look out for someone who can help you and stop waiting around expecting a magically force to grant you the good you think you deserve.

Help me with: Within the first two months of being a driver I’ve gotten into a minor accident and have had a ticket.

Wonderousness edited this post 1 year, 3 months ago. Read the previous text »

Okay, if Karma is suppossed to go round, then when is it coming? I have had a steady streak of bad luck,stress, and major marital issues. This is not to mention the constant struggle with finances. And to top it all off I live with family. I have 3 kids and my relative has 4, and I just found out shes losing the house. I have no where to go, my mom abandoned me when I was 16 so no luck there, my father is disabled and lives with another relative, I do work but don’t make much more than minimum some one PLEASE HELP.

Help me with: Within the first two months of being a driver I’ve gotten into a minor accident and have had a ticket.

Chameleon 72 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (17 minutes after post)

Here’s how I see karma:

If you treat others badly, karma will let life crap in your lap with no restrictions.

If you treat others kindly, karma will prevent some horrible things from happening that you never even knew were coming your way.

Who knows what all karma has saved you from already? Maybe cancer of the face. Black Hairy Tongue Disease (it’s real, and it’s gross). The death of a child. A disfiguring illness. Paralysis. Assault. Getting hit by a bus.

Any of those things could have been coming your way, but due to the good karma you sent out, they were stopped.

Life events are like rain - karma is the umbrella. It can stop some (not all) or it can close up and let it all hit you.

kerri_lefebvr 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (19 minutes after post)

first of all i was asking for advice not your ignorant comments, i have a “man” i have been married for a long time but hes out of statefor a while….that would be another subject.my looks … has nothing to do with finding a man… obviously you must be very immature to have posted a comment like that to some one who is going through what i am, i work a min. of 50 hours a week, i take care of my children, have a big heart your money would be worthless to me. Why dont you take a look at the world and realize material is not worth as much as actually feeling happy. those of us who have actually been through hard times would be the only ones who realize this

kerri_lefebvr 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (21 minutes after post)

chameleon thank you for perspective on karma , that helped out much better than the other insulting post

Chameleon 72 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (52 minutes after post)

Have you tried contacting Family Services and seeing if they can help with finding a place FAST or at least a place to stay in the time it takes you to save up enough for a rental? (Maybe they could get you in some free training program or something so you could get a better paying/less hours job?).
I feel for ya Kerri. I’m going through hard times right now myself so I understand.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (2 months after post)

Hi Kerri,

I am truly sorry to read of your unfortunate circumstances. Please believe me when I say I can not only sympathise, but also empathise. I notice that my response is a couple month later than the ones I have read. (Sorry you had to put up with those who want to lecture. I know that is not what you need!) I am praying for you, and hope things are getting better. I also agree that marriage is not something a person just throws away during difficult times. Challenges, I believe, happen for a reason. They certainly humble us, but can help us to grow and become more like the people we should be. I’m sorry that all I have to offer is encouragement. May blessings abound for you and your family…

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