Love help: this is how i feel about someone that i cant be with. - Help.com

Tell her. What have you got to lose?

i have nothing to lose, but we cant be together, and its only gunna make her feel worse, because i know she wants to be with me too, but she cant. and i dont wanna make this harder for her then it has to be

if u dont tell her you will wish you did in the long run just tell her so you dont have to live with it inside of you

i really wish i could

Very Romeo and Juliet.

Why doesn’t her dad want you guys together? What’s stopping you?
Do you know how hard it is to find someone you love that reciprocates that feeling?

im 18 and shes 15

Hmm… I see.

Maybe wait till she’s 16? If you guys really love eachother that will help.
Ofcourse her dad is not gonna be happy, but fathers like that are always gonna be protective.

it wont happen. i could argue with you all night, but its never gunna happen. her dad wont listen. he doesnt understand. hes unwilling to understand and listen.

so cant u guys be together but keep it a secret

Thats the sweetest thing I have heard in awhile!!! I wish you would send that to her or tell her somehow!!

we secretly were goin out for 7 months before her dad found out. if he finds out again, both me n her will be done. n since it happend before, hes gunna be watching for it, and i dont wanna take a risk and get her in trouble. she doesnt need this

How old is she if you dont mind me asking? If she is 18 then screw her dad, theres really nothing he can do.

n i havent seen her since june 17th. but last night, i saw her n i gave her a hug n kissed her. and thats what makes me want her back so much. i was tryin to be stong and try to realize that ill never be with her, but after last night. it all went out the window n ive fallin in love with her all over again. and if i never get to be with her again, i dont know what id do

shes 15

how ever her dad found out last time just dont let it happen again

my ex was at cheerleading camp and one of the cheerleaders accidently said that she was with me. her dad is gunna be watchin for us to be together. hes gunna have people watchin. thats the kind of guy he is. there is no chance of us bein together or seein each other

im gettin off. thank you for talking to me. i still dont know if im gunna tell her that or not… goodnight everyone!

I just want to let you know that you are not alone and I know EXACTLY how you feel.
I have a friend who I love more than anything in the world and I am not allowed to be with him mostly because of our age difference. We fell in love and saw each other secretly when we could. Sometimes I would sneak out at night and go see him. I havent seen him since June 15th and I would do anything just for him to hold me once more. Just know your not alone. Best wishes!

thanks!

awwww nite nite

no problem

Its nice to know I am not the only one with this kind of issue

Anonymous wrote:
my ex was at cheerleading camp and one of the cheerleaders accidently said that she was with me. her dad is gunna be watchin for us to be together. hes gunna have people watchin. thats the kind of guy he is. there is no chance of us bein together or seein each other

Wow that’s like a book I just read. You never know who’s watching

I think you should still let her know how you feel and wait till she’s 18 then her fater has no say in it because you love eachother

the point is maybe she will feel bad or have troubles, but tell her or this going to be another big regret. dont keep anything inside of you and she will be happy if she knows how much you love and care about her,,her dad hasn’t the rite to tell her who is good for her and who is not ,she is the only one how can decide this for her self, and if she loves you as u do, nothing will stop her of being with you.

when her dad found out, he grounded her for the summer n just got off grounding. he will ground her again if we get caught again. last night i was thinkin, and i am gunna tell her. i know how im gunna say it to her too. thanks again for the help. i really appreciate it

i really wanna tell her in person, but idk when the next time ill see her is. and we can only tlk on aim. we cant tlk on the phone. its gunna be really hard for me to tell her how i feel, but im goin to

Could you tell her you want to call her when you are talking on aim and have her use a pay phone when she is alone?

Anonymous wrote:
i really wanna tell her in person, but idk when the next time ill see her is. and we can only tlk on aim. we cant tlk on the phone. its gunna be really hard for me to tell her how i feel, but im goin to

i am really happy that you are going to tell her. :)
i hope things work out great for you 2. dont let anyone separate you guys coz they are not the boss of you.
p.s stay in love :)

that wont work anonymous. i aint gunna say what happend, but after last night, idk if im gunna tell her. maybe its better if she doesnt know. sorry to bring u down

im not gunna tell her how i feel. im sorry

Anonymous wrote:
im not gunna tell her how i feel. im sorry

why not? take a chance:) if you dont try you will never know if she would have said yes.
your future will be filled with questions of wat if’s. please, i am asking from the bottom of my heart. tell her. (if u do this, u’d be doing smthing that will inspire me to do smthing i have been trying to do for a while):)
i give u my blessing. :)

its only gunna make her feel worse. what are you saying about her saying yes. we have already been together. we both love each other, but just cant be together. i cant go back out with her because of her dad.

ohh…..
why cant you go back out with her coz of her dad?

yes, cuz her dad. n im not even allowd to hang out with her or tlk to her.

oh amn thats rough.
how are you dealing with that?

depression. i think about her non stop. no matter what i do, i cant get her off my mind. and i keep thinkin about her goin out with my friend. idk if he really is my friend tho. but i think too much. and thats what makes me depressed. i havent felt worse in my life ever before. theres nothing to do anymore. no one to hang out iwth anymore. my life sucks!!!

no your life doesnt suck:)
for now just stick close by. be her very best friend, be there for her.
i hope she will soon realize what she is missing.
form what i can see you are the best thing that has ever happened to her:]

anonymous poet. u dont understand. i cant be her best friend. i can only tlk to her on aim, but thats maybe 3 times a week, if that. i cant be there for her. i really wish i could. i wouldnt say that im the best thing to happen to her, its the other way around. i wish i could be happy again. i was happy all the time with her.

but now i NEED to move on. i need to face reality that i wont ever be with her. i need to realize she will be with someone else. i need to realize i need to get over her. its only making everything worse.

i love how sometimes im perfectly fine and accept it. but the next minute, im all depressed. like right now, after i read a message she sent me on myspace, i see no point in livin. but im not gunna kill myself. and sometimes im all happy that i at least had the chance to be with her.

but I THINK ABOUT HER NON STOP!!! i literally need to force myself to not think about her. and that rarely works.

and i just gave up smoking weed. but i think im gunna go back to smoking because that is the only thing that makes me not depressed when i think about my situation. thats the only time i can have fun.

im sorry everyone. but ive decided to give up. with everything!!! im sorry to let you all down. i hope you all have a good life, cuz i wont.

no dont go back on weed. at least if you are gonna move on do it the right way.
dont worry, things will work themselves out. she may not have been the one for you but then again that means there is still someone out there for you:)

im on a non stop rollercoaster ride. i was just with my ex. not planned. and we smoked weed n she kissd me. im gunna regret what happend tomorrow. but i guess i godda live with it. i need to not think about it as much. i need to realize its over.

seeing her today just made me want her back, like it did maybe a week ago that i saw her.

i hate this.

i hope it gets better for you.
i really do:)
i know how you feel coz something similar to your problem is happening to me.