friends help: long story short - in debt, lost job, new job doesn’t pay enough money, moved in with b-friend 4 mos. - Help.com

deadfishdo
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long story short - in debt, lost job, new job doesn’t pay enough money, moved in with b-friend 4 mos.

ago (at his request), he’s broken up with me now coz he’s decided he doesnt want to live with me AND my 15 year old son; now I have no money to spare, bad credit rating and no idea of how I’m going to pay rent, let alone first and last months. I feel like I’m going mad and the heart is ripping out because I’ve messed up my son’s life so badly. what the hell amI gonna do.

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lexy32 offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 14 minutes after post)

Dead Fish-
I logged onto this site looking for answers. I am in almost the same situation. I lost my job 8 months ago. I cannot find even a minimum wage job and my savings is just about gone. Thank God I had some savings to live on for the past 8 months. Where do you live? I am in Michigan. I have a three bedroom house and could really use a roommate. I certainly don’t mind your son moving in. I have two spare bedrooms. I also have two dogs that you will have to put up with. I live in a very safe community with excellent schools.

Let me know if this will help you. i> small>(email removed) /small> /i>

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lexy32 offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 16 minutes after post)

Shoot, the email didn’t show up. It is the name at the top, add a 4 at the end of it at comcast dot net. (see if it works this time.) Maybe we can lean on each other for moral support. But, we WILL be OK.

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Tnicolle offline Verified User (4 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (2 hours, 6 minutes after post)

That would be cool if she lived where you are. But try the churches and as Anubis would say try www.digitalcharity.com.
Ha Ha Anubis. Beat you to it. But try your local churches and try the Salvation Army. I wish you luck babe. Don’t feel bad though. we all go through stuff. I have 4 kids and I know they’ve been frustrated. Just dust yourself off, and try again. Kids are forgiving. Just be careful who you bring him around.

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girlinra offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (7 hours, 16 minutes after post)

omg,, i wisg=h f i was close that i couldhelp u,,im realy sorry pleas pleas dont gave up,, ther are many jobs u can do and maybe you should move off america and go to a ccountry on whch u can make money easily ,, try to contact me about wat happing wd u ,,cuz im realy sad here.

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