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K, my sister, and her daughter are fighting, only this time its physical.

just a couble of pushes, some scratches and 2 light punches between the two. only happened once before, when the daughter was caught having a drinking party while my sister was gone for the weekend. my sister is 33, liberal, and is liberal with her daughter a bit as well. the daughter is 14, rebelling, has smoked pot, we suspect her of taking e one night and stealing, and all of this started when she met a girl ill kall K. K comes from a rougher family, but not too bad. she thinks her mom is a “crazy B****” as said by the daughter. facts are fuzzy, but there might be some truth there. the daughter and K have been hanging out with some older, 16-17 year old boys. now, i have some ideas but id like to hear some from anyone who has one. now remember, this is happening as we speak, they’ve calmed down and they’re seperated in different rooms, but i dont know how long itll last

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K, my sister, and her daughter are fighting, only this time its physical. just a couble of pushes, some scratches and 2 light punches between the two. only happened once before, when the daughter was caught having a drinking party while my sister was gone for the weekend. my sister is 33, liberal, and is liberal with her daughter a bit as well. the daughter is 14, rebelling, has smoked pot, we suspect her of taking e one night and stealing, and all of this started when she met a girl ill kall K. K comes from a rougher family, but not too bad. she thinks her mom is a “crazy B****” as said by the daughter. facts are fuzzy, but there might be some truth there. the daughter and K have been hanging out with some older, 16-17 year old boys. now, i have some ideas but id like to hear some from anyone who has one. now remember, this is happening as we speak, they’ve calmed down and they’re seperated in different rooms, but i dont know how long itll last

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (15 minutes after post)

try given your daughter more opertunities and shell come closer to you!! Have some fun with her and her friend k at you house! tell them to bring the boys maybe… But do something fun maybe like throughing a small party. Just telling her no all the time will push her away, her friend sounds like she needs a good mums support like yours, be there so her. as for your sister.. Hmmm

(if younger ppl are treated more responsibly the act more responsible)

Try get your sister to do more thinks for her that are “kool” like pick her up from school or something and stop into get an ice cream on the way home or even give her a glass of wine with dinner one time.
this way she will want to show you she’s responsible!

Tell me how things are in a week or two…

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An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (15 minutes after post)

reminds me of the movie Thirteen …. i have no idea what u or ur sister can do with her daughter but just try and help her as much as possible

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Gloversville, NY, US | 3 months, 1 week ago (28 minutes after post)

as a child of that age.. this is expected… rebellion of wanting to be grown up.. they arent seeing that they are still a child.. and have to listen to the parent.. my suggestion is to call the police and have her put on pins… this way, she will be given drug tests and such..

this does not mean that she will be taken from the home.. as my step son was and is going back on it.. as he is totally out of control with the same issues.. and he is 16 now..

they do a weekly visit to the home in which they will talk and and over look the issues.. almost like a guidance person..

it is to help the child and the mother so that the child doesnt get taken from the home..

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (14 hours, 10 minutes after post)

its the morning after and the daughter is sitting on the steps saying shes leaving, the mother, ny sister, has gone to work, and theres a friend of the daughter coming to talk to her…as the battle continues….

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (14 hours, 11 minutes after post)

correction *the mother, My sister* spelling error

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K, my sister, and her daughter are fighting, as we speak, only this time its physical. just a couble of pushes, some scratches and 2 light punches between the two. only happened once before, when the daughter was caught having a drinking party while my sister was gone for the weekend. my sister is 33, liberal, and is liberal with her daughter a bit as well. the daughter is 14, rebelling, has smoked pot, we suspect her of taking e one night and stealing, and all of this started when she met a girl ill kall K. K comes from a rougher family, but not too bad. she thinks her mom is a “crazy B****” as said by the daughter. facts are fuzzy, but there might be some truth there. the daughter and K have been hanging out with some older, 16-17 year old boys. now, i have some ideas but id like to hear some from anyone who has one. now remember, this is happening as we speak, they’ve calmed down and they’re seperated in different rooms, but i dont know how long itll last

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