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I think it is time to get a new shrink.

How old are you?

Why were you seeing the shrink in the first place?

No offense, but it sounds like your shrink is whack job and isn’t helping.

So how did she come up? The shrink shouldn’t be talking about that. What caused your depression?

Well, I guess you will just have to wait and see what happens with her. Judging by her reaction, it doesn’t seem like she is ready yet. In the meantime, seriously, get a new shrink. This one is no good.

No no, you didn’t lose her, and she isn’t the only one. There will be other chances, but this isn’t over yet. Have you spoken to her about it? What did she say?

What did she say after you told her?

Ah, typical girl response, actually. That could be a bad thing, but it is unlikely. Usually it just means what they said (I know, this is one of the few times a girl actually means what she says) and she just wants to think it over. Giving her a little time is a good thing, but don’t give up on her.

Did you actually tell her, that your shrink told you, that you need to kiss her??

Dude, even if you haven’t dated a thing before, there’s a common sense that tells you: “don’t ******* do it!”

jaybob151 wrote:
yes i said my shrink said i need to kiss you to grow in my life. to know if you care for me or not

dude…really…for the next time…DON’T YOU EVER SAY THAT AGAIN…

It makes you look not only in a stupid childish way, but also shows her that you lack confidence…and girls love guys who have trust in themselves…

Ok…now…before going any further…how old is she, and tell me about your relationship…
Let’s seek for a way to fix this…

jaybob151 wrote:
she is 17 i am 18. i am not dateing her so she saids but i been seeing her for 5 weeks and we hold hands about walk and hold hand and see moives and she know i never dated. but she never said how she feel for me but she knows how i feel for her.

ok…can she fall for a comment like this “it was a joke”?

It’d really help you out….

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mmmm…I can’t say you’ll be able to get her as a gf…maybe as a friend…have you talked to her since that?

And why can’t you be her friend?

Well, if you love her so much, what could be better than be there when she needs you, to be next to her…

Besides, if it’s your first dating, I don’t think you’ve real experience about love (the real love)

Man…there are lots of women out there…this is your first try, and that’s why you’re acting in this way…besides, you probably wanted something like this to happen for a long time, so that makes your feeling even stronger…

It’ll probably be something that won’t be easy for you, but believe me, there’s ppl out there that had much more meaningful relationships, harder problems to solve, and even with that, they’re fine now…

even so, you should talk to her…

Your shrink should never be telling you what to do. I doubt very much that any shrink said this to you. He or she might have said, “So why don’t you kiss her?” or “So what is stopping you from kissing her if you want to?” or something like that, but they never give orders.

If you’re telling the truth, you really DO need to get a new shrink. This one is way out of line.